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"Mines terrible. He usually stays up until he's broken " Viagra? | |||
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"Performing is definitely harder for men (pardon the pun lol). The 'chain comes off my bike' quite easily when faced with a new scenario or unfamiliar surroundings and people. Its more a mental than physical thing for me. I have to be mentally turned on for the physical side to kick in. Every situation is slightly different, so adapting can be a factor, but I have also found that comfort is the key to making a good meet better. " I really find the same. The mental side of things has to be in order for the physical side to work! | |||
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"Bit of an odd question for the lads, but does anyone struggle with keeping the big fella up come meets, through nerves? I've struggled a couple of times probably because of the expectation, or something. I'm absolutely turned on & mentally ready for action, & most meets I've been absolutely fine, How do people overcome this, or am I just not cut out for it? " Errant erections are very common and completely normal. From my point of view, all I require from a man in such a situation is to deal with it in a mature way - not to try and make it my responsibility or make me feel awkward etc but to adapt to the situation and move on to other types of play. Charm, good humour and good manners help a lot in such scenarios. | |||
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"We always have 50mg of prescribed viagra as a back up plan (its also available over the counter as Viagra connect). Generally i can keep wood for hours but no one including hardened swingers are immune from occasional stage fright..no matter how rare that is or virile the guy is. Having viagra there 'if its needed' avoids any potential confidence knock or break in play. " Always worth having a back up ! It’s not the getting it up that worries me, it’s in case my wife thinks I’m not turned on and starts stressing. Which in turn causes me to stress. I find excusing yourself for two minutes to the toilet and a few deep breathes to calm down helps massively. | |||
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