FabSwingers.com forum: How many people close to you swing and do they know you do?

By *wingerlinging OP Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

We have had quite a few local to us come up, some we know, some we know of... its simply amazing how many people enjoy this life in secret xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our neighbours from directly across the road are swingers. We didn't know until we met them at a party 25 miles away.

We agreed not to play with each other and to not mention when we might meet in the real world.... I.e. in Aldi's putting the bins out, the pub around the corner, etc.

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By *wingerlinging OP Couple
over a year ago

Taunton

That's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's amazing

It is, I never put my bins out in Aldi

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Anyone that knows me.. I don't hide the fact I'm involved in the lifestyle.

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

There are a few local to us and a few we know but tend to steer clear and go a few miles out. I suppose you could say we dont s**t where we eat lol just saves any hassle x D

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

I’ve recently found out that someone I’ve known for a very long times are both swingers but I’d never approach them about it but seeing her pics is amazing then drinking in the same pub as them there’s also a few others I know and have met with the upper most discretion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex’s sister is on here and my neighbours from four doors away,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are quite a few local to me. But I don’t know any of them.

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

Im a delivery driver and recognised a lady on reception and got chatting and said who I was and met her a few nights later and still deliver to her now and no one is any the wiser still have a little catch up now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody, we don't discuss our sex life with people who aren't involved in it, and I've no interest in theirs either

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

one of our neighbours across the street knows we are on the kink and fet and swingers circles, as he is too.

It's cool though, no big deal, no awkwardness.

He's not our type so we haven't met to play, no intentions of that.

A mate from my social circle, pre lockdowns, found out, and did visit us a couple of times for play, but not seeing him now 'coz his life situation has changed.

We've spotted a few local members from here in the area going about their dailey business, but we haven't made any kind of deliberate contact beyond perhaps a random polite cheery smile.

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

There are a couple a few doors away who are on here

A guy in the same town messaged us Jess was a bit hesitant but we did meet him at a bar and have met him a few times since

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By *ickDastardlyMan
over a year ago

North East

Very few.

My best mate knows. My uncle knows. I’ve also seen a couple of people on here who I recognise.

I don’t hide it, but I don’t shout about it either. I’m low key.

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

I don't broadcast ther fact that I swing but if anyone asks I'm happy to admit it.

I haven't met any friends or family in the lifestyle yet but I'm sure I will at some point and it won't bother me in the slightest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of people that come in to my place of work are on here. It's quite amusing, it's a very popular lifestyle choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody, we don't discuss our sex life with people who aren't involved in it, and I've no interest in theirs either"

This! We keep it low key.

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By *stwo80Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

A few on here within a mile of us , one couple we recognised from their pictures.

Over the years ,we have met purely by coincidence, 4 different people we knew all of them at a club 35 miles away, one of them lived 3 doors from us.

We never play with anyone local or anyone that we know.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

What goes on in our bedroom stays in the bedroom, so no-one. We never put our correct postcode either, so we wouldn't show up on a local search.

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

It’s our little secret... and we like it that way ... play away more if /when in the mood ..... Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few in our local social Club.

Quite amusing as think we all know we know but not really talked about as we're probably not suited to each other.

We quite like the local aspect but don't know that many more of the locals that appear. Mostly males surprise surprise.

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By *he Knight is YoungMan
over a year ago

22 Acacia Ave, Preston-for now

I really could not say

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By *IXED AND BBCCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Manchester

i met few people at my work place who i already met them in club but never mentioned to them,some time they recognized me in Club but they don't have clue where we met outside hahhaha,

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By *ellishornyMan
over a year ago

surrey

"i met few people at my work place who i already met them in club but never mentioned to them,some time they recognized me in Club but they don't have clue where we met outside hahhaha, "
I get this quite a lot as as I meet a lot of people with my job lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non near us. We must live in the most vanilla part of the country

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Only one person, other than us.

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By *ulluSukaWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Anyone that knows me.. I don't hide the fact I'm involved in the lifestyle. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say, which profiles are real and which ones are men bored of porn?

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m single, so a lot of the single guys on here local to me know me.

I club with a friend I worked with and bumped into a boss and his wife lol.

So, lots know I use the site and club... but I’m not a swinger as such

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"Hard to say, which profiles are real and which ones are men bored of porn?"

lmao

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

My ex step daughter an her friend know Im a swinger. Plus two ladies who work in my local Morrisons.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Almost all friends know. It's not something I wish to hide. Given my lifestyle I don't need people to be surprised if they see me with one woman in the pub Tuesday and another on Friday.

Lots of friends swing or enjoy casual sex, again due to the circles I tend to move in. It's considered pretty normal.

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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

My brother swings, he doesn't know I know but Ive seen his pics on here, has a face pic on his profile, and know his tattoos if I see them in any other pics.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We are open about it if people ask. Most of our friends know and are supportive of our lifestyle.

We know a couple who are from the same town ive known the female half for years shes a sister of a friend. Ran into them at a club. Also Cs brother is on here, we were tipped off by someone so we blocked to save questions.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair (apart from freinds we actually met in the scene) we know very few. I think there's one or two Mrs Misfit knows and a female that Mr Misfit knows from years ago. Although I think a few people we've talked to who aren't swingers would at least consider it if their lives were different.

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

None, although I know quite a few (work & social) that have been to rios, so not necessarily swingers, but certainly open minded.

My neighbours probably suspect something is a foot with single women, men, and couples visiting our place at night and leaving early. But ah well, not everyone can live a boring or sexless life and still feel they've done all they've wanted in this world.

Closest I've shat in my back yard was when I was seeing a lady at work. Different departments. These things are great in that you get real convenient access to each other. The downside is that I guess with the close proximity and frequency, one is more likely to develop a strong non-sexual bond as well. In this case all was good. Perhaps because we were both married. I liked big asses and she liked black guys. Lasted for a couple years until I got a new contract. Also took her back to my home so I could fuck her and sleep over while the Mrs watched.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes a couple of male friends I know are on here, Ive seen their pictures they dont know Im on here.

A lady across the road is on here, shes not my type, I know she meets other guys but she doesnt have a clue I am.

Have met a couple have regulary swung with in the local garden centre one afternoon by chance, we are good friends so wasnt that awkward.

Its a small world

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By *lacknoxMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

l knew 2 ladies l work with in nhs but they don't know lm on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Theirs quite a few some met some not but I'm sure is plenty more

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Last I read it was estimated something like 1 in 10 couples participate in or have dabbled in swinging in the uk.

Impossible to verify that number of course but found loads of people I know who I had no idea where swingerson here so could be a audible number.

That or there is something in the water around here.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Mercifully, no.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We know of nobody local to us, we suspect possibly one couple and would certainly be happy to bump into them at a Club, but we’d never mention it any other way!

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By *onzo888100Man
over a year ago

Bangor

My neighbour from 2 doors down. And yes we definitely know about each other

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By *adyJane86Woman
over a year ago

South of Lincoln

There's loads local to me

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs! "

Are any on tv...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs!

Are any on tv...?"

Not that I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody knows I swing as far as I know. It would be nice to find others whilst out and about.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs!

Are any on tv...?

Not that I know. "

Or has or works at a shop in Conway main street

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By *winging90scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northfield

New to our area so don’t know anyone yet! Hopefully there’s a few about. Have seen 1 or 2 we know well but mostly males and many have left

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

By the site search who is near by i must say all my neighbour and people in a radium of 20 miles are living this wonderful live style that is swing

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody, we don't discuss our sex life with people who aren't involved in it, and I've no interest in theirs either"

Same

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

Ive had a couple of lifts to a fairly local club from a girl I knew who was from my home town..i love it, we bump! Into each other dressed in town..and have knowing looks between us.

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By *uv2kiss2Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

Over the years it has become a little more frequent !

When out shopping & the local garden centre. The school parents evening was a little unnerving at the time though ! . We laugh about it now & wonder what might have been ?? .

You’re right though , it seems to be more common but just as covert !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We live in a small village, population 350. We know of at least 7 other swingers plus ourselfs!

Are any on tv...?

Not that I know.

Or has or works at a shop in Conway

main street"
errr maybe...??

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By *ay_kiwiMan
over a year ago

Richmond

I am lucky as I was pretty much in the scene from day one, as my mother ran clubs in NZ and Oz. Also she played a huge part in making:

Prostitution Reform Act 2003, making it just like any other job you pay taxes etc.

anyway I went a bit of topic, but basicly, I don't hide it and never have,

I once had a load of work people go to erotica 2k, and rang me and said (in a WTH type voice) you are on the DVD giveaway and btw atm you are on the main screen, and I said so tbh buddy, if its that big a deal, how come you are all there !!.

The scene has changed, alot, but for me its about like minded people, spose some people go fishing, others go to book club, and they don't hide that

For the grammer and spelling police

Forgive my writing/grammer it is not the best, as I am dyslecsic.

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By *ay_kiwiMan
over a year ago

Richmond

Opps forgot, some friends are in the scene others are not, the ones that are not really don't make anything of it, just like I spose I don't get into why they go to trainspot

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By *dventureSeeker23Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"We have had quite a few local to us come up, some we know, some we know of... its simply amazing how many people enjoy this life in secret xx"

I suspect lots want to keep it priviate I don't blame them.

Rule 1 don't crap where you live

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By *team7279Couple
over a year ago

London

A close friend of Mrs A got into the lifestyle at the same time we were (by total coincidence) discussing it. And since getting into it we have been messaged by one person whom Mr A knows. We haven't mentioned it to the latter, but he occasionally attends socials, so we may have to address it at some point to save on awkwardness on the night!

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