FabSwingers.com forum: Profile fakes and trolls

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the best way to spot these kind of people. I'd hazard a guess at incomplete and / or new, no photos / verified.

Any other tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the best way to spot these kind of people. I'd hazard a guess at incomplete and / or new, no photos / verified.

Any other tips? "

Unverified and not photo verified (although lots of genuine people aren’t so not fool proof)

I’ll fill this in later

No photos

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

"What's the best way to spot these kind of people. I'd hazard a guess at incomplete and / or new, no photos / verified.

Any other tips? "
they tend to fantasise a lot and talk rubbish. And send dozens of messages

They tend to talk the talk well but rarely do the walk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Time wasters fall into this/these categories also then.

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By *adyandthetramp20Couple
over a year ago

carry on camping

Unfortunately it's getting harder to spot them. I've come across a couple of profiles that are well verified and I found out through another platform that it was a fake. I'm not sure if it's something I can report to fab though when my proof is on another app.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Profiles that want to move straight to sex talk, they usually want to get their rocks off and then move on.

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By *ames CharenteMan
over a year ago

South West France. Dept 17

If you are interested in someone suggest a quick phone call. They can call you and hide their number, so no real excuse to say no if they are genuine and looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've noticed more than 1 profile that have similar names, veries photos, but almost never identical.

Can't understand what their aim/game is. F weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are interested in someone suggest a quick phone call. They can call you and hide their number, so no real excuse to say no if they are genuine and looking to meet."

Yes! I wouldn’t meet without a video call first!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are interested in someone suggest a quick phone call. They can call you and hide their number, so no real excuse to say no if they are genuine and looking to meet.

Yes! I wouldn’t meet without a video call first!

Last one was begging it for my address, gave a postcode but nit house no. My suspicions were raised about 45 min before arranged time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New profiles with no veri etc… takes like 10 minutes to get photo verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our view is, we trat everone as a fake until we have skyped or something with them, we do have good bullshit filters tho, so its not often we get to that point with them, its fairly easy to tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience on other sites the fake profiles include some or all of:

1)Impossibly gorgeous women who for some reason say they can't get any sex.

2)Same pic used across several new profiles.

3) Say things like "hit me up on ..."(a messaging app).

4) Say they are in Dagenham (for example) but seem to have a fabulous open plan house with American style power sockets and light switches).

5)All of a sudden a lot of new profiles have the same location (Aldershot was a favourite last time I was active on other sites).

I have to say that I have found hardly any fake profiles here compared to other sites where (IMHO) up to 90% of the female profiles are fake. Those that I have seen here have disappeared within the hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ll just know pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've noticed more than 1 profile that have similar names, veries photos, but almost never identical.

Can't understand what their aim/game is. F weird

Usually it is to get you chatting to them and then they will suggest you go to a website if you want to see more pics/cam of them. Said website will request credit card for "verification"...

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you

Time wasters talk about meeting but never seem to actually do so.

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By *ffectionately FilthyMan
over a year ago

Barnt Green

They’re ridiculously common

The one thing that one make this site instantly 6% better would be requiring photo verification before the ability to read or send messages, and perhaps no photo uploads without it too.

Meet/webcam verification means nothing- some will promise a photo or something in return for a fake verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

*& Just refuse point blank...typos are driving me nuts lately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Time wasters talk about meeting but never seem to actually do so."

It's certainly frustrating, as a newbie unverified so far I was hopeful of getting the 1st one on my profile. Been let down twice so far.

Lots of people won't even entertain an unverified profile.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Time wasters talk about meeting but never seem to actually do so.

It's certainly frustrating, as a newbie unverified so far I was hopeful of getting the 1st one on my profile. Been let down twice so far.

Lots of people won't even entertain an unverified profile. "

I’d suggest going to a club/social event

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

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By *m_hardMan
over a year ago

Swaffham

I have found that the people who ask for more pictures tend to never meet. It makes sense, those who need pictures are busy wanking and don't need you once the orgasm happens. Those who are so horny they don't care what you look like, are much more likely to actually go through with it. I have had plenty of good meets using this as a rule of thumb.

Interestingly, the number of messages don't really matter. Some hate typing and others just communicate more.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"If you are interested in someone suggest a quick phone call. They can call you and hide their number, so no real excuse to say no if they are genuine and looking to meet."
see I would never ever give my number out or do a call even withholding my number.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Time wasters talk about meeting but never seem to actually do so.

It's certainly frustrating, as a newbie unverified so far I was hopeful of getting the 1st one on my profile. Been let down twice so far.

Lots of people won't even entertain an unverified profile. "
well if your about next week I am in and out of alfreton and happy to meet at Tesco for a cuppa and a chat. I'm reasonably normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

Yes exactly, we can remain fairly annoymous on Kik as in it's not linked to your phone number. The reason I choose Kik is because of the live photo feature...for those who don't know & I'm surprised how many didn't... When it says camera under a pic sent on Kik it's live & when it doesn't say camera under a pic it's from storage.

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something..."

I send pics and vids via kik all the time, but didn’t know it stated ‘live’, so thanks for that tip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They’re ridiculously common

The one thing that one make this site instantly 6% better would be requiring photo verification before the ability to read or send messages, and perhaps no photo uploads without it too.

Meet/webcam verification means nothing- some will promise a photo or something in return for a fake verification. "

When I rejoined the site a couple of months ago, I had to complete photo verification before being able to proceed to even filling out profile text.

Not sure if this is required of all new users but I got tge impression that site owners are trying to tackle the situation

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

We like to use the cam chat rooms on here to verify the person(s) are who they say they are, if its a couple we ask for both to be present.

As a general rule we tend to avoid:-

Couples / female profiles over a few months old without a few decent verifications.

Lack of bio or overly "slutty" sounding bios.

Single pic profiles that look like they could have come off facebook.

Instant vulgar conversation

People asking for more pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If in doubt, get them on web cam or to send live snaps via snapchat. It all takes a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From my experience on other sites the fake profiles include some or all of:

1)Impossibly gorgeous women who for some reason say they can't get any sex.

2)Same pic used across several new profiles.

3) Say things like "hit me up on ..."(a messaging app).

4) Say they are in Dagenham (for example) but seem to have a fabulous open plan house with American style power sockets and light switches).

5)All of a sudden a lot of new profiles have the same location (Aldershot was a favourite last time I was active on other sites).

You had to use Dagenham hey lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people won't be matched, so starting with realistic expectations helps. Take things slowly - the problem people will often disappear.

As you gain experience, you will acquire greater abilities to sense things are not right. It is perhaps more of a problem for people looking for women.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something..."

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then. "

Snapchat is an option then - you take a live photo, send it and once they seen it will be deleted. You will also know if they save or screenshot it, snap tells you. That might be bit more comfortable for you than web camming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then. "

I haven't mentioned "video call" at all. Kik no longer has this feature. I'm on about a live photo being taken. I'm not a fan of cam either tbh.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We used to trust that veried meant they were genuine, now it doesn’t mean that much as the fakes are often verified too! I think you just get used to the patterns the fakes use! But def agree with what everyone else has said. Fakes and the time wasters who have no intention of meeting will always find their way on here, it’s frustrating, there’s a lot of idiots in daily life too, so I guess we just have to suss them out and move on! Miss PC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then.

I haven't mentioned "video call" at all. Kik no longer has this feature. I'm on about a live photo being taken. I'm not a fan of cam either tbh. "

Kik seems to have a new ‘live’ feature added recently, not used it yet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then.

I haven't mentioned "video call" at all. Kik no longer has this feature. I'm on about a live photo being taken. I'm not a fan of cam either tbh.

Kik seems to have a new ‘live’ feature added recently, not used it yet though

It always had the live pic & vid feature. Live video call is no longer.

What's the "new live feature added recently"...??? I don't see it.

I'd appreciate it if you told me. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then.

I haven't mentioned "video call" at all. Kik no longer has this feature. I'm on about a live photo being taken. I'm not a fan of cam either tbh.

Kik seems to have a new ‘live’ feature added recently, not used it yet though

It always had the live pic & vid feature. Live video call is no longer.

What's the "new live feature added recently"...??? I don't see it.

I'd appreciate it if you told me. Thanks

It seems to be a live stream to you on camera, I guess like in a cam room with people watching.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Time wasters talk about meeting but never seem to actually do so.

It's certainly frustrating, as a newbie unverified so far I was hopeful of getting the 1st one on my profile. Been let down twice so far.

Lots of people won't even entertain an unverified profile. well if your about next week I am in and out of alfreton and happy to meet at Tesco for a cuppa and a chat. I'm reasonably normal

A coffee in the tesco cafe would be great, thank you so much for your time, im fairly normal too ??

If you send me a direct message when your about I'm free pretty much any time after 2pm weekdays and all weekend

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Always get them and getting harder to spot as well !! we are pretty sure we are 100% Genuine and Mrs4 eats all my biscuits and dunks them in MY tea ?? but we don't fit in to quite a few of the box's most have suggested so we'd be firmly put in the "Timewasters/fake etc etc " box ??so sadly Mrs4 will have reside in my rather overworked and fevered imagination awhile longer ...A real Slim Bi fem who likes Fems and not ...also likes the feel of a younger male ..on here ..deeply shocking ! and even more shocking and disgusting we've actually done the dirty naughty deed or deeds or did we ?? xxx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It never just one thing it is a combination of many things which from not being verified, having an incomplete profile the list is endless.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The obvious ones to spot are pictureless unverified couples and single females that aren't new.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Once you've been on here (or any similar site) a while you start to spot the pattern. Easy give-aways are the 'posey' photos that look like they've been taken from social media, or 18-year olds who live in somewhere grim but all their pictures are on sunny beaches, every car in the background has a foreign number plate, not a single UK-style plug socket or light switch in sight. As always, if it sounds too good to be true...

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"They’re ridiculously common

The one thing that one make this site instantly 6% better would be requiring photo verification before the ability to read or send messages, and perhaps no photo uploads without it too.

Meet/webcam verification means nothing- some will promise a photo or something in return for a fake verification. "

I agree with the possible inclusion of a 5 day grace period between signing in and being kicked off for not veryfying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once you've been on here (or any similar site) a while you start to spot the pattern. Easy give-aways are the 'posey' photos that look like they've been taken from social media, or 18-year olds who live in somewhere grim but all their pictures are on sunny beaches, every car in the background has a foreign number plate, not a single UK-style plug socket or light switch in sight. As always, if it sounds too good to be true... "

Hmmm true in part. All of my photos and videos have come directly from my social media (and jobs I’ve recently done) I also like a nice beach shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the start acting strange when you ask them have they Kik...

I just refuse point blank to install Kik or those that do have Kik refuse to send live photos

I use kik all the time for sexy contacts, it’s much ‘safer’ due to only being linked with an email address

I like to ask for a phone chat fairly early on too ( they can call me number withheld), that quickly sorts the fakes from the genuine

As I said some just refuse to download Kik & some who have it just won't send a live pic

So they're defo hiding something...

I don't use kik and won't do any kind of video call as it's not something I'm comfortable with. (It has stressed me out so much having to do them for work during covid).

Guess I must be a fake then.

I haven't mentioned "video call" at all. Kik no longer has this feature. I'm on about a live photo being taken. I'm not a fan of cam either tbh.

Kik seems to have a new ‘live’ feature added recently, not used it yet though

It always had the live pic & vid feature. Live video call is no longer.

What's the "new live feature added recently"...??? I don't see it.

I'd appreciate it if you told me. Thanks

It seems to be a live stream to you on camera, I guess like in a cam room with people watching. "

Thanks for info

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Hmmm true in part. All of my photos and videos have come directly from my social media (and jobs I’ve recently done) I also like a nice beach shot. "

At least yours are all from the *same person's* social media though, your own! I wonder sometimes how even the horniest guy manages not to realise that the hot teen in the driveway of her Florida home in one pic isn't the same one who is on a London bus with the Houses of Parliament in the background in the next, and walking down grim Communist streets in the third, even if they do have the same hair colour...

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

What's a time waster? We've been called that a few times by guys here who thought sending a quick one liner to us and then being ignored amounted to us being time wasters. We've even been called timesasters for not meeting anyone in the last 2 years during the pandemic.

Can't speak specifically for couples as we're not seeking them but there are plenty of time wasters here and amongst the worst are those guys who fire off endless winks, cocks shots and crass one liners then expect the offers to flood in.

Most fakes/timewasters just get off on talking dirty and wanking so avoiding engaging in that soon puts them off. Anyone looking to meet couples ought to ask to see or hear them both before doing so. That usually puts of those guys posing as couples (or even posing as females).

Years ago we had a guy turn up to a meeting who'd put on about 4 stone since his profile picture was taken. We didn't recognise him at first. Since then we've never met a guy we haven't a) seen on cam first and b) shown ourselves to.

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"If you are interested in someone suggest a quick phone call. They can call you and hide their number, so no real excuse to say no if they are genuine and looking to meet."

Exactly this. I'm always happy to let potential friends and playmates have my number so they can ring or video call me to be sure I'm genuine. I'll also go on cam if requested.

I can also be contacted on WhattsApp, Kik and Twitter.

It's also a good way to sort the real swingers from the bullshitters and wannabes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate people have a list of hoops they like people to jump through before they'll believe someone isn't fake. But I won't jump through any of them. I'm not photo verified and don't really care if people believe I'm real or not. But then again I never make the first contact. If someone messages me that I like the look of, I swap face pictures and if there's mutual attraction then I'll arrange a social meet pretty quickly. I won't be doing live photos or cam though and if someone won't meet me because of this then it's their loss. Doesn't make me a time waster. Time wasters to me are the people who read my profile and see they're not suitable but still message me. Or of course the ones who don't even bother to read my profile but still message or send friend requests with no prior contact. Makes me laugh though when I'm called a time waster for simply saying no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm true in part. All of my photos and videos have come directly from my social media (and jobs I’ve recently done) I also like a nice beach shot.

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