FabSwingers.com forum: how quickly do you decide?

By *urious.couple OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Say you and your other half are in a club, with no pre arranged meets, how quickly do you decide who you would or wouldn't play with?

At first glance?

After chat?

Or do you wait and see how the night is going and alter your criteria accordingly?!?!?

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

All of the above really, although we are still a bit shy so hope that they ask first lol

But we like to chat and will decide fairly quickly if we would like to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would chat to different people and see who i got along with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Say you and your other half are in a club, with no pre arranged meets, how quickly do you decide who you would or wouldn't play with?

At first glance?

After chat?

Or do you wait and see how the night is going and alter your criteria accordingly?!?!?

We tend to talk to lots of people at clubs and then chat between us to see if we would like to play with anyone.

We don't tend to expect to play, well unless with each other and keep talking between us throughout the night if thee are any options

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to watch who I am interested in and see who their eyes follow, or indeed who they follow to get an idea for their 'type'

Then see how they behave / interact / respond.

Only when I am pretty sure I am in with a chance will I make a move.

OK, so some would say I might lose out as a result, but I am rarely off target once I have set my sights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am generally a very shy person, I know it is not the best trait to have on here but the wife is very out going and can talk to anyone. I often think of going to clubs with her but think I would struggle to get chatting, how do you usually break the ice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i'm speaking to people on here and decide to meet for a social usually i'm 95% made my mind up they are my type i go for and are the person i would like to have fun with

in a club im rarely that confident on if i like the person, depends on my mood and cold sex can be pretty boring if im honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby is the one that makes the first move and goes up to people.

It's one thing i just cant do.

If someone comes up to me that's different.

I can yack for England once the first bits done.

We just tend to look at each other and seem to know if it's going any further xx

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By *bend69Couple
over a year ago

twinkletown

"Hubby is the one that makes the first move and goes up to people.

It's one thing i just cant do.

If someone comes up to me that's different.

I can yack for England once the first bits done.

We just tend to look at each other and seem to know if it's going any further xx"

Bag U r not shy ffs pmsl.......

No we same tend to wait to b asked lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am very much a gobshite... so I'll chat and see how things are first before looking at going any further......

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We make our mind up quite quick. I think you know from virtually first contact. When we go to Chams we do love the round bed.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much chat and socialising sometimes spoils it for us - usually we prefer spontaneity and may just go in a room and see who joins in !

Other times a quick hi and then a play

With regular playmates we may just check out who else we find attractive and go for a quick chat with them and on to a room

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

"Too much chat and socialising sometimes spoils it for us - usually we prefer spontaneity and may just go in a room and see who joins in !

Other times a quick hi and then a play

With regular playmates we may just check out who else we find attractive and go for a quick chat with them and on to a room

Thats why we like the round room at Chams. Less chat more play.

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