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By *ngdan3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Hi all, so Ive been on here about 6 months. Put some effort into my profile and have been honest. I must send about 10-15 unique msgs a day to single ladies. Ive had zero interest in me. Am I expecting too much ??

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Looks like you’ve had a couple of meets? So doing much better than a lot of single men on here

Kiki

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate

Honestly, in my humble opinion, the profile needs to lose the sordid details - it literally turns a woman’s Fanny to sawdust.

And lose the cock pics, make them private. Nobody wants to see it.

Say more about your personality, what your interest and ideal fab meet might be; about the type of woman you would really like to meet. Not how you want them to nosh you off.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing. Anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero interest but 2 meets, you're doing well mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sending messages because you like them or because they're ladies?

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By *ngdan3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Are you sending messages because you like them or because they're ladies? "

I only msg ladies that I am interested in, both their profile words and pictures.

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By *ngdan3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Mate

Honestly, in my humble opinion, the profile needs to lose the sordid details - it literally turns a woman’s Fanny to sawdust.

And lose the cock pics, make them private. Nobody wants to see it.

Say more about your personality, what your interest and ideal fab meet might be; about the type of woman you would really like to meet. Not how you want them to nosh you off.

Good luck. "

Ok, thanks for the pointers.

Never mentioned being noshed off in my profile so not sure where you got that from.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You've had 2 meets in 4 months

That's more than most guys get in a year on here so your doing well

I'd say you definitely need to lower your expectations if your expecting a meet weekly/monthly

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Unsure how zero interest= 2 meets?

Better than most on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you expecting op fanny on tap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you expecting op fanny on tap! "

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"What are you expecting op fanny on tap! "

Probably.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

You need zero expectations on here. Any interaction you get is a bonus.

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By *ngdan3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Unsure how zero interest= 2 meets?

Better than most on here. "

Zero interest from single ladies as I said in my original post. Yeah Ive been lucky and got invited to a party and to join a couple both of which I am extremely greatful for, but its a regular fwb that is my ultimate aim.

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By *ngdan3 OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"What are you expecting op fanny on tap! "

No of course not . Wasnt sure what I was expecting, hence this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsure how zero interest= 2 meets?

Better than most on here.

Zero interest from single ladies as I said in my original post. Yeah Ive been lucky and got invited to a party and to join a couple both of which I am extremely greatful for, but its a regular fwb that is my ultimate aim."

At the parties you attended. Were there no single females.

If so, maybe you could find out who they were and continue talking to them.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unsure how zero interest= 2 meets?

Better than most on here.

Zero interest from single ladies as I said in my original post. Yeah Ive been lucky and got invited to a party and to join a couple both of which I am extremely greatful for, but its a regular fwb that is my ultimate aim."

You and the rest of this site

In 4 years I haven't been able to find a fwb yet. Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expect nothing ... nobody owes you anything... you are part of a sea of men looking in a pool of women/couples

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By *aughtius MaximiusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hi all, so Ive been on here about 6 months. Put some effort into my profile and have been honest. I must send about 10-15 unique msgs a day to single ladies. Ive had zero interest in me. Am I expecting too much ??"

You`ve had a couple of meets. That1s good. Get yourself to some socials and clubs. Socialise with like minded people. Get your face known. That`s what swinging is about.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

no

Honestly just go to social events or go to clubs, I think most are open now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DON'T LOSE THE COCK PIC!

I for one always want to see at least one cock pic, amd I know a lot of other women that feel the same way. Not a 100 photos, but one or two saves the awkwardness of having to ask for one.

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By *ustfortheforumsWoman
over a year ago

no


"DON'T LOSE THE COCK PIC!

I for one always want to see at least one cock pic, amd I know a lot of other women that feel the same way. Not a 100 photos, but one or two saves the awkwardness of having to ask for one. "

Just have one cock picture or two

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Thirded

You need at least one or two cock pics.

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