FabSwingers.com forum: very new any advice?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am very new to the scene, Have not got much experience, any advice on how to get started?

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You have had a meet whats the problem?

Read other threads for advice.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"You have had a meet whats the problem?

Read other threads for advice."

Very helpful

Yes he has had A meet bit if you read the veri it was just a coffee and mentions how nervous he was.

If I were you OP I'm not sure I would show that one as people might be put off by your nervousness. You can hide the veri but still have the green tick so people will know.you are verified.

As for help with or on meets.....what is it that makes you nervous? Maybe working on that will help. Also joining in the chat rooms or forums might help bit patience and a thick skin are advised if you do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well like for_your_eyes2 have said, you have already had a meet which isn't bad for a 5 week member; most guys can wait months, you just need patience. And do a search on the forums for advice as this subject comes up all the time.

Get rid of all that mmmmmmmm rubbish and change it to interested in/wouldn't mind trying out gangbangs, parties and clubs as that encompasses all that.

Where you have put that you can travel, just put that you cannot drive and therefore use public transport, get rid of why you are not allowed to drive as I am not sure that is necessary unless you want to put it.

The message issue; women on here claim that they get hundreds of messages per day in which case they will not reply to yours, not because they don't want to but because they don't have time.

Grammar needs adjusting as its full stops after a sentence not a comma and a capital letter at the start of a sentence unless you meant to put them?

Get rid of the word basically and just put I will try anything except pain and watersports.

Other than that, it's not too bad; you have a face picture which is a definite plus, your age though might be against you as a lot won't be interested so always read a profile before sending a message, and good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your looking to improve your nerves how about getting a web cam and trying a few chats on there to build your confidence.

Also think about your profile try to I

Imagine it from the person viewing it. You do t have to explain yourself....

Also take time to read profiles and write proper mails not one liners.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a club im new thats what iv done. Iv not had a meet yet so u can't be doing that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find friends first, play later.

Good luck

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all for the advice it really is nice on here for the newbies to be able to turn to the more experienced for advice

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Some good advice already given. On a personal note, I don't like being told what to do by people seeking recreational sex!

I don't reply to people outwith MY preferences and THEIR demanding I do so cuts no ice with me.

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