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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been on fab 5 months now

Had two meets, one as a solo one as a couple

But profile views aren’t what they were and messages going unread/I replied too

Any advice on profile improvements are very well received and greatly appreciated

L

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

More photos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any change to our profile made No differene at all .still no meets .makes me wonder if anyone is real on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any change to our profile made No difference at all .still no meets .makes me wonder if anyone is real on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Mimi - of any type in particular?

Shelly - they are really just got to keep on trying

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Torso, bare bum, in shower. Just a few of my favourites.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Any change to our profile made No difference at all .still no meets .makes me wonder if anyone is real on here"

You're only looking to meet single bi women which is the hardest of all.meets to get.

Speaking from experiance as a bi woman, fabs not the best place to find ladies. Clubs and socials make all the difference as a lot of ladies (myself on my solo accou nt included) tend to have reasons to be wary on fab at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mimi - I’ll keep them in mind

Wetwife - bi women is an excellent option but straight women are more then allowed haha

Also happy if women are married and playing solo (similar to myself)

Maybe I need to reword my profile to stress this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if this is harsh but that mask you are wearing does look bit lame? The suit you have on is nice though buddy.

Don’t forget loads of ladies do look in stealth mode, I used to have few messages from ladies on my last profile (my bicurious phase) and was no sign they had looked at me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Poor photos to really be able to grasp how you look and could be attractive or not, if together for sex. If ib doubt, most people stop.

You'd benefit more from greater detail and selling yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How very dare you! That mask is my pride and joy

Was from a masquerade ball, been told women are interested in those things

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Been on fab 5 months now

Had two meets, one as a solo one as a couple

But profile views aren’t what they were and messages going unread/I replied too

Any advice on profile improvements are very well received and greatly appreciated

L

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So basically you have been on a swingers site when the country has been in the midst of a pandemic and you cant understand why it could be quite

Perhaps a lot if people took a break from here to focus on the bigger picture of health, family, kids,lack of jobs, overworked essential front line jobs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate lol, if you heard from the ladies they like it then by all means ignore me

I tell you what pics I had up previously on old profile that a lot of ladies ‘fabbed’. It was me in tuxedo, suits, or shirts part undone and tease pics such as hand in boxers

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Been on fab 5 months now

Had two meets, one as a solo one as a couple

But profile views aren’t what they were and messages going unread/I replied too

Any advice on profile improvements are very well received and greatly appreciated

L

So basically you have been on a swingers site when the country has been in the midst of a pandemic and you cant understand why it could be quite

Perhaps a lot if people took a break from here to focus on the bigger picture of health, family, kids,lack of jobs, overworked essential front line jobs...

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Also adding to this you have been on 5 months had 2 meets and according to verification summary last one was 4 months ago.

Therefore you had 2 meets during lockdown. That in itself might put a few people off.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Your age range wide

Your requirements very limited FFcouple

You list as ample but i cant tell from the photos as they are too dark and just not enough of them

The mask... Yeah that just looks like your trying to be something you think we want

So, add some nice black and white photos, tease, shadows, erotic not blatant

Add some information because it doesn't really tell me much..

Single guys are up against so many others you have to make the girls stop at your shop window

Patience is always a vertue on here

(didnt check out your couples profile)

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Been on fab 5 months now

Had two meets, one as a solo one as a couple

But profile views aren’t what they were and messages going unread/I replied too

Any advice on profile improvements are very well received and greatly appreciated

L

So basically you have been on a swingers site when the country has been in the midst of a pandemic and you cant understand why it could be quite

Perhaps a lot if people took a break from here to focus on the bigger picture of health, family, kids,lack of jobs, overworked essential front line jobs...

Also adding to this you have been on 5 months had 2 meets and according to verification summary last one was 4 months ago.

Therefore you had 2 meets during lockdown. That in itself might put a few people off. "

True lots on the forums have said they have used rule breaking as a way to out people who they wouldn't feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone, appreciate the kind feedback.

Will look to add improvements as advised

And as a wise man once said

“Don’t compare yourself to others, compare yourself to who you were yesterday”

Good night all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's totally normal to see the number of views you get fall after a few weeks of joining the site. It happens to us all.

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