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"Stop following the crowd with dick pics..... Follow the others who have better quality and subject photographs. Those are the profiles you need to look through - plus their verifications, on why they are popular... Once you've cracked that - at least you'll stand a chance of a reply. Oh and guys who are reading!!! Minimise the age restrictions... I mean really - 18-99 You'd fuck those age groups? Tells me, it's a type of unpleasant perversion that shouldn't be on here....... "That assumption is appalling. It's not a perversion to engage with older people in some way . It is unlikely that anyone is on the site at 90 years old but leaving the age range unchanged from the default is not indicative of anything other than one is happy to chat to people of any age. | |||
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"Stop following the crowd with dick pics..... Follow the others who have better quality and subject photographs. Those are the profiles you need to look through - plus their verifications, on why they are popular... Once you've cracked that - at least you'll stand a chance of a reply. Oh and guys who are reading!!! Minimise the age restrictions... I mean really - 18-99 You'd fuck those age groups? Tells me, it's a type of unpleasant perversion that shouldn't be on here.......
That assumption is appalling. It's not a perversion to engage with older people in some way . It is unlikely that anyone is on the site at 90 years old but leaving the age range unchanged from the default is not indicative of anything other than one is happy to chat to people of any age. "If it's unlikely they why put it. To me, it looks desperate at least and what I mentioned above at worse.. Why 'edge your bets' to look desperate ... Be realistic, like you would be in the real world. | |||
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"Stop following the crowd with dick pics..... Follow the others who have better quality and subject photographs. Those are the profiles you need to look through - plus their verifications, on why they are popular... Once you've cracked that - at least you'll stand a chance of a reply. Oh and guys who are reading!!! Minimise the age restrictions... I mean really - 18-99 You'd fuck those age groups? Tells me, it's a type of unpleasant perversion that shouldn't be on here.......
That assumption is appalling. It's not a perversion to engage with older people in some way . It is unlikely that anyone is on the site at 90 years old but leaving the age range unchanged from the default is not indicative of anything other than one is happy to chat to people of any age. "No it means they have not thought about their profile and put no effort in to make it the best it can be | |||
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"Any advise " Luck? It’s the lotto you know. You have a picture of a cock , is it attached to anything or does it come in a box? | |||
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"Any advise " It's crystal clear to me why you can't get laid but I'm not telling you what to do. If you think your profile will attract those you want to swing with, don't change it. If you want a wet cock, consider something else, swinging is more than that, way more. | |||
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"How big is your cock! If over 9 inches you won't have a problem...lol" Nonsense. We have never picked or refused anyone _ased on the size of their cock. | |||
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"Any advise " Actually make a profile. Get rid of the dick pic as your profile pic, take some proper pics (one or two tasteful dick pics are fine if mixed in with some body/clothed pics), and write something that gives us an idea of who you are and what you're like. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site" This is spot on | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site" This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here  | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here "And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x "Let's be honest, most women do not put effort into their profiles but have success. I'll be the first to admit my profile is pretty bad yet I recieve dozens of messages a day. I think most men have good profiles yet never meet anyone. The fact is most on fab are seeking women and couples. Men are just lucky if they even just get a message. Fab is bad for men unless they fulfil a fetish such as BBC, bull, etc or if they provide free "stuff". | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here "why not just have a crap profile, and constantly moan about not getting meets then | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
why not just have a crap profile, and constantly moan about not getting meets then"I was referring to "you get out what you put in". Yes a good profile is a must, doesn't mean you'll get anything out of it though. Just because someone has little success doesn't mean they haven't made the effort. There are other factors at play. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x
Let's be honest, most women do not put effort into their profiles but have success. I'll be the first to admit my profile is pretty bad yet I recieve dozens of messages a day.
I think most men have good profiles yet never meet anyone. The fact is most on fab are seeking women and couples. Men are just lucky if they even just get a message.
Fab is bad for men unless they fulfil a fetish such as BBC, bull, etc or if they provide free "stuff"."Most wemon DO put effort in but get fed up of men not reading they end up deleting it like i did lol x  | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here "But it's true pal a person never succeeded without making an effort and understanding what works and what doesn't.but also realization that it doesn't work for everyone, which some think it should. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
But it's true pal a person never succeeded without making an effort and understanding what works and what doesn't.but also realization that it doesn't work for everyone, which some think it should."The men who put the effort in, talk to us like actual people, and who are decent (not aimed at anyone in particular), they do well. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
But it's true pal a person never succeeded without making an effort and understanding what works and what doesn't.but also realization that it doesn't work for everyone, which some think it should.
The men who put the effort in, talk to us like actual people, and who are decent (not aimed at anyone in particular), they do well. "I totally agree with you many forget, how to treat people as human beings. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
why not just have a crap profile, and constantly moan about not getting meets then
I was referring to "you get out what you put in".
Yes a good profile is a must, doesn't mean you'll get anything out of it though. Just because someone has little success doesn't mean they haven't made the effort. There are other factors at play."One factor is the sheer number of single guys on here who think that this site is instantshag. A few weeks with no luck then they moan on the Forum. | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x
Let's be honest, most women do not put effort into their profiles but have success. I'll be the first to admit my profile is pretty bad yet I recieve dozens of messages a day.
I think most men have good profiles yet never meet anyone. The fact is most on fab are seeking women and couples. Men are just lucky if they even just get a message.
Fab is bad for men unless they fulfil a fetish such as BBC, bull, etc or if they provide free "stuff"."So true! 
If we're being honest. Being an average bloke on here is basically a massive waste of time. I like reading the forum, but that's about it.
OP hasn't a chance in hell and will end up deleting it once he realises. | |||
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"Any advise " Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way.  | |||
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"Any advise Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way. "The song's not done. The time's not over. I'm sure you've got more to say.... | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x " | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x
Let's be honest, most women do not put effort into their profiles but have success. I'll be the first to admit my profile is pretty bad yet I recieve dozens of messages a day.
I think most men have good profiles yet never meet anyone. The fact is most on fab are seeking women and couples. Men are just lucky if they even just get a message.
Fab is bad for men unless they fulfil a fetish such as BBC, bull, etc or if they provide free "stuff".
So true!
If we're being honest. Being an average bloke on here is basically a massive waste of time. I like reading the forum, but that's about it.
OP hasn't a chance in hell and will end up deleting it once he realises. "I know a fair few average blokes on fab, over 50, no six pack, they do great on here, women actually seek them out. All because they put in effort and know how to behave in a swinging community, it's more than a lottery, you can put the odds in your favour, just a lot can't be arsed to do the work that it takes. | |||
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"Oh, don't get me wrong. A lot of guys do the bare minimum and OPs profile isn't great. But does it really make that much difference? Unless you're referring to putting effort into actual meets at swinging clubs etc. Then I agree with you. " To a lot of wemon on here yes making an effort on your profile does make a difference most are like me they read the profile first before the message and if no effort is put into it makes us wonder how much effort would they give us ... so it's instant delete.  | |||
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"Stop following the crowd with dick pics..... Follow the others who have better quality and subject photographs. Those are the profiles you need to look through - plus their verifications, on why they are popular... Once you've cracked that - at least you'll stand a chance of a reply. Oh and guys who are reading!!! Minimise the age restrictions... I mean really - 18-99 You'd fuck those age groups? Tells me, it's a type of unpleasant perversion that shouldn't be on here.......
That assumption is appalling. It's not a perversion to engage with older people in some way . It is unlikely that anyone is on the site at 90 years old but leaving the age range unchanged from the default is not indicative of anything other than one is happy to chat to people of any age.
If it's unlikely they why put it. To me, it looks desperate at least and what I mentioned above at worse..
Why 'edge your bets' to look desperate ... Be realistic, like you would be in the real world. "Reframe the experience… There are lots of was of looking at the unadjusted age range. One is to specifically narrow down the people you wish to engage with. Another is they are open to all… On the basis of age alone Brad Pitt is out of a lot ladies interested in range, but many probably still would. So excluded purely on age alone? For others they never bothered to change it. Everything is open to interpretation and we all use fab differently. It helps if you don’t assume your own choices are or should be made on the same basis by others. | |||
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"Lower your standards or lower your expectations . "Why would anyone lower their standards? | |||
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"Lower your standards or lower your expectations .
Why would anyone lower their standards?" | |||
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"Your profile is not great. No bio and photo isn’t great. You get out what you put in on this site This really irks me because it's always women and couples who say this. Most have no idea what it's like as a single man on fab. As a man it's more like a lottery. The odds aren't in your favour on here
And to a woman your reply irks us as you have no idea how many times we hear that poor excuse x
Let's be honest, most women do not put effort into their profiles but have success. I'll be the first to admit my profile is pretty bad yet I recieve dozens of messages a day.
I think most men have good profiles yet never meet anyone. The fact is most on fab are seeking women and couples. Men are just lucky if they even just get a message.
Fab is bad for men unless they fulfil a fetish such as BBC, bull, etc or if they provide free "stuff".
So true!
If we're being honest. Being an average bloke on here is basically a massive waste of time. I like reading the forum, but that's about it.
OP hasn't a chance in hell and will end up deleting it once he realises.
I know a fair few average blokes on fab, over 50, no six pack, they do great on here, women actually seek them out. All because they put in effort and know how to behave in a swinging community, it's more than a lottery, you can put the odds in your favour, just a lot can't be arsed to do the work that it takes."Totally agree with you Pablo xx | |||
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"Any advise " yeah welcome to my world | |||
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