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Can I get some advice on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Your photo of 27th June 2021 is a bit redundant.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you are quite young for Fab, so as it stands your profile is probably not going to get much attention.

You have very limited text and one photo where you're a long way away.

You're literally one of thousands of men. What makes you worth meeting? What can you offer? What's unique about you?

Inject some personality into your profile.

Best of luck.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I thought your profile pic was poor and then I saw the other one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero information about what you like or are after and very poor photo , vibe ? Hate that word , you can take photos without your face being in them , sell yourself , think of this site as Amazon , why would anyone pick up your profile? When there are hundreds on here ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero information about what you like or are after and very poor photo , vibe ? Hate that word , you can take photos without your face being in them , sell yourself , think of this site as Amazon , why would anyone pick up your profile? When there are hundreds on here , "

Yep, what he said.

You need to be more specific about what you're looking for and, perhaps even more importantly, what you bring to the table. What makes you more appealing than every one else on fab.

You need to be forthcoming with information.

Feel free to have a glace at my profile to get some idea of what I'm on about. My profile isn't perfect, but it might help give you an idea of the depth of information people are looking for. Have a look at a few single male profiles and see which ones stand out as having the best balance of info

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Good evening OP,

This line - 'I’m gonna keep this Short and simple' is completely redundant. We can all see that your keeping it short and simple, you've only typed 18 other words.

This line - 'I’m a chill guy who’s just looking to vibe with the right people' makes you sound like Austin Powers.

This line - 'Looking to explore new kinks' would be far better if you explained what new kinks you are looking to explore, who with and what experience you might already have.

As a couple looking to meet guys of your age, we would pass you by. There is simply no effort put in, and that will corelate into nothing coming out. Expand your profile, sell yourself more.

You should also reconsider your choice of pics. Do you honestly believe your current one, of you stood in a pub toilet, is what people want to see? It's good weather at the moment, get out and take some nice selfies. You can always obscure your face with an online blurring tool or an app and let's be honest a picture of you out in a park, local landmark or by a river is going to portray you far better than a pic where 30% of it is a sink!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good evening OP,

This line - 'I’m gonna keep this Short and simple' is completely redundant. We can all see that your keeping it short and simple, you've only typed 18 other words.

This line - 'I’m a chill guy who’s just looking to vibe with the right people' makes you sound like Austin Powers.

This line - 'Looking to explore new kinks' would be far better if you explained what new kinks you are looking to explore, who with and what experience you might already have.

As a couple looking to meet guys of your age, we would pass you by. There is simply no effort put in, and that will corelate into nothing coming out. Expand your profile, sell yourself more.

You should also reconsider your choice of pics. Do you honestly believe your current one, of you stood in a pub toilet, is what people want to see? It's good weather at the moment, get out and take some nice selfies. You can always obscure your face with an online blurring tool or an app and let's be honest a picture of you out in a park, local landmark or by a river is going to portray you far better than a pic where 30% of it is a sink!

Good luck "

Thanks for the feedback

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By *tellaAndMarkCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here "

To me everything about your profile screams a fake profile.

Nothing about it screams real person.

To me your veris look very shady... one is a profile hidden , the other is just like your profile without a picture.

If you want to improve your profile you need to inject you into it. Expand your text, it's not exactly selling you or making you stand out from the crowd, remember there are 1000's of single men on here!

Why should a couple or a woman choose you? What do you have to offer that's better than the next man? Tell them your kinks.

Photos, need more of you, as someone said it's nice weather at the moment, get some better pictures, you can edit photos, crop them or blur them it's easy.

But for me, might just be because we are getting battered by fake profiles at the moment, it's setting my spidey senses batshit that this is a fake asking for advice.

Not saying you are fake just, for me something just doesn't feel right and for that reason we would pass you by if we were looking for a male.

Hope the advice helps

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By *uck-Me-Hard-Scotland-M2MMan
over a year ago

Barnhill (outside Dundee)


"OP you are quite young for Fab, so as it stands your profile is probably not going to get much attention.

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That statement surprised me.

Whilst my personal preferences are 35 and over - and setting aside am wrong gender and sexuality for OP - I am slightly fascinated as to the "why" that someone the age of OP "is probably not going to get much attention".

Am probably used to the reverse on FG where someone my age isn't always wanted by those my age or over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here

To me everything about your profile screams a fake profile.

Nothing about it screams real person.

To me your veris look very shady... one is a profile hidden , the other is just like your profile without a picture.

If you want to improve your profile you need to inject you into it. Expand your text, it's not exactly selling you or making you stand out from the crowd, remember there are 1000's of single men on here!

Why should a couple or a woman choose you? What do you have to offer that's better than the next man? Tell them your kinks.

Photos, need more of you, as someone said it's nice weather at the moment, get some better pictures, you can edit photos, crop them or blur them it's easy.

But for me, might just be because we are getting battered by fake profiles at the moment, it's setting my spidey senses batshit that this is a fake asking for advice.

Not saying you are fake just, for me something just doesn't feel right and for that reason we would pass you by if we were looking for a male.

Hope the advice helps "

I agree but why would a man make a fake profile pretending to be someone else? I came off fab for a while after a bad experience and it’s quite hard to get new verifications with all the fakes and little interest due to my profile hence why I’m asking for friendly advice

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here "

Effort is the key so be creative it's like your expecting others to do the hard work browse other profiles for tips and see what you find that fits you then jumble it up and make it similar but your own that stands out as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh yours is a profile we would ignore, photo is poor,text is worse,as one of many single men you need to sell yourself,and nothing in your profile does that I'm afraid,I'm not going to write it for you,if you cannot do it yourself,then you aren't someone we would ever mei

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet even

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here "

As long as your happy with it then that's all that matters. Your profile conveying you, not other people.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well thanks pal it's different and unique just like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well thanks pal it's different and unique just like me "

Thanks for the inspiration

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Well thanks pal it's different and unique just like me

Thanks for the inspiration"

Welcome pal now go forth and may the force be with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of focus on your arm

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Having looked again this morning it is clear that you have taken a little more time to improve the image you portray. Well done, very few people that ask for advice actually take it, and it helps to show that your serious.

Don't let your profile go stale, refresh the pics from time to time, and be creative.

Also, use the forums and chatrooms as a way to meet people, rather than solely relying on messaging alone.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having looked again this morning it is clear that you have taken a little more time to improve the image you portray. Well done, very few people that ask for advice actually take it, and it helps to show that your serious.

Don't let your profile go stale, refresh the pics from time to time, and be creative.

Also, use the forums and chatrooms as a way to meet people, rather than solely relying on messaging alone.

Good luck "

Thank you very much!

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Having looked again this morning it is clear that you have taken a little more time to improve the image you portray. Well done, very few people that ask for advice actually take it, and it helps to show that your serious.

Don't let your profile go stale, refresh the pics from time to time, and be creative.

Also, use the forums and chatrooms as a way to meet people, rather than solely relying on messaging alone.

Good luck

Thank you very much!"

Things we notice?

You like to show your arm muscles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having looked again this morning it is clear that you have taken a little more time to improve the image you portray. Well done, very few people that ask for advice actually take it, and it helps to show that your serious.

Don't let your profile go stale, refresh the pics from time to time, and be creative.

Also, use the forums and chatrooms as a way to meet people, rather than solely relying on messaging alone.

Good luck

Thank you very much!

Things we notice?

You like to show your arm muscles."

Some ladies like arm muscles apparently so I thought I’d show them off

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Just looking for some friendly advice on my profile i know it’s not perfect, and I know the profile pic isn’t great mainly because of privacy had a whole issue with that before on here "
. I am guessing you have done some work on your profile since starting this thread. I would go with what you have done with your profile so far for say 6 months but if you are interested in attending clubs and socials or have attended clubs in the past then mention the clubs you have attended.It may also be worth adding a line or two on why as a single guy you can’t accommodate as it’s something us single guys sometimes get grief no matter how genuine our reasons maybe. If after 6 months you are not getting much interest then perhaps consider changing your profile into small bullet points like a CV.You are quite welcome to have a look at my profile to get a better idea of what I mean.Best of luck with Fabs

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The important thing is to sell you to the right people, by sharing enough of your personality, abilities and interests rather than using a lot of prominent 1st couple of paragraphs to explain what you don't want. You will lose people, as it's not interesting.

You are in a really tough place for all single men.

Every single word matters and could add a lot or cost you very dearly. Use each word carefully.

If a word or section is not selling youz review and replace it.

Use photos to give as full an impression of how you would be if we're touching you. If we can truly feel as if we have physically met you, we will know if we like the taste of you. And want the real thing.

Any wasted space in pics is a distraction. Our mind wanders if we look at other things, so clear out the space and aim for simplicity. Good, very clear pics of you. Not just rough and ready, so that we can get the impression that you are a man but let us fully see you.

Bi interests are simply a distraction. Keep that as secondary to the priority objective of selling you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could I get some advice on mine please ladies

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Could I get some advice on mine please ladies"

As I advised the op it costs nothing to view other profiles for ideas then be creative so it's about you your abilities and you as a person you only need a suggestion each profile has this if you care to look

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