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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People ghost you Happens alot on here like chatting then you ask to meet up for a, social or fun times and then oh ok then no reply oh ok then or you sent a picture the oh ok then no reply. Dose it cost so much just to say sorry not my type. Yeah I know there some people can't handle getting hit back but we all adults as some people more thankful if you honest and say sorry it a, no or sorry your not my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the site FAQ's. Non-replies are covered there.

The subject has been done to death

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you check it was definitely who you thought you were talking to?! Did you chat or talk sex?? Often it's not who you hoped and they cum n don't need you anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not going to risk being abused.

Blame the people who can't handle rejection in a mature way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah some sometime could be that but recently it chat chat then gone or after sent picture oh no reply. It by nice to for a polite reply not my cup of tea like. I have had a couple people in the past say that what is nice

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By *nicorn69coupleCouple
over a year ago

colchesterish Essex

If conversation is going no where or feels one sided I won’t send further messages but would always reply to conversation if a meet was being arranged even if was to say no or can’t make it

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Did you check it was definitely who you thought you were talking to?! Did you chat or talk sex?? Often it's not who you hoped and they cum n don't need you anymore "

is this something you do often Ariel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If they going to send abuse they will send it if you do not reply or do just block them and report them. Both man and women ghost each other just think people need to be honest. I respect them more if there politely say no for me. That my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did you check it was definitely who you thought you were talking to?! Did you chat or talk sex?? Often it's not who you hoped and they cum n don't need you anymore

is this something you do often Ariel "

Is it you naughty girl lol

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Did you check it was definitely who you thought you were talking to?! Did you chat or talk sex?? Often it's not who you hoped and they cum n don't need you anymore

is this something you do often Ariel

Is it you naughty girl lol"

I'm not a girl and I'm rarely naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they going to send abuse they will send it if you do not reply or do just block them and report them. Both man and women ghost each other just think people need to be honest. I respect them more if there politely say no for me. That my opinion anyway "

I get significantly less abuse if I just ignore, rather than replying. I am not prepared to deal with it, so I chose to ignore.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they going to send abuse they will send it if you do not reply or do just block them and report them. Both man and women ghost each other just think people need to be honest. I respect them more if there politely say no for me. That my opinion anyway

I get significantly less abuse if I just ignore, rather than replying. I am not prepared to deal with it, so I chose to ignore."

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People ghost you Happens alot on here like chatting then you ask to meet up for a, social or fun times and then oh ok then no reply oh ok then or you sent a picture the oh ok then no reply. Dose it cost so much just to say sorry not my type. Yeah I know there some people can't handle getting hit back but we all adults as some people more thankful if you honest and say sorry it a, no or sorry your not my type "

After I send another 30 or so messages I just forget about it and move on I don’t stress about it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think it would be a better option to delete the message, rather than leaving the other thinking that either something is up or they have been over Run with messages and yours got pushed down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good morning to you all. Sorry for interupting but can you help in recommending the best room to start in as new to the forum.much appreciated.thankyou x

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Good morning to you all. Sorry for interupting but can you help in recommending the best room to start in as new to the forum.much appreciated.thankyou x"

the room known as my inbox is a nice place to start . Failing that there's the lounge or swing chat . If your talking about chat rooms then general.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People ghost you Happens alot on here like chatting then you ask to meet up for a, social or fun times and then oh ok then no reply oh ok then or you sent a picture the oh ok then no reply. Dose it cost so much just to say sorry not my type. Yeah I know there some people can't handle getting hit back but we all adults as some people more thankful if you honest and say sorry it a, no or sorry your not my type

After I send another 30 or so messages I just forget about it and move on I don’t stress about it "

After 30 I would not do that many lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good morning to you all. Sorry for interupting but can you help in recommending the best room to start in as new to the forum.much appreciated.thankyou x

the room known as my inbox is a nice place to start . Failing that there's the lounge or swing chat . If your talking about chat rooms then general."

Smooth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankyou for your help,very kind of you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it would be a better option to delete the message, rather than leaving the other thinking that either something is up or they have been over Run with messages and yours got pushed down"
yeah after they deleted them or read and not reply yeah you click on to it but a polite reply not my type sorry not to much to ask for then block me or them

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Thankyou for your help,very kind of you x"

your most welcome if you require any further assistance feel free to look me up, they know me as the kindly UnSeen around these parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People ghost you Happens alot on here like chatting then you ask to meet up for a, social or fun times and then oh ok then no reply oh ok then or you sent a picture the oh ok then no reply. Dose it cost so much just to say sorry not my type. Yeah I know there some people can't handle getting hit back but we all adults as some people more thankful if you honest and say sorry it a, no or sorry your not my type

After I send another 30 or so messages I just forget about it and move on I don’t stress about it

After 30 I would not do that many lol "

I hope not mate !

I was kidding

Maybe 10 max

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By *n Search Of SunsetCouple
over a year ago

Search Of Sunset


"Read the site FAQ's. Non-replies are covered there.

The subject has been done to death"

Seems there is an afterlife.

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

It's happens on here a lot. Get used to it and move on.

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