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By *vrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hey.

So, I met a new playmate recently. She's into the bdsm scene and so I figured I'd dip my toes in and see what fun there is to be had (turns out, a lot!)

So anyways I bought myself a cock cage. I've only tried it a few times (there are some pictures of anyone is interested). The first time took a while to figure out where everything goes and how it all fits inside (scary af stuffing my chap into a heavy bit of metal)

My question is;

How do you guys wear these things for any length of time?

After about an hour it gets very heavy and uncomfortable. I'd like to wear it for longer, and even keep it on for a day or two knowing the only key is with my playmate but I'm just not sure I can.

Is there anyone here with experience in this? Can anyone help a chap out??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that you try wearing for as long as your comfortable with, and with time you should be able to wear it longer until you reach your, or your partner's limit

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By *uckoldDesiresMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe switch to plastic/silicone

But also ensure the cage is about half an inch smaller than your flaccid penis for a snug fit and also less weight as a result - but it's mostly about a good fitting base ring thats the key

A proper fit should be almost unnoticeable after a few minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely the advice above, or if you must wear a metal cage stick with tight, supportive underwear.

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By *vrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Thanks guys.

I'm sure I'll get used to it, it's probably just because it feels new and strange. I've worn cock rings before and it's definitely more comfortable than those.

It doesn't have to be metal at all, I guess I just liked the way that looked over the plastic ones. Perhaps they're better to wear for prolonged periods?

We would like the idea of me wearing all day at work and going about my daily business you see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as stated before..start with plastic. even some cheapies of ebay amazon etc just to try different styles..Im 4 days in on my silver metal one after a kinky session at wkend when my better half demanded cock so I was released.. Good luck OP sounds like you are in for a hell of a ride..literally hopefully..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve worn one for a lot of the last few years. Worth investing in a quality one. I use the holytrainer brand. Very discrete and easy to wear. I take it off to shower and clean and it goes back on. I remember when I started out I used to wake in middle of the night with hard ons. They went away eventually. Also any sexual play was painful as I’d get erect which hurt. Again I can control my erections a bit better now so it’s less of an issue. Haven’t worn mine for a few months but my wife declared her interest me wearing again over the weekend so I assume I’ll be going back in soon. Longest stretch without orgasm was 23 days. She’s hinted at going till Xmas this time with once a year orgasm for me. Enjoy

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By *sScarlett_BlazeCouple
over a year ago

Local-ish

It definitely takes alot of trying to find what suits your body, some of the plastic and silicon ones come with different size rings etc. On top of that gradually getting used to it is the key, over night being the biggest hurdle to conquer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the ultimate experience railways get a slightly smaller than flaccid. And then build up, maybe just start with during the day, then move on to over night and then build up until you can manage a month.

My longest stint was a month, being released once halfway through to clean.

Personally I won’t get anything out of putting myself in chastity, I enjoyed having someone physically being in control of it and my choice of whether I wear it or not being taken away from me.

It can be painful, the first few erections I experienced was really hard to take begging to be let out and being denied only enhanced the kink

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By *vrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Thanks everyone.

I've managed almost a full day in it so far. I think the metal ones are definitely for show more than function so I'm going to look into some others.

I definitely couldn't go till Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone.

I've managed almost a full day in it so far. I think the metal ones are definitely for show more than function so I'm going to look into some others.

I definitely couldn't go till Christmas "

How was the first erection while being locked up?

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By *vrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester

Luckily I managed to control it. It got pretty tight in there but I never got fully hard so it was ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luckily I managed to control it. It got pretty tight in there but I never got fully hard so it was ok."

Rather you than me lol deep down I dreaded being put into chastity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cold water is a blessing when putting on get a cup fill with cold water put you dick n balls in and watch it get smaller hence easy to get cage on..

just a small tip...

good snug fit is key to wearing...

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

Rubbed cucky at first. It’s the ring size. Used some sudo ( spelt wrong probably) cream which helped slide it on. Very uncomfortable in tight clothes. Fine otherwise in the bedroom

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter


"cold water is a blessing when putting on get a cup fill with cold water put you dick n balls in and watch it get smaller hence easy to get cage on..

just a small tip...

good snug fit is key to wearing...

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The problem is cucky getting hard as he puts it on

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By *vrider OP   Man
over a year ago

Chester


"cold water is a blessing when putting on get a cup fill with cold water put you dick n balls in and watch it get smaller hence easy to get cage on..

just a small tip...

good snug fit is key to wearing...

The problem is cucky getting hard as he puts it on

"

This +100000000!

I'm ok getting the first ring on but as soon as I start to put the rest on my mind wanders and then it gets tight

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

he he, practice practice practice... mine actually gets softer these days once i put the base ring on, mentally it knows the cage is coming and gives in to except it. Feel naked without my cage these days to be honest

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I stick it on before the wife has a bull come over and while I watch her get fucked

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By *evoncream2017Couple
over a year ago

exeter

New cock cage. Metal. Much easier to get on. Successfully restrained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought a cage during lockdown, to see how it felt. Wearing it over night resulted in me waking up feeling as if my balls were being ripped off!

In all seriousness I bought over a dozen different ones, and threw most away. I've kept 4,and have also improvised and made another.

As for giving keys to a partner. You can get plastic security tags, that way your partner will know if you've succumbed to releasing yourself - yet you have the backup of being able to remove it in an emergency. Timed locks are also an option.

I'd like to experience being a voyeur while wearing the cage myself, and alternatively cuckolding someone while hubby was made to wear one and watch.

If anyone interested, you know what to do,or if wanting to discuss further.

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