FabSwingers.com forum: What have some women got against bi guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most hubbys want their wife to be bi then they can see her with another woman and sure many women are cool with bi guys, but why is there such a strong response? Many guys tell me they have had hostility from women when they have mentioned bi action with a guy, FYI most bi guys are not keen on anal action anyway!

Not so much a gripe just sounding out opinion, I know theyre the minority but I am bi and I aint faking my profile, yeah I am married too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me there are more women that love it than those who don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

linda is bi with the right girl . me jimmy im dead str8 .well i did try it about 5 times but i dident like it lol linda doesent like it up the bum . and im not fussed about putting it up another womens dirty end lol but as far as bi guys are concerned we cant see what its all about its just sex . mind we are not to keen on watching them kiss it doesent cum across very nice . but i suppose its all to there own . live and let live thats what we say . some blokes have very nice looking cocks . i mean my jimmys is lush . oh i am jimmy lol UP THE BI GUYS IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What have some women got against bi guys ?

What have some people got against people having thier own opinions ?

Whatever they might be

However much they disagree with your own

Despite you not liking all of them

Jed (Str male with Bifem both happy to meet bicouples)

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

To be honest, there's more bi male's within a M/F relationship than you think, we've had countless enquires from M/F couples asking if we're interested, as it happens, we've also had numerous requests from “single” females asking if we;re willing to preform in front her and her “Boyfriend” for some strange reason, the boyfriends not even mentioned on the profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the simple answer to a lady disliking bisexuality in men is it compromises the masculinity of the men, if a woman likes a 'real man' the type that don't cry etc then they ain't gonna like two guys blowing each other.

another answer could be that women like to feel desired and if in a threesome the guys are pretty much all over each other then again her being desired is questioned.

some women I have spoke to like the idea, some think it's disgusting, as ever each to their own.

Question is why is there so many threads of late complaining that straight people don't like Bi guys, just move on to a couple/female/guy that does, we are all here for variations of the same thing and nobody should be expected to change their requirements for someone else, be that sexuality, colour, creed, size (of anything), hair type, or even rented or owned homes, lol.

remember we are all here to enjoy, and we don't all enjoy the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Well said that man......concentrate on the good things

You hav'nt heard me moaning about someone who sent us a message tonight and called us the wrong names........oopppss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love watching porn with 2 or even more bi men in...but would not meet any...

work that out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep pure i agree i watch and have many male bisexual friends, but my choice dont want to play with em. love em to bits but not in sexual way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah I agree with most of the above comments, as I pointed out I am not whinging or sour grapes, there are plenty bi couples, I should know I have have many of them over the last 6 yrs with my partner and pics to prove it, I am definately one for variety and 'live and let live', I like all shapes sizes and race, its personality that is the biggest turn on and the best thing to build a swinging relationship on. I just wanted to sound out other peoples views, keep them coming guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most hubbys want their wife to be bi then they can see her with another woman and sure many women are cool with bi guys, but why is there such a strong response? Many guys tell me they have had hostility from women when they have mentioned bi action with a guy, FYI most bi guys are not keen on anal action anyway!

Not so much a gripe just sounding out opinion, I know theyre the minority but I am bi and I aint faking my profile, yeah I am married too!"

An even bigger barrier to meets, as far as we know, are guys wearing thongs,bi or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HEAR HEAR, nicely said

Is very much str8 however, lol

"I think the simple answer to a lady disliking bisexuality in men is it compromises the masculinity of the men, if a woman likes a 'real man' the type that don't cry etc then they ain't gonna like two guys blowing each other.

another answer could be that women like to feel desired and if in a threesome the guys are pretty much all over each other then again her being desired is questioned.

some women I have spoke to like the idea, some think it's disgusting, as ever each to their own.

remember we are all here to enjoy, and we don't all enjoy the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well its all about exploring, i would love to be with 2 bi men, just gotta work on my guy a bit more...lol...

its not fair if he exploring his fantasies and im not, well i suppose i do have lots,so in time, never say never. lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being with a couple of bi-guys they are attentive and considerate of females needs, plus they keep each other going when I need a breather and a drink... I love to watch them together it turns me on no end.

I have had many happy nights with bi-guy twosomes.... and I have found that the ones I meet are usually orally bi only. A big up for bi-guys everywhere xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now here's an interesting spin on this topic for you... Why is it cool and groovy for women to be bi and for men not to be? How about this for a suggestion? We're all actually bi buuut... And it's a big but, bisexuality is socially conditioned out of men and homophobia is conditioned in from a very early age, no that's a lie, it's socially conditioned out of western men from a very early age, the closer that you get to the equator the more prevalent and socially acceptable bisexuality is in both men and women, in actual fact bisexuality in both sexes has only been really frowned on since the rise of the Roman Catholic church, during the Roman empire and the 'golden' age of Greece you were actually looked upon as a bit odd if you were straight.. How weird is that? Just keep an open mind and watch the skies is what we say.

Here's an interesting question as well.. How many women are there out there who put their sexuality as 'bi' just because it's fashionable or because their partner finds it exciting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my god a bi guy thread and I havent commented......

actually I was Bi but I was in B&Q today looking at the big powerful tools and I was cured...

phew......

close one....

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By *Y MAN n MECouple
over a year ago

FIFE

"I love being with a couple of bi-guys they are attentive and considerate of females needs, plus they keep each other going when I need a breather and a drink... I love to watch them together it turns me on no end.

I have had many happy nights with bi-guy twosomes.... and I have found that the ones I meet are usually orally bi only. A big up for bi-guys everywhere xxxxxxx"

Totally agree with you laine.....I too find bi guys more attentive and considerate, as well as adventurous,sorry to the straight guys but its true in our experience... I find two bi guys having fun a huge turn on and its not just a fantasy as is with so many guys watching bi fems.

XXXX the thing is don't knock it till you've tried it!

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

end of day cant see the fuss that sum fems wont play with bi guys me i love watching her with a fem cant get enough she wad luv to watch 2 men cant nock her for it tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its because after sex..... the lady canna get to the mirror for the bi guy preening and prancing...

allegedly.............

now yu cant sue me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"see now i have nothing against bi guys, and nothing against meeting em ... wouldn't want 2 there at same time though in case they fancied each other more than me and their attention was off me

actually i suppose thats a good reason for having 4 blokes round at a time (2 straight with open minds)... i find guys having sex bloody horny .. and actually would rather like the experience of a guy f*ing a guy thats f*ing me lol ... double thrust

funny thing is i don't do girls and really have no interest in them at all .... really hate having to think that sometimes i've no choice lol

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

I have had many happy nights with bi-guy twosomes.... and I have found that the ones I meet are usually orally bi only. A big up for bi-guys everywhere xxxxxxx"

here here laine i just luv my bi guys too

i just feel it broadens the aspect of fun for those involved but as they say - each to their own. life and swinging would be oh so borin if we all liked the same things

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

From our experience there are lots of women that like to watch 2 guys, so not sure if it's females who have an issue or whether it's the male “Straight” partner that has the issue, and it's his views that are really being stated

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

"From our experience there are lots of women that like to watch 2 guys, so not sure if it's females who have an issue or whether it's the male “Straight” partner that has the issue, and it's his views that are really being stated

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tbh i couldnt giv 2 fooks she can watch 2 men she has even watched 2 dogs on the green mind i had to shout her in as the ice creams were melting

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"tbh i couldnt giv 2 fooks she can watch 2 men she has even watched 2 dogs on the green mind i had to shout her in as the ice creams were melting

We like you

you should consider moving South

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

believe what you like, if it makes you happy, so be it.

whoever/whatever you are, you are likely to attract a certain type, I could say most women like shaven headed guys so it must be their partners that don't want to meet a shaven headed guy, but when I had very long hair most of the women liked very long hair, like I say, each person and their ways will attract certain types.

But, I type from my personal profile, I will say it really doesn't bother me tbh, but really turns my partner off no end, as I stated before, some women will see it as totally compromising the masculinity of a man, if that particular lady likes the stereotypical 'real man'.

to answer the question why are bi fems accepted more than bi males, there are many reasons, again the 'masculinity' side of things, but also that we as a society are still not fully out of the 'old fashioned' ways of men are men and women are women (you know what I mean so don't be pedantic, lol) and so to see two women seducing one another is pretty, attractive and damn sexy, but to see two guys is just wrong in the sense of the 'old fashioned' views that men and women have a role to play, in time this (as proven here) will change more so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I think Wayne’s right.

The reason for my admission is this:

We have about half a dozen real life friends who know we swing and in the coarse of asking me about it I happened to mention I was bi, and none batted an eyelid however when some found out hubby was curious they all looked horrified!!

When I asked them what the problem with hubby being curious was I was told its not normal for a guy to like other guys that way!!

Ffs as if anything about me and hubby is normal

So out of morbid curiosity I asked why no one said anything about me being bi and was told but that’s normal nowadays!!!

These are people who claim to be liberal and not pass judgment on us for our choices but its not normal for guys to like guys?!?!?!?! In fact one went as far as to say I should divorce hubby cos its that wrong needless to say she was told to grow up and remember the old adage that if you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all, since we don’t say anything about her cheating on her bloke with god only knows how many other guys!!!

Ok so hubby probably wouldn’t date another guy whereas I would date another woman, if I wasn’t happily married to hubby!!

So to me he is bi playful (since it is more the situation which dictates how he plays) rather than fully bisexual as I view myself.

But really in our hobby we should be open enough to know what we want and go for it and I don’t think anyone should be made to feel uncomfortable and I know personally of at least 2 women on this site who have told me they only get with women so their husbands can see 2 women together and that they aren’t bi or curious in the least little bit, so why do it??

I can think of nothing worse than feeling like you HAVE to do something I would much rather play straight than do something to make someone feel uncomfortable.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" so why do it??

I can think of nothing worse than feeling like you HAVE to do something I would much rather play straight than do something to make someone feel uncomfortable.

Shona

x x x "

probably cos some of us get off on him getting off

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who cares as long as the ones involved like it and its legal and not hurting anyone............les time talking about fun more time doing it i say lol xxx

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

I think bi guys are great! Very attentive as well. In a group sex situation some male bi action occurred and it was as horny as f..k. Wouldn't have thought so until it happened so keep an open mind I say.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Well for us its not a problem, as Jayne is very bi, but definately does not fancy playing with two bi guys..... which is just as well as I am straight!

However, if she was into that, I wouldnt have a problem with letting her go with a pair of guys, just wouldnt want to be involved.

If she did suddenly change her mind, and want to see me play with another guy, I am afraid she would be dissapointed...... I love to make her happy, but I do draw the line there!!

Something I have noticed is the way some people jump on guys like me (with an opinion), and label us as "homophobic" or "bi phobic", just because I am not willing to play with guys. I personally have no problem being in close proximity to bi guys, so long as they respect my choice not to interact on a sexual level with them. What about the people who put "no black guys" on their profile, does that make them racist? Probably not, its just them being honest about their own personal choices. We are all different, just as people make diferent lifestyle choices as to their jobs, houses, cars etc etc, so it goes for our sexual preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wants to add ... if it's a nice huge cock ... who cares

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wants to add ... if it's a nice huge cock ... who cares

xxxx "

oh, such controversy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love bi men, problem i have is finding 'real' bi men, most men will just suck cock and thats it, i want the lot, kissing, sucking and fucking

yep im greedy, i have met very very few bi guys that will kiss, i have found most mens idea of being bi is.....ok you can suck my cock so long as i get to fuck your woman afrter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love bi men, problem i have is finding 'real' bi men, most men will just suck cock and thats it, i want the lot, kissing, sucking and fucking

yep im greedy, i have met very very few bi guys that will kiss, i have found most mens idea of being bi is.....ok you can suck my cock so long as i get to fuck your woman afrter

Tut at you, you wont even lick chuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love bi men, problem i have is finding 'real' bi men, most men will just suck cock and thats it, i want the lot, kissing, sucking and fucking

yep im greedy, i have met very very few bi guys that will kiss, i have found most mens idea of being bi is.....ok you can suck my cock so long as i get to fuck your woman afrter

Tut at you, you wont even lick chuff."

no i wont but i dont put the label of bi on myself then just pansty about at it lol

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"Believe me there are more women that love it than those who don't x

Oooooooooooooh yes

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"wants to add ... if it's a nice huge cock ... who cares

xxxx "

Nothing worse than feeling bloated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They might consider you a threat, possibly? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Notts has a big fantasy to see me get blown off by a guy...

Had it for years.. years and years and years, she will have it for many many many more too lol..

who says the women have the issue lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to me he is bi playful (since it is more the situation which dictates how he plays) rather than fully bisexual as I view myself."

Sorry Shona,no offence but that explanation has never cut it with me.

As a 100% straight as a straight thing straight guy,I've been in some very, very horny situations but never in any of them thought for one nano second about wanking or sucking the other guys cock.

In fact, just the thought would have my little old man taking a bow.

So to me being bi is all about the inclination,not the situation,heat of the moment or whatever other reason some guys choose to ease their conscience.

XXXX

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By *im and His slutCouple
over a year ago

mongolia

"Mrs Notts has a big fantasy to see me get blown off by a guy...

Had it for years.. years and years and years, she will have it for many many many more too lol..

who says the women have the issue lol.."

I recommend a blindfold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So to me he is bi playful (since it is more the situation which dictates how he plays) rather than fully bisexual as I view myself.

Sorry Shona,no offence but that explanation has never cut it with me.

As a 100% straight as a straight thing straight guy,I've been in some very, very horny situations but never in any of them thought for one nano second about wanking or sucking the other guys cock.

In fact, just the thought would have my little old man taking a bow.

So to me being bi is all about the inclination,not the situation,heat of the moment or whatever other reason some guys choose to ease their conscience.

XXXX"

Dont be sorry Ric we all have our opinions yours just happens to be yours mine is mine

Neither is wrong as far as Im concerned.

I was just trying to show the difference between how I view hubbys and my sexuality.

Ohh god why doesnt my head work at this time of night???

I have sat here for the last 10 minutes trying to put into words what I meant but it never seems right

But I do think sometimes (just sometimes) that some guys (again only some guys) do use the excuse of "it was the situation that made me do it and I would never do it in the real world" personally I have always thought like you either you are or you arent HOWEVER after hubby explained to me how he felt about his sexuality I thought bi playful was the closest way to describe it since he cant see himself living with a man the way he lives with me.

If that makes sense??

Shona

x x x

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"i love bi men, problem i have is finding 'real' bi men, most men will just suck cock and thats it, i want the lot, kissing, sucking and fucking

yep im greedy, i have met very very few bi guys that will kiss, i have found most mens idea of being bi is.....ok you can suck my cock so long as i get to fuck your woman afrter

Well, i must be different - i want the fucking and everything!

including the bukkake and the pee afterwards...

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By *ayc_BigballsMan
over a year ago

Derby

"Believe me there are more women that love it than those who don't x

Oooooooooooooh yes

interesting!

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