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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

How do I find my self a swinging partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I find my self a swinging partner "

From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.

Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.

KJ

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds


"How do I find my self a swinging partner

From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.

Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.

KJ"
very helpful that you I will take your advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I find my self a swinging partner "

Wherever the rocking horse shit is I guess lol

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By *r easy1981 OP   Man
over a year ago

leeds

Good times lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"How do I find my self a swinging partner

From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.

Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.

KJ"

Agreed. Build a great relationship, gradually become more sexually adventurous, talk it over and maybe take little steps

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Go to clubs and socials.

If you’re dating I suggest that you mention you’re interested in the lifestyle early on.

Alternatively you could find a fantastic partner, great 1 on 1 sex but no matter how hard you try to cajole they never agree to more.

Every successful swinging couple I have met have been completely open and honest with each other from the beginning.

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich


"How do I find my self a swinging partner

From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.

Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.

KJ

Agreed. Build a great relationship, gradually become more sexually adventurous, talk it over and maybe take little steps "

We were just great friends that started to get to more than that and then realised we were both kinky.

Then after a conversation we decided to dip the toes in

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By *edRhinosMan
over a year ago

nr constantine

Partner? Long term or just to attend a club etc with?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We met on here.

It guaranteed that swinging wasn’t going to be a problem.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

On here is probably a good start. Careful what you wish for. I didn't just find a swinging partner on here, I found my everything on here.

(Mr)

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

middle isle of Lidl as good a place as anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I find my self a swinging partner

From our experience most (not all) swinging couples started out as normal vanilla couples but overtime an immense amount of love and trust was built up, often over years (we didn't swing until after we were married). Throw in high sex drives and both parties having natually kinky nature's means they have together embarked into the world of swinging.

Whilst this applies to us and all our couple friends, and most couples whom we chat to in clubs we appreciate there are different routes into to couples swinging.

KJ"

This is us. We started vanilla and built it up over time. A few years back, we would talk about who is going to wash the pots tonight, now we talk about how many men Mrs N wants in her next gang bang! We do still talk about who is going to do the pots tonight.... (Answer is mainly Mrs N but I do the cooking!). M

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"We met on here.

It guaranteed that swinging wasn’t going to be a problem. "

Same here

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Have you tried a lucky bag you never know what you get

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down


"How do I find my self a swinging partner "

It is usually a long slow process, but may happen when you least expect it.

Try a little gentle probing to test the water, an determine if there is any interest.

Go to a club as a voyeur and take it gently.

Former partner got into it slowly and eventually met another couple, whom we trusted, for bareback DVP.

The key is not to force the process, but gently moving from one level to the next.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Meeting at socials or swinging clubs means you know you have similar interests !

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Do you tell your regular dates that you swing I do with a mixed response

from you dirty mutt to curiosity a week or two later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found The Times Personal column a great place to find a friend with whom to fornicate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always found mine at clubs or through here after meets. Have a meet, be charming, put in a good performance and then ask if they fancy some couple meets……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my previous partner through here (from a social date, not a play one) and became a couple from there! It can be done, neither of us were prolific "meeters" off here but kinda fell into a comfortable, swinging-scenario relationship. Not together anymore, but id like to think lightening can strike twice in the same place

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