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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Hello everyone, i have been on fabswingers for a over 2 years now and have been wanting to meet someone to meet regularly.

The only problem is no-one i message ever looks at my profile or replies to my messages.

My messages are always polite and i have tried many different approaches to try and get a response.

I am looking for any advice or criticism of my profile and i can send an example of my messages i have sent in the past for advice there to

Have a good day

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I forgot to mention I'm looking to meet women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello everyone, i have been on fabswingers for a over 2 years now and have been wanting to meet someone to meet regularly.

The only problem is no-one i message ever looks at my profile or replies to my messages.

My messages are always polite and i have tried many different approaches to try and get a response.

I am looking for any advice or criticism of my profile and i can send an example of my messages i have sent in the past for advice there to

Have a good day"

I hope you take this as the objective question its intended as.

You're a 31yr old male, an adult. If you have to ask here for advice on how you present yourself to or interact with, other adults, should you be here?

Maybe you're fishing in the wrong icehole!

Regardless, good luck OP and I wish you godspeed.

Thor

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Hello everyone, i have been on fabswingers for a over 2 years now and have been wanting to meet someone to meet regularly.

The only problem is no-one i message ever looks at my profile or replies to my messages.

My messages are always polite and i have tried many different approaches to try and get a response.

I am looking for any advice or criticism of my profile and i can send an example of my messages i have sent in the past for advice there to

Have a good day"

You don't seem to have a problem with getting meets according to your verifications.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Sadly being unable to accommodate will out lots of people iff as they may suspect your married, could you accommodate at a hotel

Your looking for advice on meeting women yet you've chosen to hide the one verification you have from a couple (presuming you met the female half) so I'd show it, as at the moment your veri's are male heavy (I get that it's easier to meet guys) but it feels that's where your focus is

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Hello everyone, i have been on fabswingers for a over 2 years now and have been wanting to meet someone to meet regularly.

The only problem is no-one i message ever looks at my profile or replies to my messages.

Only with men, when it comes to women it's a different story

My messages are always polite and i have tried many different approaches to try and get a response.

I am looking for any advice or criticism of my profile and i can send an example of my messages i have sent in the past for advice there to

Have a good day

You don't seem to have a problem with getting meets according to your verifications. "

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Only with men, when it comes to womens its a different story

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Only with men, when it comes to womens its a different story "

There are lots of single men on here looking for sex.

Women have a lot of choice.

If you don’t get chosen well that is just the way it is.

At least you are getting men to play with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know that the people you message aren't looking at your profile?

Most women and a lot of couples view in mode, so you'll never know, but believe me, they'll be checking out your profile before they even think about looking at your message.

As for your profile, it's pretty bland and vanilla. Says nothing about the sorts of things you're into - am I'm not talking about stamp collecting.

What would YOU be looking to do on a meet?

More importantly, what could someone expect from a meet with you?

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"Sadly being unable to accommodate will out lots of people iff as they may suspect your married, could you accommodate at a hotel

Your looking for advice on meeting women yet you've chosen to hide the one verification you have from a couple (presuming you met the female half) so I'd show it, as at the moment your veri's are male heavy (I get that it's easier to meet guys) but it feels that's where your focus is "
they never wrote anything so i cant show it

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By *jb773 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford


"How do you know that the people you message aren't looking at your profile?

Most women and a lot of couples view in mode, so you'll never know, but believe me, they'll be checking out your profile before they even think about looking at your message.

As for your profile, it's pretty bland and vanilla. Says nothing about the sorts of things you're into - am I'm not talking about stamp collecting.

What would YOU be looking to do on a meet?

More importantly, what could someone expect from a meet with you?

"
right I'll add some more info into my profile about what i like and am open to doing

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

No one can give you advice on what to write in a first message, as it should be individually tailored from you to the recipient. But in general terms, make it clear you have read their profile, perhaps comment on something in it; Don't be crude or pushy, and say what you have to offer.

Good luck

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Op,

Try reading some of these threads where some good advice can be found:

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/914931

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/932836

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/916853

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/introductions/919169

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/938170

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/994384

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

The beard may be a factor that puts some people off meeting you.

And is easy to rectify, by being clean shaven.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

The bit about assuming you'd turn up to someone else's would put me off op.

If you won't accom, maybe they won't want to accom you.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Join a dating site would be my advice

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