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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please can you provide feedback on my profile.

What needs to stay, what needs to go. As you know, it's very difficult for single guys on here so any help would be appreciated.

Thanks

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Change your profile picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change your profile picture"

Agree. You've got a couple of decent ones that show you being normal and sociable, use those. Give a hint at the naughty aspect, people will ask if they want to know more.

The profile text is a bit dating-site bland. It doesn't need to be XXX rated but people see an awful lot of nondescript "I'm a nice fun guy, enjoy this that and the other, can be naughty etc etc" profiles and tend to skim them. Something that's just a little hook, unique to you and not the ten million other nice but a bit naughty blokes on the site.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Change your profile picture"

Absolutely this.

You say that you want to meet like minded people, but don't indicate what that is.

What are you looking for?

What can you offer?

Why should that lady meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree , your cock photo is the first thing people see , put another one up and stick your cock away for now ,

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Take out "professional" as it comes across arrogant to quite a lot on here.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Is there a reason your hiding verifications I always wonder why people do this x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Seems fine to me.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

non smoker, and verified.

This is unnecessary as your profile already pointed this out when you got yourself verified and choose that your a non smoker.

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By *ollyRodgersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Profile looks good!

We see you have taken the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile looks good!

We see you have taken the advice "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"non smoker, and verified.

This is unnecessary as your profile already pointed this out when you got yourself verified and choose that your a non smoker."

Point taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems fine to me. "

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"non smoker, and verified.

This is unnecessary as your profile already pointed this out when you got yourself verified and choose that your a non smoker."

You're

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Welcome OP

as you have put experienced. Cooking or cleaning, would you like to elaborate on that little bit of detail

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Much better op

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Take out "professional" as it comes across arrogant to quite a lot on here."

This.

Is being professional supposed to add to your attraction OP?

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Just being picky now because it all looks ok to me, but your first pic looks like a couple pic that you’ve cropped a partner out of. These always make me cringe a bit, but that may just be me. Good luck! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone.

I've changed a few things. Hope this is better. Also hidden the cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just being picky now because it all looks ok to me, but your first pic looks like a couple pic that you’ve cropped a partner out of. These always make me cringe a bit, but that may just be me. Good luck! x"

Thanks. It's not a couples pic it's me and my mate at his wedding. Not sure he'd be too happy me putting him on here.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Just being picky now because it all looks ok to me, but your first pic looks like a couple pic that you’ve cropped a partner out of. These always make me cringe a bit, but that may just be me. Good luck! x

Thanks. It's not a couples pic it's me and my mate at his wedding. Not sure he'd be too happy me putting him on here. "

No worries, I did say I was being picky! You see them a lot on here where it’s obviously a woman they’re with and so that’s just where my brain goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just being picky now because it all looks ok to me, but your first pic looks like a couple pic that you’ve cropped a partner out of. These always make me cringe a bit, but that may just be me. Good luck! x

Thanks. It's not a couples pic it's me and my mate at his wedding. Not sure he'd be too happy me putting him on here.

No worries, I did say I was being picky! You see them a lot on here where it’s obviously a woman they’re with and so that’s just where my brain goes "

Totally understand. Just wanted to clarify it that's all.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Show your physique better with different pics, as 3 out of 4 show shoulders/face. It gives a clearer understanding of the body we could be physical with.

I think you'd do well to think about how you can clarify your prowess and interests. I didn't think I learned too much other than that you are fine with socials, travel quite a bit and seem a decent guy. Your profile gets a positive feel from me but you could adjust and fine tune it to have more impact that will work for the right people.

Finally, the important thing is to ensure your expectations are realistic, so that you stay upbeat. It usually takes a year or so for single guys to get established - with the pandemic uncertainties, it may be different. Clubs are open again and could be a good way to get to know more people too.

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