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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach "

What makes you even think people should contact you and arrange a meet. It's all a gamble. Some people never have meets for various reasons. You are better off going somewhere to meet people rather then hit and hope on hetr

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Hi and welcome to the forum

You can use message filters to prevent men and TVs from contacting you although those who already have will still be

able to. That will solve that problem .

You profile is quite interesting and a little bit different so I'd say keep that but expand on it a bit. What kind of person would you like to meet? Are you happy to meet socially first? How do you envisage a meet going? That sort of thing.

It'll take time, single men need a lot of patience.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that makes a lot of sense I just didn’t want to put too much on my profile tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very true but not unlucky in that sense just thought I’d give swinging a try as I’m a quite forward person

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thank you for that makes a lot of sense I just didn’t want to put too much on my profile tbh"

You're welcome.

It's difficult to find the right balance isn't it. If say try two or three short paragraphs.

Are you sending messages out?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Also if you use the reply+quote button under the post you're replying to we'll know who you're talking to

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi I’m a straight guy but it seems all I get messages from are men and TVs even though it’s not my interest I will be happy to make advised changes to my profile I just don’t see anything wrong with my approach "

Also those that have already messaged if you block won't be able to message you so this could help you not receiving unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.

You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are coming out of a pandemic, alot of people havnt been meeting, try getting along to a social or a club, you get out what you put in, like everything in life, use your message filters, and block those that have contacted you that you arent interested in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not about luck... It's about atttaction and there is feck all the messaged nor the messager can do about that, if there isn't any

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.

You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.

Good luck "

I did have one up before but I removed it to see if everyone preferred discretion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not about luck... It's about atttaction and there is feck all the messaged nor the messager can do about that, if there isn't any"

Fair point but I know I’m a attractive guy even if everyone don’t agree lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would you consider a profile pic? I’m often put off by a silhouette profile.

You sound pretty cool, love the artist vibe - definitely expand on that.

Good luck "

Thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can stop these unwanted messages with filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can stop these unwanted messages with filters"

Thank you I’ve filtered them out now been years since I’ve used this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not about luck... It's about atttaction and there is feck all the messaged nor the messager can do about that, if there isn't any

Fair point but I know I’m a attractive guy even if everyone don’t agree lol "

That may be so... But possibly not to the people you are messaging

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