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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. Can anyone give advice on my profile. Been here 9 months and little interest. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bland, average, generic.

Could really have been written by anyone.

Nothing stands out.

Pretty vanilla really.

Nobody who reads your profile is going to know if you're likely to be compatible with them or not, so they will assume not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d get rid of the first line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bland, average, generic.

Could really have been written by anyone.

Nothing stands out.

Pretty vanilla really.

Nobody who reads your profile is going to know if you're likely to be compatible with them or not, so they will assume not."

What would you suggest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 25/07/21 10:34:16]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’d get rid of the first line. "

Thanks I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bland, average, generic.

Could really have been written by anyone.

Nothing stands out.

Pretty vanilla really.

Nobody who reads your profile is going to know if you're likely to be compatible with them or not, so they will assume not.

What would you suggest "

That kinda misses the point, if you think about it.

If I were to write your profile for you, it would no longer be YOUR profile would it?

You're welcone to take a glance at mine to see if you can pick up on what I mean, but I do not give you permission to copy any of it - had that before with someone asking for profile advice nicking half my text.

It's about telling people what sort of things you're into, and, more importantly, what they might expect from a meet with you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find the pic covered with emojis a bit offputting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bland, average, generic.

Could really have been written by anyone.

Nothing stands out.

Pretty vanilla really.

Nobody who reads your profile is going to know if you're likely to be compatible with them or not, so they will assume not.

What would you suggest

That kinda misses the point, if you think about it.

If I were to write your profile for you, it would no longer be YOUR profile would it?

You're welcone to take a glance at mine to see if you can pick up on what I mean, but I do not give you permission to copy any of it - had that before with someone asking for profile advice nicking half my text.

It's about telling people what sort of things you're into, and, more importantly, what they might expect from a meet with you.

"

Actually that's really helpful,will have a look. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do mine please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do mine please "

Can you let us know where Fab is a publicly traded entity, we’d like to buy shares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do mine please "

It is considered bad forum etiquette to hijack someone else's thread.

You would be far better off starting your own thread

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Hi. Can anyone give advice on my profile. Been here 9 months and little interest. Thanks"

Where is your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi. Can anyone give advice on my profile. Been here 9 months and little interest. Thanks

Where is your profile?"
I have taken it off line while I update it, after several comments that were messaged to me. But thanks for replying

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By *itlbeeCouple
over a year ago

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Big factor is going to be you sound like you are cheating. If you're not, and have your wife's ok with this, you need to be VERY upfront about that.

Most swingers I know, myself included, want nothing to do with cheaters - we often have a really high regard for the openness and honesty, and communication skills we employ to be able to be swingers

otherwise, I give the same advice to most single guys.

Swinging is primarily centred on couples. single guys can't afford to be selfish here - there's simply too many here.

Women and couples here can afford to be choosy and will prioritize female desire and pleasure in a way that's less common for singles.

You have to be very focused on being very giving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Needs a cock pic.

And what previous poster said - indicate if your wife has given you the okay or not so people know the situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Needs a cock pic.

And what previous poster said - indicate if your wife has given you the okay or not so people know the situation."
thanks for the advice I will make some changes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Big factor is going to be you sound like you are cheating. If you're not, and have your wife's ok with this, you need to be VERY upfront about that.

Most swingers I know, myself included, want nothing to do with cheaters - we often have a really high regard for the openness and honesty, and communication skills we employ to be able to be swingers

otherwise, I give the same advice to most single guys.

Swinging is primarily centred on couples. single guys can't afford to be selfish here - there's simply too many here.

Women and couples here can afford to be choosy and will prioritize female desire and pleasure in a way that's less common for singles.

You have to be very focused on being very giving"

Thankyou for the input I will amend my profile

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

Be clear if you are playing with permission if that is the case. Only one public pic on there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be clear if you are playing with permission if that is the case. Only one public pic on there x"

I have updated my profile

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Do mine please "

You don't need 20+ selfies 1 will suffice, what's under the clothes?

I'd also take out the Sydney University rubbish, it's half your bio & pointless & puts me personally off meeting anyone that has any of those kind of statements in their profile

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

This site is no good for single cishets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bland, average, generic.

Could really have been written by anyone.

Nothing stands out.

Pretty vanilla really.

Nobody who reads your profile is going to know if you're likely to be compatible with them or not, so they will assume not.

What would you suggest

That kinda misses the point, if you think about it.

If I were to write your profile for you, it would no longer be YOUR profile would it?

You're welcone to take a glance at mine to see if you can pick up on what I mean, but I do not give you permission to copy any of it - had that before with someone asking for profile advice nicking half my text.

It's about telling people what sort of things you're into, and, more importantly, what they might expect from a meet with you.

"

I saw the person who blatantly stole half your profile text, did you report them? If so did fab take action against them buddy?

KJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try a forum search, loads of threads out there, and some good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're best starting your own post mate, as the forum assassins will come after you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're best starting your own post mate, as the forum assassins will come after you "

Fair and valid point! I'll do that.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Erm maybe the married and can't accommodate are more to the point. Not many women will choose married but some will.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Having read the comments above it appears that you’re married and cheating. There is now no mention of that in your profile if there once was. My advice would be to include it because otherwise you either have to tell every person you chat to that you’re married which could waste a lot of your time because not everyone will be ok with it, or you’re going to have to keep it from the people you meet which for many will not be appreciated.

Being on here to cheat won’t be attractive to lots of people, some won’t care and some will like it. You should definitely be upfront though, no one on here wants the wool pulled over their eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree, this isn't a place for cheaters (although lots on it!) and married, cannot accommodate ain't going to work for many people.

Get yours Mrs to join in, go to clubs as a single guy or go see old Flo down the road and give her a few quid!

Beyond that, maybe put some personality in to your profile.

Happy fabbing!

M

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