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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Right the profile needs updating Any advice for it?

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Doesn't matter what sort of revamp you do,your chances of a meet are very slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much writing on profile, people really don’t read it , plus too many ass photos for a straight male I think , your aiming at the wrong market , just my opinion

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By *he_NayNaysCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

You’re on the right lines; we disagree with the comment about the length of the profile. GENUINE couples and single ladies in our experience want to read about you, though it could be a bit more concise

I like the more tasteful pics, dick pics are a definite no-no And must disagree again I love to see a shapely guys arse. But I also think your pics are the weakness, they are not stylish enough, clear enough or well framed enough. Ensure correct background, lighting, etc. And us a mini tripod and Bluetooth remote to get more professional results. Put a bit of extra effort in and reap the rewards. I’m going to hotlist and wait for the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, ladies welcome a well-written profile - you can see from what we write in our own profiles what we expect to see in others, however yours is very long and rambling. Make it more concise.

The big thing that bothers me is how old your photos are. A body can change a lot in five years - I was a size 12 five years ago! Get rid of the old photos and put up some new ones, using the advice of the poster above regarding composition. Avoid pics with other people in them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What is in your hand in the 2014 pic ?

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"What is in your hand in the 2014 pic ? "

That was my shirt, I was dressed up as a Baywatch character

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What is in your hand in the 2014 pic ?

That was my shirt, I was dressed up as a Baywatch character

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Thank you every one for your advice.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

right so I have updated the profile pictures to come.

and made the profile more concise with more bullet points.

what do you guys now think?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

It took you a year...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think your points 1 - 7 are all sound a bit aggressive

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I think your points 1 - 7 are all sound a bit aggressive"

Ok so I need to soften my tone. X

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find phrase "lick them out" offputting

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"It took you a year...

"

I officially meant summer 21 but if you going to do something at least for it lol.

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"It took you a year...

"

I officially meant summer 21 but if you going to do something at least do it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah points 1 - 7 may need changing/reducing/removing

It's long winded

A horny woman reading that will soon loose her mojo

My profile isn't great but I read it and change things each time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah reading your dos and don'ts I would say you can shorten then right down

You say your dyslexic but reading that you don't seem dyslexic (I know I shouldn't assume or point it out)

It looks like you have taken bits off of other profiles or googled it

On A lighter side...

At least you don't have the

"To Sidney University my pictures are mine, you can not use them' rubbish

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By *oxes OP   Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Yeah reading your dos and don'ts I would say you can shorten then right down

You say your dyslexic but reading that you don't seem dyslexic (I know I shouldn't assume or point it out)

It looks like you have taken bits off of other profiles or googled it

On A lighter side...

At least you don't have the

"To Sidney University my pictures are mine, you can not use them' rubbish"

The sydnie university thing is old now I'm pretty sure the research did not get published.

Thankyou for the advice

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