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can someone please help me with this site and my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi please can someone help me with my profile . And how to use this site I have been on this site for abit now and I still don't now how to use it really . What things should I say on my profile. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

check out the successful guys on here and write something similar on your profile then be nice and respectful when messaging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort the spelling and grammer out for starters.

Then look at your profile and ask if it in anyway stands out from the 100's of other singlemen on here? Does it sell you in anyway? Does it say what you are looking for?

As for how to use the site, well don't sit around waiting to be messaged get proactive. Search profiles and message people. Don't send bland messages, women potentially get 100's of messages a day so you need to stand out. Try and start a conversation based on something in their profile so they have a reason to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"check out the successful guys on here and write something similar on your profile then be nice and respectful when messaging."

Actually I think that that is awful advice... Do the successful singlemales have a magic blueprint making all their profiles similar? No. they all sell themselves based on what they think are their best features, writing something similar if it doesn;t reflect the OP won't get him anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort out the spelling, it puts people off immediately. Don't sound so desperate - 'going in the army soon so want to have NSA' - its not gonna get you the sympathy vote - make yourself stand out. Use humour or something along those lines. There are so many single guys on here, you need to make impact & sorry, but your profile doesn't do that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi no need to be sorry and thanks for the help. I am going back in to the army so alot of my time is taken up by work and training . Is it really that bad to say your looking for ( NSA ) I am really new to the writing a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi no need to be sorry and thanks for the help. I am going back in to the army so alot of my time is taken up by work and training . Is it really that bad to say your looking for ( NSA ) I am really new to the writing a profile "

It is the way you have said it that is implying you are desperate:-

'I am going in to the army soon so I am looking for N,S,A .'

Consider rewording the sentence as we are all looking for NSA but we are not going to jump to it to meet you because the sentence makes you sound desperate.

Try saying that you are 22 yrs old and soon to enter the army so won't be around much and hence I cannot accommodate but happy to pay for a hotel. Then a new paragraph with something like 'I am looking for nsa with ladies/couples', state age if you have a preference, size too. Are you interested in attending parties, going to clubs? There is so much you haven't said.

Do a search on the forum link at the side as this question is asked all time, mostly on the Introductions forum, and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the help. you are all nice people I have updated my profile

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm assuming when you say you have a "pervert face pic" .... that you mean a "private face pic" .... If that is the case you may want to change that bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bloody phone lol did not see that one thanks but apart for that's is it ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm assuming when you say you have a "pervert face pic" .... that you mean a "private face pic" .... If that is the case you may want to change that bit "

we all like a nice 'pervert face' pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha

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