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"I'm real. Speaking as a single lady, I wouldn't respond to your profile. I'm not quite sure how to sum up why not but I'll try. You sound like you want someone to watch you play and be a plaything. I'm dubious that my needs would actually be met and that I would be satisfied, despite your claim I would be. Couples have their own partner to play with whereas I wouldn't, and ultimately I am here for sex. My feeling is I'd be better off with a single guy or a couple with different rules, and single women usually have plenty of choice. Having a female to play with wouldn't make up for what I could get from a single man. I hope that makes sense. I'd need to feel I was more than a toy and that my needs would be met." i agree with you babe | |||
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"Ok thanks for the input changed it a little can someone tell us if this is any better and clear for everyone " It just sounds the wrong kind of weird. We'd pass. | |||
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"Thanks very interesting we are just being honest at the momment as you can tell not s great at spelling sorry are main rule is as we are new is the none Penatration this is something we just have to build ate selfs up to seeing are partners do it will change and yes we can understand why it's not great for females sorry girls ?? will take out a few rules and once people contact us explain how we feel would that be better I guess everyone is diffrent but that's a good thing something for everyone I guess thanks for all your input guys " If those are the rules you wish to play by, why take them out. You'll never please everyone with your profile. You asked in your OP tips to get females to message you. Many have said your profile would put them off, which is probably true, but if this is how you intend to play then be honest about your expectations / rules on your profile. You just need to realise that it may be totally unappealing to some. But there may well be others that would happily meet based on what you are looking for | |||
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"We do send messages the females a lot never get opend and read are they really real " You do need to realise also that single females averagely receive around 30 messages a day. | |||
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"Hi tips on are profile we getting hammerd by men in are messages but we don't mind meeting with single men as for single women are there any and how to get these ladies to message us and also would love to hear from more couples any tips would be great for are profile " Let's get this straight - you are wondering why you are getting loads of messages from single guys when your profile says they can all have anal sex with you - both of you, if I have read that right...? And you can't understand why you aren't hearing from single fems...??? Jeeeez.......... !! I know you are new to this, but please wake up and smell the roses!! I know everyone is entitled to their own likes, dislikes, kinks, preferences - whatever - but, like a few others have said, your profile (taken in it's entirety) is just completely confusing. When a single guy reads your profile, the word 'anally' just jumps out of the screen!!! And what is every single guys 'thing'....??? Yep. And since when does anal sex constitute soft swinging...?????? Like someone else has already said, we'd take one look at the profile, get no further than the first line and move on to another.... sorry... but you asked for comments..... | |||
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"We do send messages the females a lot never get opend and read are they really real You do need to realise also that single females averagely receive around 30 messages a day. " 30? I can only speak for myself for certain but I'd say that 30 per day is a very conservative figure. | |||
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"If I got a message from you, I'd do as I always do and read the profile before opening the message. I'd then delete the mesaage without reading." Completely off Thread but I don't understand why, given you have seen a message, you wouldn't read the message first and then the profile? Why leave the message unread but read the profile? For those of us who try to craft persuasive, friendly and relevant messages it is a bit disheartening to say the least. Yes I do know single ladies get inundated as I have introduced 3 ladies to Fabs and set up their profiles so I have seen it first hand. Just intrigued .. | |||
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"It's the same as reading junk mail from companies I am not interested in. Pointless. If the profile is off-putting, or just rubbish (will fill this in later), the message usually will be too. The mailbox shows a preview anyway so if it's "luv ur tits" or similar... bin! Why waste time reading a message from someone you know you wouldn't meet?" I take your point about rubbish profiles. But what if a bloke (or fem or cpl come to that) are no good at talking about themselves in a profile (like me) but can write a decent relevant message? Just seems that as you are investing valuable time reading about someone you miss possibly the best bit. But we each do our own thing of course .. As I say just intrigued. No offence I hope. | |||
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"It's the same as reading junk mail from companies I am not interested in. Pointless. If the profile is off-putting, or just rubbish (will fill this in later), the message usually will be too. The mailbox shows a preview anyway so if it's "luv ur tits" or similar... bin! Why waste time reading a message from someone you know you wouldn't meet? I take your point about rubbish profiles. But what if a bloke (or fem or cpl come to that) are no good at talking about themselves in a profile (like me) but can write a decent relevant message? Just seems that as you are investing valuable time reading about someone you miss possibly the best bit. But we each do our own thing of course .. As I say just intrigued. No offence I hope. " Other than age and location, your profile wouldn't put me off reading a message. Many, many profiles do put me off. | |||
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" Other than age and location, your profile wouldn't put me off reading a message. Many, many profiles do put me off. " Well thank you. I guess I understand now but still seems a possible wasted opportunity (not for me personally). | |||
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" Other than age and location, your profile wouldn't put me off reading a message. Many, many profiles do put me off. Well thank you. I guess I understand now but still seems a possible wasted opportunity (not for me personally)." Honestly? I have so many opportunities right now that some have to be wasted. I need some filtering criteria. That's part of how I do it. | |||
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"Ok who told op the best way to stop certain people msging then was to hit delete profile " Well they were messaging us last night, maybe we scared them lol | |||
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"Ok who told op the best way to stop certain people msging then was to hit delete profile Well they were messaging us last night, maybe we scared them lol " oh I doubt that.... after perving your pics I think I need to go lay down after I have a cold shower | |||
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"Ok who told op the best way to stop certain people msging then was to hit delete profile Well they were messaging us last night, maybe we scared them lol oh I doubt that.... after perving your pics I think I need to go lay down after I have a cold shower " Lol thanks | |||
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"If I got a message from you, I'd do as I always do and read the profile before opening the message. I'd then delete the mesaage without reading. Completely off Thread but I don't understand why, given you have seen a message, you wouldn't read the message first and then the profile? Why leave the message unread but read the profile? For those of us who try to craft persuasive, friendly and relevant messages it is a bit disheartening to say the least. Yes I do know single ladies get inundated as I have introduced 3 ladies to Fabs and set up their profiles so I have seen it first hand. Just intrigued .. " For me, someones profile is their main "marketing tool" for want of a better phrase. I look at the profile first and if nothing interests me, or the person clearly hasn't read my profile there's no point wasting my time reading a message | |||
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"If I got a message from you, I'd do as I always do and read the profile before opening the message. I'd then delete the mesaage without reading. Completely off Thread but I don't understand why, given you have seen a message, you wouldn't read the message first and then the profile? Why leave the message unread but read the profile? For those of us who try to craft persuasive, friendly and relevant messages it is a bit disheartening to say the least. Yes I do know single ladies get inundated as I have introduced 3 ladies to Fabs and set up their profiles so I have seen it first hand. Just intrigued .. For me, someones profile is their main "marketing tool" for want of a better phrase. I look at the profile first and if nothing interests me, or the person clearly hasn't read my profile there's no point wasting my time reading a message" ditto we almost always check out the profile 1st before opening a message, and will only then open it if the profile has intrigued us ... that said; you dont need to open a message that only says "Hi" so at that point we rarely even bother looking at the profile unless really bored lol | |||
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