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By *hybuthorny2014 OP   Man
over a year ago

norwich

Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here

Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn’t help that your profile is hidden.

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By *hybuthorny2014 OP   Man
over a year ago

norwich

Yea hiding it for a bit done one had a go at me

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I never reply to a hidden profile if someone messages me

I like to have a look and see who they are too

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By *hybuthorny2014 OP   Man
over a year ago

norwich

Ok I’m back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore all the pish just be yourself .. hell of an ignorant folk you just have to give a by. Lots of selfish profiles demanding face pics from the kick off etc. You sound quite a nice conscientious person so don't take anything personally from non replies and deleted messages. A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention. Pinch of salt stuff. Lol

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Go to an organised social ..search in the forum...dont waste time sending messages

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury


"A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention."

What an absolute load of tosh!!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here

Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes

"

Have you ever thought that it might be something else??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mean to be rude but you're profile litterally tells me nothing except the fact you are 47, can't travel or accommodate.

You could look like Chris Hemsworth in your photos and I'd not be interested based on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here

Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes

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have exact same prob or i get acused of my profile being fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a hard time caus I’m single male people think I’m using cut and paste but I’m not it’s just how I start chatting I’m only one person I think people don’t like me on here

Not sure what to do I do enjoy the cars sometimes

have exact same prob or i get acused of my profile being fake"

Your profile isn't really selling yourself and the status is off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok I’m back "

nope still hidden, alot of men moan about other men ruining it for everyone, no they dont, they ruin things for themselves, its up to the individual to make it work, you get out what you put in

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I always assumed the reason behind hiding the profile was either taking a break, being able to have better control limiting messages and not being pestered

So op please assist like you say in your post how can your hidden profile help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore all the pish just be yourself .. hell of an ignorant folk you just have to give a by. Lots of selfish profiles demanding face pics from the kick off etc. You sound quite a nice conscientious person so don't take anything personally from non replies and deleted messages. A large amount of women on here are here on a power trip stroking their egos with no pictures so get away with being ignorant whereas down the pub they'd have little chance of the same attention. Pinch of salt stuff. Lol "

It's certainly a woman's world on here

Hello and welcome lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it that so many think of the messaging facility as a live chat device, when it really isn't.

You should think of it more like writing a letter - though I guess there are some who have never written a letter in their lives.

So many profiles stating that a message like 'Hi' or 'How are you?' Will get deleted.

If you're being accused of using cut and paste messages, then you should really think about whybthat might be. It neans that your message looks too generic, as if it could have been sent to anybody.

Pretty much everyone you message will look at your profile before even thinking ofvopening your message. If it tells them nothing about you, or shows an obvious lack of effort, or is hidden, then why should they bother.

Blaming others or the site is an unattractive trait as it screams of a sense of entitlement.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I would also say try a social or a club. Then people can see you face to face and take you as they find you in the real world. Likewise you can do the same with them. IMO that is the best way of meeting new people and preventing time wasting.

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