FabSwingers.com forum: What is the best kind of profile picture to have to stop single men looking at me?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe the woman on your profile pic is attracing the single males ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just change your message filters so men can’t contact you

you also won’t see them viewing you if you do that

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By *inotGringoMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude"

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

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By *arty84Man
over a year ago

Orpington

"Or just change your message filters so men can’t contact you

you also won’t see them viewing you if you do that "

^This^ nice, simple and easy answer.

It doesn't really matter if men look at your profile (sorry I've added to the count), if you're not interested in other men just set it in your filters so they can't message you, it's not gonna effect you if another man's peeping at your profile.

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By *exy n up 4 itCouple
over a year ago

western isles

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter? "

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

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By *inotGringoMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

We need to club together to convince OP that homosexuality can not be transmitted. Especially via screen osmosis.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

As has been said, set your filters so that single males can't message you. Not sure why it really matters if they look at your pics though.

As far as pics that will appeal to women or couples, that will vary from person to person. I really don't find single male profiles with action shots of them with other women appealing though.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

If you don't want men looking block them

As others have said the visuals make it look like it's a females profile or a couples at least as the female is the most prominent person in the first couple of images which is probably why they get a lot of views when they are uploaded

I always think photos like that are false advertising unless the female is permanently attached to the cock and will be accompanying you on any meets or maybe it's just trying to show what a cock can do because obviously no one on here would have seen one before or know what they do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can borrow my face if you want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really an issue a guy looking?

I'm the grand scheme of things.

How is a guy to know whether or not you're Bi without looking at your profile.

As a single man, maybe cut out the pictures of Women and keep the profile looking more like a single guys.

You could block Men if they're messaging

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I looked and I thought the pics were good.

Stop posting on the forum may work

sorry

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"As has been said, set your filters so that single males can't message you. Not sure why it really matters if they look at your pics though.

As far as pics that will appeal to women or couples, that will vary from person to person. I really don't find single male profiles with action shots of them with other women appealing though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

There might be some rubbing off though

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

It does seem a bit odd that you are so bothered by single guys looking at you. If you get to play in a public room at a club plenty of single guys will be looking at you. At the end of the day it's just bare skin.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's safe no chance of catching an STI or falling pregnant. Hey but we all get this but does make you wonder when their profile says looking for a female how do people get sidetracked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm i get loads looking at me to i love it and to fair i do sometimes think wow look at that cock lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or just change your message filters so men can’t contact you

you also won’t see them viewing you if you do that "

The thing is I have male friends I do chat to on here! Can they still message me if I block males??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter? "

It’s not a big thing! But I’m getting more men than women looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you can borrow my face if you want x"

That’s great! But when do you need it back by?

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By *iss selectiveWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?"

Why don't u block single males if u don't want them looking

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?

Why don't u block single males if u don't want them looking"

Awe lovely bottom

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Mate I get it all the time no matter what you do it’s going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?"

Best picture would be you being fked up the arse with a strap on.

No fab straight, would be into your profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?"

How you going to play around the male side of the cpl - if you can't stand males looking at your profile. You do know, Mr as well as Mrs scrutinise your pics

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Men probably look for all kinds of reasons, including checking the competition, finding profile tips etc.

The site makes it universal access to view profiles, unless blocked. Ultimately if you cannot cope with this, it's not going to be comfortable for you. You can't control others, just yourself.

If anyone has sexual interests in you, if you are attractive to others, similar aspects of you will be attractive regardless of who they are. Anyone may look and most will not be attracted to you.

As the vast majority of people here are men, you get a disproportionate chance of men looking at you, regardless of your needs. It's life and unless you shield in a bunker, you may be getting looked at all the time. Most people grow out of being excessively anxious about being looked at as they increase their social skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hate when single guys have women in thier pics, do they know you are using pics of them?

and you do know you can block men from looking at you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guys been on this site over a year, met multiple times, and he has no idea how the system works.... Give over, it's a wind up or better known as self promotion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The guys been on this site over a year, met multiple times, and he has no idea how the system works.... Give over, it's a wind up or better known as self promotion lol"

Probably but he’s definitely looking for more attention of single dudes

The crafty OP

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By *ominaronMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter? "

This is hilarious to read I’m in stitches lmfao clicked to look immediately oh the irony lol. Nice cock pal, oops sorry lol

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

Well he's 'Fab' straight anyway according to his veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?

How you going to play around the male side of the cpl - if you can't stand males looking at your profile. You do know, Mr as well as Mrs scrutinise your pics

Close his eyes and pretend that’s her finger penetrating his straight bum

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

It’s not a big thing! But I’m getting more men than women looking

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women often look in stealth mode so 100s could look at your profile and you would never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP this thread definitely couldn’t of helped the situation?

Now straight dudes probably just want to fuck with you ?

Threads are a very unforgiving place ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op,how do you stop them looking at you when you're out shopping,waiting on a bus,standing at the bar?

Have you considered wearing a large cloak with hood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get over it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op,how do you stop them looking at you when you're out shopping,waiting on a bus,standing at the bar?

Have you considered wearing a large cloak with hood?

Or holding a newspaper over his face inspector gadget style

Na we straight blokes have nothing better to do then check out OP’s profile !

Na I’m kidding OP but this thread is funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, if you don't want men looking at your cock and shagging photos, don't put them on your profile

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By *iss selectiveWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you can borrow my face if you want x"

Ha ha ha and mine OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to look, sorry Leo but by your pics you're doing well with your meets so don't sweat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a straight male and most of my fabs, views and messages come from guys.

I’m ok with that as I know what I want. Don’t think about it mate just embrace it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a serious post? Don't sweat it OP, you seem to appeal to a certain niche anyway so your pickings are gonna be slim no matter what. I can see why the gay ones might go for you though, you do give off a certain vibe. Learn to be flattered, learn to take compliments, learn to say thanks but no thanks as women do daily, you'll appeal to more women that way I'm sure

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wear a mankini luminous green

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By *adyroseWoman
over a year ago

West Oxfordshire

"As has been said, set your filters so that single males can't message you. Not sure why it really matters if they look at your pics though.

As far as pics that will appeal to women or couples, that will vary from person to person. I really don't find single male profiles with action shots of them with other women appealing though. "

Totally agree. Balls deep in previous conquests is off putting. I prefer photos to leave something to the imagination. No one wants a present that someone else has already unwrapped.

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worried you’ll catch the ghay off someone looking at you?

Men will look whatever pic you use. Stop stressing over it.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Opps i just looked to see what pics you where on about... then realised that another sinlgle guy whos looked at your profile sorry dude

Me too!

This is hilarious. I don’t see what issue you have with single men looking though, it’s someone looking at your profile. Why does it matter?

It’s not a big thing! But I’m getting more men than women looking

Every profile on here gets viewed by more Men than Women and couples. It's just how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *pltoplayCouple
over a year ago

castleford

I've been guilty clicking on a profile thinking it's a couples page but instead it's been a single male or female. Maybe change your profile photo would be a big help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

I heard it's airborne, gotta hold ya breath...

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Christ, does it matter?

They are just looking, not messaging you.

Have you ever walked down a street, do you get upset if another guy sees you?

My pics go down a storm with the gay community cause I’m a bit of a bear, I’m not gay but happy I made someone’s day. And they don’t message me because they know I’m not seeking guys.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

I heard it's airborne, gotta hold ya breath...

Is there a jab for it

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

Oops

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

Maybe the op is worried these single men viewing his profile are interested in him in a sexual way and he is concerned their viewing gayness will rub off on him???

I heard it's airborne, gotta hold ya breath...

Is there a jab for it

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where do I catch it please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture of the penis should put them off. At least the straight ones.

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By *litstimulousMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Mate I bet your profile pic attracts guys just wanting to perv at your other pics and have no sexual interest in you whatsoever. Your status is straight and you state you're not looking for single men so block incoming msgs from them and don't worry about who looks.

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By *oungmacladMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield

I'm not going to lie, since this thread appeared I have made a mental note to find it again and click on the op's profile.

I have no interest but imagining the frustration is proving way to entertaining to pass up!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I am a single straight male looking to meet couples and single ladies.

But for some reason I tend to get a lot of single males looking at my profile! What is the best kind of profile picture I should have to attract more females and couples?"

Even if you block single guys from messaging you, and post up the most boring pic possible on your profile, you will still get men looking at you. Get over it, it’s fine. Concentrate on who you are actually interested in, but don’t rule out the possibility that a single male profile could actually be a clandestine couple looking for a guy to join them (it does happen

)…….

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm not going to lie, since this thread appeared I have made a mental note to find it again and click on the op's profile.

I have no interest but imagining the frustration is proving way to entertaining to pass up!

To be fair to the OP, he does have some great action shots on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not going to lie, since this thread appeared I have made a mental note to find it again and click on the op's profile.

I have no interest but imagining the frustration is proving way to entertaining to pass up!

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By *ostafunMan
over a year ago

near ipswich

"Or just change your message filters so men can’t contact you

you also won’t see them viewing you if you do that

The thing is I have male friends I do chat to on here! Can they still message me if I block males??"
How did these males become friends on here if they hadn't looked at your profile in the first place or did you look at theirs ? seems a bit of attention seeking post to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block single guys . You can then look at who has actually looked at your profile that you may be interested in

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Personally none of your pics appeal to me as u have women in them or your cock!

You have men filtered off so you won't get new men message you. But if they have messaged before they can message again unless you block them

Lastly so what if they look at your profile, do you dislike men in reality casting their gaze on you.... do you say don't look at me. Are you concerned they may possibly be attracted to you. Does that threaten some feeling inside you.

Be real, love yourself and don't be concerned with others. But you asked an opinion on here, so now you have many answering your questions!

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