FabSwingers.com forum: Advice sought

By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Sure there is probably a name for this but we have a fantasy of Charlie spending the afternoon on a hotel bed enjoying attention from a steady stream of men for quick fuck and go meets. We know it is easier in a club but and have enjoyed that but very much want the turn up / fuck / go Sounds simple to arrange but pretty sure logistics will be challenging given time keeping / no shows etc. Not trying to fuck the world “just “ 3 or 4. Am fairly certain a few of you can give some advice on how best to arrange.

We are not looking for anyone yet !!!

Thank you.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Sure there is probably a name for this but we have a fantasy of Charlie spending the afternoon on a hotel bed enjoying attention from a steady stream of men for quick fuck and go meets. We know it is easier in a club but and have enjoyed that but very much want the turn up / fuck / go Sounds simple to arrange but pretty sure logistics will be challenging given time keeping / no shows etc. Not trying to fuck the world “just “ 3 or 4. Am fairly certain a few of you can give some advice on how best to arrange.

We are not looking for anyone yet !!!

Thank you. "

Well firstly arrangements this could be done via the meet section with as much detail, then it would be down to yourself to filter through who would be willing and a candidate that hits your spark. As they would all know by the information set on your meet preference.

Hope this helps

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd suggest arranging with guys you know who can be relied on

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I've done this on my couples account a few times, unfortunately the last time we done every single guy was a no show & we've always had at least one no show the other times too, so definitely go for guys you've met previously or invite someone extras

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

That is the fear and to be honest it’s not about meeting people we have had fun with before, guess asking if any trick to a fun afternoon but reality always a step away from fantasy.

Thanks for the replies

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Maybe only invite people with recent verifications as hopefully they will be genuine & turn up as arranged

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If you don't want people that you've met before, do you have any local friends who could give recommendations? That would still give you someone more likely to show up than a random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds great! Hope it works out for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do decide to go ahead with this, please invite me, I would love to join you

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

"Maybe only invite people with recent verifications as hopefully they will be genuine & turn up as arranged "

Liking that logic

Thank you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet them in advance to determine suitability, including reliability.

Failure to attend is very high generally. Have some reserves.

Have a schedule of confirmation chats and texts the day before and on the day. Failures to confirm should lose right to attend. Be strict, as it's the best way to help you to gauge attendance numbers and arrange backup.

Discuss the offer in full, to ensure it's what they are happy with. Don't do sex chat, which some want, to have a wank over.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" very much want the turn up / fuck / go Sounds simple to arrange but pretty sure logistics will be challenging given time keeping / no shows etc. "

You would have to give each man a strict time slot. How long would his turn be ? An hour ? Half an hour ?

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

" very much want the turn up / fuck / go Sounds simple to arrange but pretty sure logistics will be challenging given time keeping / no shows etc.

You would have to give each man a strict time slot. How long would his turn be ? An hour ? Half an hour ? "

Half hour thinking with one hour gaps to allow us time together between

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

"Meet them in advance to determine suitability, including reliability.

Failure to attend is very high generally. Have some reserves.

Discuss the offer in full, to ensure it's what they are happy with. Don't do sex chat, which some want, to have a wank over. "

Couldn’t agree more about the constant desire for sexchats !!!

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By *oitering-With-intentMan
over a year ago

city of Lodon

probably easy to arrange in an Airbnb than a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably better to stick to clubs, we tried to arrange a gb, invited about 15 thinking a few would not show, all keen, loads of messeges etc, 1 turned up

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By *unguy_4_uMan
over a year ago

Kettering

definitely use an airbnb otherwise you might have a few funny looks (or worse) from the hotel reception).

Guys turning up a a difficult one, those of us that are genuine cant really fathom out why you wouldn't turn up, but there's obviously a lot of dreamers.

maybe get in touch with members who arrange GB's but in 30 m ins slots or a lot of due diligence required to check that guys will turn up?

30 mins time slots might be ambitious for a fuck and go... maybe 15 mins (haha) but at least if you get let downn you only have to wait for 15 mins until the next one

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By *ordo320Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

"Meet them in advance to determine suitability, including reliability.

Failure to attend is very high generally. Have some reserves.

This sounds like very sensible suggestions. Lots of guys won’t turn up. But checking on the day is the best guarantee you’ll be able to get along with their verifications and how they message you.

Plan for lots and hope that more than a few turn up. Have sensible time slots without bug gaps. That way you’ll be busy if they do arrive, but won’t have ages to wait if they don’t!

Sounds like a lot of fun though and something id love to do at some point too. From attendee, to the used or the organiser!

Good luck!

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

"probably better to stick to clubs, we tried to arrange a gb, invited about 15 thinking a few would not show, all keen, loads of messeges etc, 1 turned up"

One???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the pleasure of arranging gang bangs and there is no rule on who will or won't turn up.

I have found when you have a good group of guys that is the key. They turn up and have fun.

Always invite more as there will be those that don't show. But I will temper that with on the odd occasion they all turn up so be prepared to service then all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"probably better to stick to clubs, we tried to arrange a gb, invited about 15 thinking a few would not show, all keen, loads of messeges etc, 1 turned up

One???

At least 2/3 fail to show often higher sadly.

The 2 main ways of doing it are -

At a club especially a greedy girl night which invariably has a lot more single men than other events / nights.

Via a dedicated Gang bang group, there are a few on fab. Ultimately the vett and book in the members and do all of the work to put the event on.

Good luck

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By *harliebluestockings OP Couple
over a year ago

london

"probably better to stick to clubs, we tried to arrange a gb, invited about 15 thinking a few would not show, all keen, loads of messeges etc, 1 turned up

One???

At least 2/3 fail to show often higher sadly.

The 2 main ways of doing it are -

At a club especially a greedy girl night which invariably has a lot more single men than other events / nights.

Via a dedicated Gang bang group, there are a few on fab. Ultimately the vett and book in the members and do all of the work to put the event on.

Good luck

KJ"

Thanks. Enjoy greedy girls but not the same as what we are going for. Will just have to grip it and rip it I guess. At worst we are in a hotel room for the afternoon , sure we can make use of the time

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