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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time "

Well you will never go a second time if you don't go the first time.

Whether it is worth it is down to what you are expecting in return for your time and money.

A club is not a brothel, so nothing is garaunteed.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

'Worth it'.... hmm if you have expectations, then probably not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No expectations really just want to meet people and chat see how things go then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Worth it'.... hmm if you have expectations, then probably not"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No expectations really just want to meet people and chat see how things go then."

Perhaps it would have been better to reword your point.

Do you mean is it worth going to a club to meet new people, or go just for sex?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time "

It all depends on how you are as a person I suppose. Some people take to it like duck to water others find it bit more challenging.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time "

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs "

I disagree as a couple or as a single woman my preference in clubs is always to chat to single guys

I find couples way more entitled & pushy

& when I attend with my husband we rarely play with couples (for the above reason) & if we do we'd never knowingly play with a FWB couple, because what's the point? To me the point of swapping partners is giving someone my husband & them giving me there's or Boyf, I wouldn't get the same buzz knowing it's just a mate they shah occasionally

Not to mention it's rare 4 people will really hit it off, it's much easier to find that spark with a single male or female

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs "

I disagree. We avoid people if they behave like they're entitled to do what they want. If a single man is respectful and talks to both of us we wouldn't avoid him.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs

I disagree as a couple or as a single woman my preference in clubs is always to chat to single guys

I find couples way more entitled & pushy

& when I attend with my husband we rarely play with couples (for the above reason) & if we do we'd never knowingly play with a FWB couple, because what's the point? To me the point of swapping partners is giving someone my husband & them giving me there's or Boyf, I wouldn't get the same buzz knowing it's just a mate they shah occasionally

Not to mention it's rare 4 people will really hit it off, it's much easier to find that spark with a single male or female "

Like I said, I can only go off my experiences of being a solo guy in clubs. I wish I had met half the couples and single females who respond on these threads, who say they looked for solo guys in clubs lol......

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs

I disagree. We avoid people if they behave like they're entitled to do what they want. If a single man is respectful and talks to both of us we wouldn't avoid him. "

All I can say is; more people approached me as part of a couple, than when I was on my own. I won't visit another unless I have a pre-arranged meet inside now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs "

Not necessarily, I ONLY play with solo guys in clubs never couples!

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

In our experience as a couple, its far easier chatting to single guys than couples, with single ladies being even more difficult to engage in conversation.

G&A

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Any club visit - be you single guy, lady, tv,ts, or couple - is what YOU make it.

If you go with the right attitude/ mindset, you'll have a great night.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs

Not necessarily, I ONLY play with solo guys in clubs never couples!"

That’s great to hear! But there’ll be more single women comment on this thread, than you’re likely to see on an average club night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went as a single male and love it. As previous people have said never go expecting sex as you will probably not get it. Just go to chat , have a laugh and make friends. Take it slowly and most of all be respectful of all boundaries, you never know what might happen. Good luck

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time

Based on my experiences as a solo guy in several clubs, I would never recommend visiting any club for the first time by yourself. If you have a female friend to go with, you would do far better as a couple. People tend to avoid solo guys in clubs "

Certainly not in our experience. We wouldn't go to clubs if there weren't any single guys. Clubs don't guarantee sex, but if you're clean, respectful and not pushy you're in with a chance. What's more, if you go to a club at least it shows you're willing to make an effort, unlike the hundreds of single guys on Fab that expect a free fuck because they've typed s three line message to someone they've never met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DONT GO TO A CLUB EXPECTING SEX.

Have a drink, have a chat in a friendly environment and see what happens.

In our experience, something usually does and we are more than happy talk to men, women, couples, TVs, TSs and just generally everyone. That doesn't mean we have sex with everyone we speak to, we are just chatty. Most people are. M

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

One guys experience of clubs isn’t the full picture. I have been to several and seen single guys having as much fun as single women. But I’ve been to club nights in which the upstairs rooms are hardly being used by anyone. So different nights will elicit different experiences for anyone.

I tend to only go to Bi nights now, so you’ll know it’ll be an eclectic mix of people. Every time I’ve been, there’s been plenty going on, but as I’ve highlighted, that’s my experience maybe not another’s.

Try and see that’s my advice

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

It all depends on the folk in the club on the night. You can go one night and easily chat to people, yet another night, a lot of people are stand off ish if guys. If i was you, id decide what club, look on the meets section on here, and see whose going, and what there profiles say. If a majority who are going dont want guys, youd be safe in saying the others there may have pre planned to meet and find it hard to get involved in a chat. But if a lot of meets are saying looking for M then you may find life easier to at least chat.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Don't do it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time "

It's always worth meeting people and being sociable - isn't it?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Is it worth going to a club on your own if its your first time "
yes

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes go for it, clubs are always the best place to meet people.

Talk to people, have a laugh and you will have an amazing time.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

Yes go for it , I have gone alone for a while now and have great fun … you’ll start to form relationships there and can lead to multiple fun nights over and over .. love them !!

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