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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So

I’m here on a singles profile, my wife and I both have the fantasie of including others, started off with me wanting her to

Fuck others while

I watch, slowly told her about it, we’ve acted it out with the help

Of toys and porn, now this generally happens after a night out drinking.

The wife litterally turns into what some would say a horny slut wife which drives me wild, wife will

Bring it up now during play that she wants me to

Watch her being fucked while she sucks me, I’ll tell her that I’d love that, anyway she litterally goes mad with her dildo, she gets very vocal, ive said do you want me to get a guy here now, again she says yes, make sure he’s well

Hung. Never able

To

Get some one at that time of

Night last minute.

Now here lies the problem, when I

Go

To talk to her the next day or say to her do you think we should plan a meet, or arrange a social meet she goes all

Shy and pretends that she doesn’t know what I’m

Talking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about it when you’re not both 3 sheets to the wind or where it might be construed as just fantasy in the moment. And it’s a serious, sit down talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have tried, tried to

Make her feel

Comfortable and not embarrassed about it, I know that she has confided To

One of her friends about, I know she asked them if they thought it was odd or weird. I’m guessing it will just only be a d*unken fantasy for us both but she acts so

Seriously and determined To get another guy late night last minute. Don’t understand

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Don't act on anything people say when they're d*unk.

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By *r essexfunsterMan
over a year ago

harlow

Alcohol isn’t a truth serum

Ignore d*unken bravado

Discuss over a coffee and see if same thought process and desires exist

(They usually won’t)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I

Definitely know that, I

Wouldn’t ever take advantage whikst d*unk, the thing is tho she will ask and tell

Me to get a guy round, again always late night last minute, so we Both have tried together, she has made subtle hints before when we’ve gone away for the weekend and have a hotel

Room and these have been made before either of us have been

Drinking, so I

Do feel quite confused to be honest

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By *ornyharry39Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I can travel last minute within reason had loads last minute late night meets weekends best

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people say and do in d*unk fantasy land is a million miles away from the real world stone cold sober.

Your playing a dangerous game lets say you find a last minute guy willing to turn up there and then to fuck your d*unk wife. What does that say about that guy? What happens when this happens and she freaks the fuck out d*unk when she quickly learns reality is different to fantasy?

Does your wife know your on fab?

Have you mentioned clubs to your wife you can go just to watch a few times with zero pressure to play. Just don't get d*unk in the club we have seen a few couples do that then try and play for the 1st time and one of them can't handle it and has a melt down.

Good luck

KJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want for my wife and I to act out whikst d*unk, but wife during said times is adamant she wants me to

Get a guy round at said time, this is where I’m

Lost and confused she’ll look on her phone aswell. Luckily it’s alwaYs been

Late at night amd last minute as I agree with the being d*unk thing being a bad idea,

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Why not try a club

You could both socialise and see how she feels then in that environment.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything done or said while under the influence of drink cannot be taken seriously. If you can talk about it while sober, then have a proper discussion and decide where to go from there. If you want to try and make it a reality, make a couple's profile and see what happens.

It doesn't matter what friends think, it's what you two think once the drink has worn off that matters.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

The best advice i was ever given was, 'have a wank and see if its still a good idea!'

If it's not, then its just a fantasy she enjoys. Just because you get off on a fantasy it doesn't necessarily mean you want to make it a reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to talk about this honestly and openly whilst being sober.

Me and my missus are considering it . One of her own experiences of swinging in a previous relationship happened at the end of a d*unken night out. She absolutely says never ever do that whilst d*unk. Her experience happened with a couple who were friends of her and her husband and it led to disaster. The friendship was ruined and it led to the other couple getting divorced.

These things require a level of communication that is honest, open and non judgemental. It shouldn't ever be rushed into in our opinion, especially whilst d*unk. You could potentially put yourselves in harms way.

Before involving anyone else explore each others desires and fantasies. There are many options open to you before jumping into swinging.

Have fun and talk without alcohol being involved.

This is only our opinion. Have fun on your journey of discovery

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"I have tried, tried to

Make her feel

Comfortable and not embarrassed about it, I know that she has confided To

One of her friends about, I know she asked them if they thought it was odd or weird. I’m guessing it will just only be a d*unken fantasy for us both but she acts so

Seriously and determined To get another guy late night last minute. Don’t understand "

At the time it feel right a fantasy etc but in the cold light of day, she's probably embarrassed a should we or not ,what will people think... sit down and talk take her out

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