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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM

Does this happen? If you’re a part of a couple are you happy to meet someone who isn’t bisexual therefore not meeting both your needs? Do women like watching their husband fuck another women? Do the female half of the couples enjoy dominating a straight woman and playing with her without it being reciprocated?

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately but not known how to word it, I’ve also had a rather uncomfortable situation with a couple while exploring my curiosity in the past so it has somewhat tainted things for me but hopefully chatting with the right couple will put that behind me and I can enjoy the playtime again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, the whole cuck dynamic works both ways. I know quite a few straight women who love watching their partner with another woman!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I get asked to meet well verified couples all the time just to play with husbands with wife’s watching so must happen. I never go so can’t confirm haha!

Also group play in clubs I make it known I’m straight and women often join in with nothing reciprocated x

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM


"Of course, the whole cuck dynamic works both ways. I know quite a few straight women who love watching their partner with another woman! "

That’s good to hear! Hopefully I might find what I’m looking for, thank you

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM


"I get asked to meet well verified couples all the time just to play with husbands with wife’s watching so must happen. I never go so can’t confirm haha!

Also group play in clubs I make it known I’m straight and women often join in with nothing reciprocated x"

Thanks! I’ve opened my ‘looking for’ and will see what happens

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We do - it's not necessary for us for the woman to be bi or even curious. We always establish boundaries and if the woman wants to receive but not reciprocate that's fine too.

I love seeing Mr with another woman - it's a huge turn on for me.

I'm sorry your previous experience wasn't great, keep searching and you'll find what you're looking for.

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a couple where the focus was on the gent. I fancied him a lot so didn't mind not interacting with the lady. I could do it again if that was the case. I wouldn't be keen on the lady dominating me, more showing me how to pleasure her fella i could tolerate.

I hope your bad experience doesn’t ruin future explorations for you OP. There are some amazing couples out there. Communication is also very important i’ve found.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM

Ah this is good to hear! Thanks for the replies looking forward to seeing what opportunities might come along now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we find it a lot of hard work to arrange a meet with a single woman whether that be straight or bi on fab.

So much so that most of the time we don't bother with single women. We just concentrate our efforts on couples and single men.

I see new couples joining fab all the time and they make it clear. That they're looking for another woman to join them .When I see this I just think good luck with that mate.

Saying that we have had one single woman off fab that was straight. We did meet a few times n had a few threesomes with her but obviously my girlfriend and the woman didn't touch each other.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM


"As a couple we find it a lot of hard work to arrange a meet with a single woman whether that be straight or bi on fab.

So much so that most of the time we don't bother with single women. We just concentrate our efforts on couples and single men.

I see new couples joining fab all the time and they make it clear. That they're looking for another woman to join them .When I see this I just think good luck with that mate.

Saying that we have had one single woman off fab that was straight. We did meet a few times n had a few threesomes with her but obviously my girlfriend and the woman didn't touch each other.

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I can appreciate how frustrating that is! I guess even if you aren’t busy there still needs to be an attraction all ways round which is hard enough one on one let alone 3 or 4 ways (couples meeting couples) I also get the impression single women can be very particular when they seem to be so sought after from all directions. I find any meets I arrange with single men still take time so I don’t expect it to be any different while looking for a couple

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Does it happen? Yes.

Does it happen as often as people would like? No.

As a couple, finding someone to meet and play with, where you all get on and share similar interests can be a challenge.

Everyone has their preferences and may prioritise different elements, so what may at first seem like a good match for one party may not be so good for the other party.

Its taken us a while, so it can happen just try not to dwell on it or force something to happen.

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM


"Does it happen? Yes.

Does it happen as often as people would like? No.

As a couple, finding someone to meet and play with, where you all get on and share similar interests can be a challenge.

Everyone has their preferences and may prioritise different elements, so what may at first seem like a good match for one party may not be so good for the other party.

Its taken us a while, so it can happen just try not to dwell on it or force something to happen."

Ah I’m in no rush, as I say I’ve had an unpleasant experience so I will for my part be making sure the couple are fully communicative and as stable in their own relationship as possible. I’ve no need to jump in without thinking and will enjoy the time getting to know people before entering into anything physical. Once burnt and all that!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

This thread has made me think, not good at this time of night.

As a heterosexual male, l have a mistrust of a Mmf play. I have enough promises to turn me to buy a million spaghetti trees.

I have never taken a straight females perspective on this, it’s perturbed me more having a bi wife.

Sow your own path, just duck spaghetti danglers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite hard to arrange meets with single women and not so hard to arrange meets with Couples . We also find couples to be very reliable .Single Men are the easiest to arrange a meet with but are not very reliable we get about 1 out of 3 turn up.

With couples we don't mind talking to them all week but with single Men. if we try to arrange a meet 4-5 Days in advance they usually get cold feet.

The last single man we met .We put up a status saying we was playing. A Man messaged to stay he was available.The Girlfriend liked his profile. So we messaged back with our postcode and a time asking could he realistically get to us.

He messaged back saying yeah so we replied with my phone number telling him to come over and phone for the house number when he got there .All nice and simple

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By *his_Kitty_Scratches OP   Woman
over a year ago

WSM


"We find it quite hard to arrange meets with single women and not so hard to arrange meets with Couples . We also find couples to be very reliable .Single Men are the easiest to arrange a meet with but are not very reliable we get about 1 out of 3 turn up.

With couples we don't mind talking to them all week but with single Men. if we try to arrange a meet 4-5 Days in advance they usually get cold feet.

The last single man we met .We put up a status saying we was playing. A Man messaged to stay he was available.The Girlfriend liked his profile. So we messaged back with our postcode and a time asking could he realistically get to us.

He messaged back saying yeah so we replied with my phone number telling him to come over and phone for the house number when he got there .All nice and simple "

Ah, yeah I’d never meet that fast! I’d consider it for a social but I wouldn’t commit to play without having chatted first my safety and comfort level arriving at someone else’s house would need to be weighed up too, maybe it’s more a case of different approaches rather than women being hard work? If you want instant results then men on here will always be easier.

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By *kcouple1973Couple
over a year ago

colchester

Similar situation although Fran is bi we had a regular friend up until the pandemic hit, we used to meet 4-5 times a year at most, the situation was like her extreme on button and would sit playing with herself and watching and chucking out the odd instruction now and then ! Hardest part for me was trying my very best not make too much eye contact with her as that was the orgasm maker for me!!! A pretty rare arrangement that we had and I’m lucky enough that it’s burned into my memory for ever

Sadly she met a guy over lockdown and she understandably won’t meet now

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I K am a bit of a cuckquean so for me we would be open to meeting a straight single lady.

I'd even be open to pleasuring her if she was comfortable with it. Just adds to humiliation for me, being able to watch and pleasure him and her but no pleasure for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a cuckquean, I do love the idea of watching Mr with another woman as much as I enjoy the mfm.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We have met with a straight woman as a 3 and it's no issue (as is anything) if you all know what you want and are clear. Mrs enjoys seeing Mr with another woman and then having Mr before and after.

There are cuckqueen couples out there but far fewer than cuckold.

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

How is this different from the many many couples looking for a guy, when the husband is straight?

On a purely physical level it is still only half the couple getting the benefit of an extra person... Emotionally and psychologically there is more to it.

Of course 2 men go into 1 woman, but two women don't go into 1 man ... Usually. ...So always going to be someone twiddling thumbs and making tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this happen? If you’re a part of a couple are you happy to meet someone who isn’t bisexual therefore not meeting both your needs? Do women like watching their husband fuck another women? Do the female half of the couples enjoy dominating a straight woman and playing with her without it being reciprocated?

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately but not known how to word it, I’ve also had a rather uncomfortable situation with a couple while exploring my curiosity in the past so it has somewhat tainted things for me but hopefully chatting with the right couple will put that behind me and I can enjoy the playtime again "

I think any bad experiences are down to couples who are immature or not suited for this scene.

Even if they decide part way through that actually it's not working for them, it's very easy to just ask nicely if it can stop as someone is not feeling it.

The difficulty will be were one of the couple does not fully respect the other or the third party and wishes to continue dispite the misgivings or doubts of their partner.

I am part of a couple and we are more than happy to work around everyone's needs, we have both watched each other. But she is not someone who is wanting to be degraded but just enjoys watching me and another lady having fun together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is this different from the many many couples looking for a guy, when the husband is straight?

On a purely physical level it is still only half the couple getting the benefit of an extra person... Emotionally and psychologically there is more to it.

Of course 2 men go into 1 woman, but two women don't go into 1 man ... Usually. ...So always going to be someone twiddling thumbs and making tea."

Nah, it’s completely possible for two women to be on one man. One sitting on his face & one on his cock maybe? It doesn’t always have to be the man being “active”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is this different from the many many couples looking for a guy, when the husband is straight?

On a purely physical level it is still only half the couple getting the benefit of an extra person... Emotionally and psychologically there is more to it.

Of course 2 men go into 1 woman, but two women don't go into 1 man ... Usually. ...So always going to be someone twiddling thumbs and making tea.

Nah, it’s completely possible for two women to be on one man. One sitting on his face & one on his cock maybe? It doesn’t always have to be the man being “active”. "

Less variety in postions though. As the bifem in the couple I'd be happy to play with the straight fem and not have it reciprocated, but don't think I could just sit there watching, I'd rather be involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is this different from the many many couples looking for a guy, when the husband is straight?

On a purely physical level it is still only half the couple getting the benefit of an extra person... Emotionally and psychologically there is more to it.

Of course 2 men go into 1 woman, but two women don't go into 1 man ... Usually. ...So always going to be someone twiddling thumbs and making tea.

Nah, it’s completely possible for two women to be on one man. One sitting on his face & one on his cock maybe? It doesn’t always have to be the man being “active”.

Less variety in postions though. As the bifem in the couple I'd be happy to play with the straight fem and not have it reciprocated, but don't think I could just sit there watching, I'd rather be involved."

Yes, less variety I guess but definitely not a case of the man only being able to have sex with one woman at a time, like the previous poster suggested (“twiddling thumbs”). Women can top men, it’s not just a case of PIV being the only option (and “topping” doesn’t just mean inserting tab A into slot B)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How is this different from the many many couples looking for a guy, when the husband is straight?

On a purely physical level it is still only half the couple getting the benefit of an extra person... Emotionally and psychologically there is more to it.

Of course 2 men go into 1 woman, but two women don't go into 1 man ... Usually. ...So always going to be someone twiddling thumbs and making tea.

Nah, it’s completely possible for two women to be on one man. One sitting on his face & one on his cock maybe? It doesn’t always have to be the man being “active”.

Less variety in postions though. As the bifem in the couple I'd be happy to play with the straight fem and not have it reciprocated, but don't think I could just sit there watching, I'd rather be involved.

Yes, less variety I guess but definitely not a case of the man only being able to have sex with one woman at a time, like the previous poster suggested (“twiddling thumbs”). Women can top men, it’s not just a case of PIV being the only option (and “topping” doesn’t just mean inserting tab A into slot B)

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Absolutely, takes a bit more thought and creativity...and depends on limitations for each individual. The fems using a vibrator or a dildo may be acceptable.

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Does this happen? If you’re a part of a couple are you happy to meet someone who isn’t bisexual therefore not meeting both your needs? Do women like watching their husband fuck another women? Do the female half of the couples enjoy dominating a straight woman and playing with her without it being reciprocated?

Something I’ve been thinking about a lot lately but not known how to word it, I’ve also had a rather uncomfortable situation with a couple while exploring my curiosity in the past so it has somewhat tainted things for me but hopefully chatting with the right couple will put that behind me and I can enjoy the playtime again "

We've met females alone as they can please both of us as long as they are bi cur or bi.

Any guy would love to watch girl on girl play any day.

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