FabSwingers.com forum: Is it wrong?

By *bend69 OP Couple
over a year ago

twinkletown

I have been contacted by alot of ppl asking for face pics, which is fine by us! But annoys the hell out of us when we ask to see theres, and they refuse, block you or say they aint got any? Are we wrong asking them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no your dead right we have had the same, you sound like your like us not into blind dates

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By *bend69 OP Couple
over a year ago

twinkletown

No def not ... We need to see who we are chatting too

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

had that a few times now,,and really annoying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at it quite simply

If I message them, it is up to me to show my hand first.

If they message me, then it is up to them.

That said, if someone entrusts me with their pics, I will always message back with a (clearer) face pic irregardless of whether I am attracted to them or not.

For this whole swinging thing to work (for me) trust has to work both ways.

I am one of them brave single males who plays by his own set rules and not those who feel they have the 'upper hand' because they have a fanny to offer me.

Yes, it probably does lose me meets, but hey ho, there's a big bad world out there too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been contacted by alot of ppl asking for face pics, which is fine by us! But annoys the hell out of us when we ask to see theres, and they refuse, block you or say they aint got any? Are we wrong asking them?

I'll tell you if you send us a face pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bugs me too.

If they want a facepic and have contacted me I would expect them to send thiers first.

I would then be more than happy to send mine.

Usually the request comes from a profile with no pics at all.

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas

"I have been contacted by alot of ppl asking for face pics, which is fine by us! But annoys the hell out of us when we ask to see theres, and they refuse, block you or say they aint got any?

Annoys the hell out of us too.

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By *bend69 OP Couple
over a year ago

twinkletown

in our eyes it really shouldn't matter who contacted who 1st................... if there's contact between both parties and all is well where is the harm on showing face pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"in our eyes it really shouldn't matter who contacted who 1st................... if there's contact between both parties and all is well where is the harm on showing face pics?

but in doing so, you must understand (if not accept) the fact that some people will only do the reveal if they are attracted to you

they are not interested in your reasoning, just fulfilling their own (often selfish) desires

if you don't fit the bill, it's goodnight vienna

it might not be fair, but sadly, yes, the cookie does crumble that way some times

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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago

Midlothian

wont send facepic with a 1st reply,not needed to answer a quick" hello we want to meet" even if they/he send a pic....well we don't if profile tells us nothing + just a pic of the fem if cpl or no bodypic if sngl male.Establish quickly wot we all want + if still intr.we send our facepic otherwise:rather have nice cock than nice face as I spend more time kissing cock than mouth

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