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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK people, we have been away a little while, and you may have noticed we are back, lol.

Well, we completely stripped our profile when we took a little time out and now we are back in the 'swing' of things we have modified our profile.

So. would anyone mind taking a look and giving us your HONEST opinions on it please?.

Thanks in advance,

Wayne, and Colleen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 1 thing that we can see which MAY cause a potential problem

One of you does full and the other does soft swing - could leave someone feeling a bit left out of the action .. ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only 1 thing that we can see which MAY cause a potential problem

One of you does full and the other does soft swing - could leave someone feeling a bit left out of the action .. ?"

Yeah, that's a tough one, we have tried to express exactly what we mean, we have full swung on more than one occasion in the past, but with people we was already comfortable with, I have not yet full swung through my choice, this may change with the right people/person.

We figured it a good idea to express the full/soft swing honestly as it may well tempt single bi females for example, those that don't want much to do with the male but ok him being there, also it may be confusing that we have met/do meet men but then claim soft swing.

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

Your profile is fine,to the point honest and tasteful.

But the best bit is its obviously genuine lol

Have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only 1 thing that we can see which MAY cause a potential problem

One of you does full and the other does soft swing - could leave someone feeling a bit left out of the action .. ?

Yeah, that's a tough one, we have tried to express exactly what we mean, we have full swung on more than one occasion in the past, but with people we was already comfortable with, I have not yet full swung through my choice, this may change with the right people/person.

We figured it a good idea to express the full/soft swing honestly as it may well tempt single bi females for example, those that don't want much to do with the male but ok him being there, also it may be confusing that we have met/do meet men but then claim soft swing.

W "

This was the only thing that made us wonder.Very unusual,you see it now and again were the woman will only soft swing but usualy the guy's can't wait to get at it,lol.

As you say,it may tempt single bi fems, though on the down side it may put some couples off,even bi fem ones,just a thought.

The profile looks fine though and nice pics too,good luck.

Trace & Ric

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

See, So far we have not been lucky enough to meet a couple as simply that, a couple, yes we have verifications from couples but they were through parties etc, one couple we have met and played several times and another twice, but at parties, with so much going on at the parties we have been to and the ladies being so much into one another I refrained from going so far, who knows how it may be if we meet just a couple as a couple, so full swing on my behalf is not ruled out, just trying to express our 'progress', we have full swung in the past before joining any swing sites.

W

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Your profile seems fine to us but we do agree with the other posters that ths full swap/soft swing part could put off some couples and cause a bit of confusion.

Perhaps you could explain in your profile the type(s) of fun that you are looking for...what you like and what you dont without being to prescriptive and lengthy about it and that would hopefully make the full swap/soft swing part of your profile more understandable?

Your pics are sexy and tasteful but it helps if there is one of you both together and maybe one of Wayne in a suitably undressed pose/action shot so other fems can see how you look(not a cock shot either!!!)

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile is fine and dandy, great pics and a to the point profile however as the other posters point out the full/soft conundrum may need solving.

Have you considered changing it to state you both soft swap but, as it currently seems to imply, it's not set in concrete. If you both agree to stick to soft swap for the first meet then you are not telling porkies and how it moves on from there is up to you and who you play with.

Whilst I am more than content with soft swap per se Mrs Two2 definitely likes a good seeing to, but that will not work for lots of others which may well be whats currently holding things up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you sooo much everyone, we have modified our profile a little , well tweaked, we have tried to say pretty much the same thing in a less confusing manner, would you care to take a peep and see if it is an improvement.

Thank you ;-*

W

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I like it Wayne..It states clearly what you're looking for with the option to discuss more if its required

Hope you get lots of interest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi

think your profile is fine. You clearly state what looking for. People are not being mislead......each to his own....i only soft swop and we do just fine and been around in the scene for over 10 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice one,that explains things and makes matters much clearer.No more grey areas,hope it works for you.

Trace & Ric

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, very much appreciated!!

Wayne, and Colleen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fine. at least your profile is honest. ours is long winded because we feel we should be as honest as possible. at least with an honest profile you should be able to avoid some of the wasters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"its fine. at least your profile is honest. ours is long winded because we feel we should be as honest as possible. at least with an honest profile you should be able to avoid some of the wasters "

Our profile was quite a bit longer at one time, but we found nobody read it and asked us questions that was stated on the profile anyway, I figured this way they can ask away, lol.

W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends of ours used to put a code word in the last couple of lines of their profile.They told ppl to head any message they sent with the word,it worked and ensured the profile had been read completely.They just deleted any message that wasn't prefixed with the code word.Nice move eh?

Trace & Ric

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