FabSwingers.com forum: People That Chat and Then Block

By *avin77 OP Man
over a year ago

camberley

For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Happens a lot don’t take it personally

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating "

There's always a reason

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating

There's always a reason"

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Happens a lot don’t take it personally "

Yup

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

There's always something they don't like to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always manage to get blocked...maybe it was something i said or didnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People change their minds and to save being hassled or appearing in search they block people.

I do it with people who are not looking for my age group. Makes it easier to search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block if they start bombarding with messages before I have had a chance to reply

I get bumping a message, especially if you've been having a good chat, but some people take it to the extreme.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I block if they start bombarding with messages before I have had a chance to reply

I get bumping a message, especially if you've been having a good chat, but some people take it to the extreme. "

I hate the most is 3/4 messages in quick succession ..???..??..done a runner..you ok..when you don't reply straight away or within the imaginary appropriate "reply by" time frame they set in their head.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I blocked someone off another site after a few messages were sent. Mainly hello and how are you doing. Then I got a message asking if I was vaccinated? I said yes are you ?

She then sent a paragraph of some online nonsense and ranted about the vaccine and those who were vaccinated.

I blocked her

I’m guessing she would know why but you never know.

So with that example you’d think it’s a bit obvious. However as you’re only getting to know people with initial messages, you’ll never know what tiny thing has set that person’s warning signs off. It could be quite innocent remark that doesn’t sound too bad in person but in writing it’s not come across well.

Or it could be they just got bored or talking to someone else and chose them instead.

Either way it happens I admit it’s not nice but hopefully it won’t be a regular occurrence when chatting with someone.

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By *unandfriendship4uMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I spoke to a few for months. When i was due to have my leave.i planned to hook up.they then ghost me.

I dont get them. Im kinda guy who.if told thanks your not my type.or we nurvious bla bla bla.i take it on the chin and remain respectful. I went into chat rooms. Boy different world alltogether. Clicky as. So i just go to clubs when im home.post covid double jabbed obviously.

Live you all xx

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By *enuinebiMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I often show as being on line when in fact I'm nowhere near the laptop so if I don't reply immediately I'm blocked, some strange people but I suppose we should expect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's shit that other people have their own free will

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By *adyJane86Woman
over a year ago

South of Lincoln

I will only block if I'm Insulted for no reason or they have bad manners

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We usually get blocked when replying to a message asking if they've read our profile.

(We obviously know they haven't, just being sarcastic)

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"It's shit that other people have their own free will

This!!

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By *harlotteBigBoobsWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I block people when I've said no numerous times and they still message me. Also when they've clearly not read my profile. It is peoples right to block if they wish unfortunately x

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

"For no reason. "

There is always a reason, just not always known to you. Clearly things were not going to work. Save your time for those with whom it might:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we hate to use the block button but sometimes it's the line of least resistance!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I always have a reason for blocking someone, it might not be a good reason but that's my pro-ogative

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

One of the main rules of Fab is have broad sloping shoulders. Fab can be often disappointing but you just need to let it slide off and focus your energy on the next thing.

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

The main reason people chat then block is that they have finished wanking.

Neither of us do any kind of sex chat now.

We meet social or sexual it doesn't matter but we are not collecting pics nor are we wank material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strangest one is when somebody sends an angry, abusive message then blocks immediately so you can't reply. That's like an angry person shouting at you from across the street then running away before you can say anything back.

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By *heNerdyCyclistMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

I see a lot of statuses complaining about poor manners or just being a twat. My anxiety and mental health always makes me worried I dropped into that car but then I remember:

I have over 30 verts and that’s from active profiles. I imagine if some were active it would be more.

I pride myself on being friendly and polite.

I have a lot of friends here who believe in me.

But MAN when you like a profile and they block for whatever reason it still sucks because you can’t even look at their photos anymore. Or subconsciously agree with their statuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got so many blah, lazy, dick-filled messages from men - I've blocked lots with sordid updates so they can't message me later. I don't feel great about it, but I don't think I can bear getting even more "Hiya when are you free" messages from men who haven't read my profile and have a dick for a profile pic.

Hiya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

You forgot your dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

You forgot your dick

The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating "

You say it’s for no reason, but there is always a reason. You might be able to figure it out if you look at the point in the chat that it usually happens, but even if you can’t they definitely have a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

You forgot your dick

The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off

Fair play to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

You forgot your dick

The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off

Fair play to her

I'll stick it back on as soon as I find some pritt stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya

You forgot your dick

The last lady I said hiya to chopped it off

Fair play to her

I'll stick it back on as soon as I find some pritt stick"

Lettuce know

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We will block some one if they mess us around, such as making arrangements which they fail to keep without an explanation.

Or if after meeting them we realise that we did not/will never connect

Can't be bothered wasting time on people who we would normally not speak to over the garden fence

Live is too short

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating

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By *ad_Bod_ToddMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Hi OP. First and foremost don't take it personally, just move on.

I expect that this happens to most people. Has certainly happened to me: exchanged a few messages, exchanged face pics, was told that I am 'hot' and then got blocked!

I can see the POV that there is 'always a reason' but as they have blocked you you're not going to know what that reason is; so don't torment yourself by trying to work out a puzzle that you won't be able to solve! Unless of course getting blocked after a few messages is a recurring pattern for you? Perhaps look for what that pattern is IF it is a regular occurrence?

PM me if you like?

Best wishes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never felt the need to block anyone and don’t believe I have ever been blocked. It is what it is, if it happens just forget it, move on and leave the past behind

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Don’t take offence, give it time they are thinking the same as you and will come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For no reason.

Whats that about?

So frustrating "

Message us……so we can block you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have never felt the need to block anyone and don’t believe I have ever been blocked. It is what it is, if it happens just forget it, move on and leave the past behind

Maybe you have had it easy so far

Many have been blocked for offering money, drug users and horrible requests

Not to mention the your fake because you won’t meet us brigade

We are not desperate thank you lol

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"We usually get blocked when replying to a message asking if they've read our profile.

(We obviously know they haven't, just being sarcastic)"

If we know guys haven't read our profile (which is pretty obvious) when contacting us we just block them at that point. If they'd bothered to read it they'd know why...

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

People change their minds, or you say something they don’t like or aren’t into. It happens, it’s best to not take it personally and just move on.

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By *otlipsandSirCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Very common , usually when they realise that we are actually a couple and they might possibly be chatting with the male

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

"I blocked someone off another site after a few messages were sent. Mainly hello and how are you doing. Then I got a message asking if I was vaccinated? I said yes are you ?

She then sent a paragraph of some online nonsense and ranted about the vaccine and those who were vaccinated.

I blocked her

I’m guessing she would know why but you never know.

Or it could be they just got bored or talking to someone else and chose them instead.

Either way it happens I admit it’s not nice but hopefully it won’t be a regular occurrence when chatting with someone.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Everything people do here is far a reason. It takes many chats to filter out unmatched people. The unmatched get blocked. Even the nicest people do this, once there's no point in keeping interest and connection going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked yesterday for taking 6 minutes to respond to his previous message. Got very abusive and personal too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We blocked someone because of the state of their carpet in a pic they sent us! Probably sounds a bit harsh but hey, if their carpets that bad what state is the rest of them going to be!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

No explanation needed as it's like saying the filters to not receive messages what's that all about basically it was borrowed time and it ran short

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