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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid"

Nope, looks good to me

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Looks completely Fab normal, to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ladies, I was starting to think it was me

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By *acksLamentMan
over a year ago

Bedford


"Thank you ladies, I was starting to think it was me"

It's better than mine!

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Looks absolutely fine to us x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I shall leave as is then. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not rude, just very picky, but its your choice who you want to meet, however, im not sure many gus meet everyting on your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we are picky, but we only get to meet occassionly so want it to be as good as possible. Maybe we should relax a bit, but happy at mo to keep going as we are. Time will tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples rules are couples rules. Stick to it. Thats what you both want then thats what you both want. Not rude at all just to the point. Lots of couples get lots of messages from single men, and as we have found most either think its the female online or are very disrespectful happy fabbing you too

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By *otsolittlesecretWoman
over a year ago

prestatyn

Nothing wrong with it at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks alright., sets out your wants and don’t wants.

I think some people attack profile bios that exclude them especially when they think they’d be suitable, or they’ve found you wanting and feel your profile bio should be more humble.

Either way its your profile and should run it how you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont want it to sound big headed. Neither of us are gym bunnies and im certainly no adonis nor hung like a baboon. But we have our likes and wants and hopefully will find the right guys. Fortunately we have met mainly nice guys with only 1 nutcase who ruined it for a while.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

To paraphrase a certain advertising slogan, "it does what it says on the tin!", ie, you have stipulated exactly what you want from others in all demographic groups.

It is after all, your choice in who you wish to meet and what expectations are on all sides.

I'd look at your profile, understand it 100% and behave accordingly.

I do the same with mine & receive positive feedback on how I compose it. Yet, I still get people asking me stupid questions; if they read mine properly, they'd have all the answers!

You're not rude at all.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Your profile is no different than ours or many others, so don't fret. However, you could consider removing two words, 'rant over'.

If people percieve that your ranting (because your telling them you are) then it's understandable that they might think you're rude. Let's face it no one ever goes on a polite rant.

Sorry to be a pedant by the way, just trying to be helpful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for such an erudite reply

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

I think your profile is perfect, pinpointing everything you require also not requiring. Happy fabbing .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile is no different than ours or many others, so don't fret. However, you could consider removing two words, 'rant over'.

If people percieve that your ranting (because your telling them you are) then it's understandable that they might think you're rude. Let's face it no one ever goes on a polite rant.

Sorry to be a pedant by the way, just trying to be helpful.

"

Cheers and might take your advice

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Seems fine to us and the only ones that will call it rude are the same ones who don't read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it looks fine. I don't see anything rude about it at all.

I'm just wondering if those who are telling you it is are the very people you're trying to filter out.

I don't meet your requirements, but I understand that because you've made it very clear in your text, though I'm certainly not offended by it.

As with many things in life, some people will find any excuse to have a whinge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t look at all rude…you’re perfectly clear about your likes and dislikes…assertive isn’t rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rude at all. Does it work to filter out what you don’t what though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not rude at all. Does it work to filter out what you don’t what though?"

Unfortunately it seems that 99% of blokes who message us havent read the profile so in that respect it doesnt work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanka everyone for responding, its been interesting ans informative reading your replies

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By *ave1963BarnsleyMan
over a year ago

Barnsley


"I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid"

You're paranoid. It's a bloody good profile to be frank. I wish more were like yours.

Happy Fabbing!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid"

Lot of negatives but that not rude and if your profile is working for you and you are getting the meets what does it matter what others think.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I have had the same said about mine that I’m too fussy etc etc. Don’t take any notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think your profile is rude at all. We naively used to reply to all messages, we thought we were being polite. However, this has now moved to banging our heads of the desk as to the dozens of guys that cannot be bothered to even read the first few lines of our profile. Thus it's reasonable to include the statements you have made. We are now just deleting the messages in which we can see our profile has not be read, sometimes followed up by said people asking why we deleted it. I guess we look at this as being 'features' of fab, much like 'glitches' and 'bugs' in software

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By *lderone1Man
over a year ago

Cheadle hulme, Cheadle, Cheshire

Great profile and doe's whit is expective. xxx

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Couples and guys never read profiles lol.

It’s not rude. Just says what you want.

For me, it’s a bit repetitive and why are you apologising at least twice for wanting what you do!

If you get what you want and it works then don’t change what isn’t broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see anything wrong with it plus it's your account so don't worry about others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it's a tad long and a tad blunt but if it works for you that's all for the good! M X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel exactly the same , most single guys never read the profile anyway !! They just send a dick pic and announce what a heavy cummer they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah we are picky, but we only get to meet occassionly so want it to be as good as possible. Maybe we should relax a bit, but happy at mo to keep going as we are. Time will tell"

Yes and compleatly agree with that view, we are a bit the same tbh, we also dont meet much, and as i said, its your right to be as picky as you like, at least people know where they stand that way

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Seen plenty of direct or aggressive profile text since I joined this site. I wouldn’t add yours to that list by simply adding an apology for the directness is enough to state your considering that other person’s feelings.

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

My profile is rude as heck and I love it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid"

It's pretty negative. Almost every sentance is a 'no' to this or a 'no' to that. Wouldn't say its rude or aggressive though, just wouldn't inspire me to want to play with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep getting told that our profile text is rude and aggressive. My counter argument is that it has only got like that because so many guys message without reading it. What do you think, am I getting paranoid"

Fk'em,if it works for you,why care what some might think?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think it’s ok it says exactly what you want , but maybe the language could be slightly less negative and more relaxed?

If I met all that criteria I’d wondering why meet, what do I get in return, it doesn’t really say much about you two as people or what you are offering back. But if it’s working fir you then I’d leave as is

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