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No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
"I'm sure someone said when you do a local search its stops counting after 300 due to the sites search settings. So when you (almost always) get 300+ single guys back there's a good chance that numbers way way higher and in many area searches of the UK the true figure is going to be 1000+ single males. KJ K | |||
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
"Whenever we look at who is near. It is always single guys. Then they wonder... | |||
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"The poor ladies could put filters on, look at the meets section and contact the men who caught their eye. "Exactly this and I’ve only had 1 today V x | |||
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
"Still it would be a hell of a gangbang. You should invite everyone around  | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before" So who else would you like to limit on this site? | |||
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
"This makes me feel (slightly) better about not finding a meet for my overnight hotel stay in Liverpool on Friday, when a regular friend of mine visited a guy staying locally to her just this morning……. | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before So who else would you like to limit on this site? " Single guys would be enough. | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before So who else would you like to limit on this site? " I don't think they should limit men.. As an alternative I think they should conscript more women and make them compulsorily join... Solved... | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before So who else would you like to limit on this site? " My thoughts exactly.Discrimination is still discrimination no matter if its just single men you want to discriminate against. | |||
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
"defo lots more men messaging me than ladies, unfortunately.  | |||
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"No, this is not the worlds craziest gangbang. That's the ratios on Fabs "meet today" listings in the whole country.
No wonder you poor ladies cant keep up with the amount of messages you get.
Still it would be a hell of a gangbang. You should invite everyone around "Someone's going to end up a bit battered and bruised I think | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice" Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too?   | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before So who else would you like to limit on this site? I don't think they should limit men.. As an alternative I think they should conscript more women and make them compulsorily join... Solved..." I’m on the lookout for a Tardis, so whenever I get to a club, which has no single women in, and the host says “You should have been here last week, the place was packed with single women”, I’ll just jump in the Tardis, wind the clock back, and test that statement…… | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too? "ive been on the scene with hubs best part of 25++ years they have alway been there but its getting bigger than ever .. the biggest difference was back then there was not enough guys so guys that were well known could get a meet most nights thats not the case now same with this bullshit ''unicorn'' tag.. bi women were '' playing'' as were bi couples and couples they were all playing all swinging fast forward to today and id say about 25% of the site are here to swing the rest well thats a big list of anything but as its a open site they all have there rights to be here and do as they wish.. just wish fab would build in more sections so people can fit into what they are looking for so other can find what they want too.. | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too?
ive been on the scene with hubs best part of 25++ years they have alway been there but its getting bigger than ever ..
the biggest difference was back then there was not enough guys so guys that were well known could get a meet most nights thats not the case now same with this bullshit ''unicorn'' tag.. bi women were '' playing'' as were bi couples and couples they were all playing all swinging fast forward to today and id say about 25% of the site are here to swing the rest well thats a big list of anything but as its a open site they all have there rights to be here and do as they wish..
just wish fab would build in more sections so people can fit into what they are looking for so other can find what they want too.."You're not wrong. We have been doing this for 23 years and getting a meet through fab lately is like finding a needle in haystack. Never had a problem before 2019 (so it's not just covid / lockdown). At least socials and clubs let you find people who are actual swingers so at least fans good for organising them. | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too?
ive been on the scene with hubs best part of 25++ years they have alway been there but its getting bigger than ever ..
the biggest difference was back then there was not enough guys so guys that were well known could get a meet most nights thats not the case now same with this bullshit ''unicorn'' tag.. bi women were '' playing'' as were bi couples and couples they were all playing all swinging fast forward to today and id say about 25% of the site are here to swing the rest well thats a big list of anything but as its a open site they all have there rights to be here and do as they wish..
just wish fab would build in more sections so people can fit into what they are looking for so other can find what they want too..
You're not wrong.
We have been doing this for 23 years and getting a meet through fab lately is like finding a needle in haystack. Never had a problem before 2019 (so it's not just covid / lockdown).
At least socials and clubs let you find people who are actual swingers so at least fans good for organising them.
"deffo the way for single guys to meet real people who want to play and get some understanding of how this works in fact id say for anyone now days ... shame really that clubs is now the only way ... for the first 10 year of our swinging lifestyle we hardly touched a club if fact the first few years the only club nearest to us was in the west midlands ... swinging was much much easier then for a newbie ... i also think guys need to stop thinking that couples and women run the scene because they dont we all run the scene | |||
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"this is why i think single guys should be limited, after all they are in clubs, there are so many who think its insta shag, im not against single men, we do meet them, but its abit overwelming, so maybe 10% more than couples for instance, and lockdown hasnt helped, we get way more men who cant read message us than we ever did before" How would you choose who to limit? What if the guys you want to limit are the guys I want to meet? We could do with restrictions on men, but limiting numbers leaves the chance that we will be left with all the wankpuffins. Better idea is to create a filter that checks whether the guy has bothered writing a profile and whether he has ever been reported by other people. We can choose whether to use the filter or not. | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too?
ive been on the scene with hubs best part of 25++ years they have alway been there but its getting bigger than ever ..
the biggest difference was back then there was not enough guys so guys that were well known could get a meet most nights thats not the case now same with this bullshit ''unicorn'' tag.. bi women were '' playing'' as were bi couples and couples they were all playing all swinging fast forward to today and id say about 25% of the site are here to swing the rest well thats a big list of anything but as its a open site they all have there rights to be here and do as they wish..
just wish fab would build in more sections so people can fit into what they are looking for so other can find what they want too..
You're not wrong.
We have been doing this for 23 years and getting a meet through fab lately is like finding a needle in haystack. Never had a problem before 2019 (so it's not just covid / lockdown).
At least socials and clubs let you find people who are actual swingers so at least fans good for organising them.
deffo the way for single guys to meet real people who want to play and get some understanding of how this works in fact id say for anyone now days ... shame really that clubs is now the only way ... for the first 10 year of our swinging lifestyle we hardly touched a club if fact the first few years the only club nearest to us was in the west midlands ... swinging was much much easier then for a newbie ...
i also think guys need to stop thinking that couples and women run the scene because they dont we all run the scene "I think.the real issue is that a lot of the left handed wankers think swinger means guaranteed shag. They treat it as if it's all a guaranteed thing on tap and if you say no they lose their shit. Obviously not all guys are like this but its plain to see when you get a message at 2am from a "couple" asking if you want to come round and fuck his missus there and then. Say no and the response has been "then what the fuck are you on a swinger site for".... It's just one block after another lately. We should all be sceptical about someone we first talk to on fab. Thata common sense. But our response to a message to first time messages right now is "we are getting catfished", especially if it's a woman. Thata not right. We shouldnt automatically assume everyone is fake but that is where we are at. But all.of this is completely side stepping our initial observation of the sheer imbalance of account types on fab. | |||
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"Ratio is insane I guess thats not just on here even on vanilla dating sites single women are just as being bombarded with messages too. " Vanilla dating sites are much closer to 50/50 these days. It used to be around 70% men in fact women could join for free as they needed to encourage them to sign up, but those days are long gone now. | |||
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"It would never happen but I would definitely like a freeze on single males accounts. Then remove dormant accounts (3years since last log in for example) Then after the big purge, slowly open up single male registrations keeping a strict ratio. Would be so easy to implement. If admin are looking for a coder to all this, I’m for hire haha" why stop there ? 50% of women on here are not here to swing and there couples that dont as well it cant just be pointed at guys ... | |||
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"no no no we need more men so we can up the quality if i get 100 messages theres rarely one person in that lot i need more choice .. also theres more ways to control guys than just a blanket block just block the ones your not interested in ? easy job done as over time you get less n less bothered by them but the problem with that is you dont get the attention some of the women couples want theres quite a few on this site who just like to prick tease or ohhhh look at me please fab me they are just as bad as the wanking zombies i think its not just all bad guys there are plenty of bad women and couples too ... .... more guys please more and better choice Haha! You’ve noticed the cock teasers/attention seekers/never gonna meeters too?
ive been on the scene with hubs best part of 25++ years they have alway been there but its getting bigger than ever ..
the biggest difference was back then there was not enough guys so guys that were well known could get a meet most nights thats not the case now same with this bullshit ''unicorn'' tag.. bi women were '' playing'' as were bi couples and couples they were all playing all swinging fast forward to today and id say about 25% of the site are here to swing the rest well thats a big list of anything but as its a open site they all have there rights to be here and do as they wish..
just wish fab would build in more sections so people can fit into what they are looking for so other can find what they want too..
You're not wrong.
We have been doing this for 23 years and getting a meet through fab lately is like finding a needle in haystack. Never had a problem before 2019 (so it's not just covid / lockdown).
At least socials and clubs let you find people who are actual swingers so at least fans good for organising them.
deffo the way for single guys to meet real people who want to play and get some understanding of how this works in fact id say for anyone now days ... shame really that clubs is now the only way ... for the first 10 year of our swinging lifestyle we hardly touched a club if fact the first few years the only club nearest to us was in the west midlands ... swinging was much much easier then for a newbie ...
i also think guys need to stop thinking that couples and women run the scene because they dont we all run the scene "See for me, visiting clubs as a single guy has been the hardest and worst part of the Fab/swinging scene, and being ignored in person is way more soul destroying than not having messages read/answered in here! I’ve found using Fab to meet genuine people for actual fun far easier, and would genuinely struggle to make myself visit another club as a solo guy | |||
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"Op you were single once remember? Of course you don’t, now you are in the club you want to shut the door.. remind me USA and Australia, invaded the country when it was free to come in , took over and lock the borders to stop others to come in… " Ah..so now we are playing the "things OP never said" game. This will be fun. | |||
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"It would never happen but I would definitely like a freeze on single males accounts. Then remove dormant accounts (3years since last log in for example) Then after the big purge, slowly open up single male registrations keeping a strict ratio. Would be so easy to implement. If admin are looking for a coder to all this, I’m for hire haha why stop there ? 50% of women on here are not here to swing and there couples that dont as well it cant just be pointed at guys ... " Swinging can come in different forms so who’s to say who’s a swinger and who’s not? No I disagree with this, people will have their own reasons for being on here, if they’re active (and not advertising SC premium and OF) then they should be fine on here. | |||
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"It would never happen but I would definitely like a freeze on single males accounts. Then remove dormant accounts (3years since last log in for example) Then after the big purge, slowly open up single male registrations keeping a strict ratio. Would be so easy to implement. If admin are looking for a coder to all this, I’m for hire haha why stop there ? 50% of women on here are not here to swing and there couples that dont as well it cant just be pointed at guys ... Swinging can come in different forms so who’s to say who’s a swinger and who’s not? No I disagree with this, people will have their own reasons for being on here, if they’re active (and not advertising SC premium and OF) then they should be fine on here. " guess we agree to disagree swinging is a wide spectrum but there are still many on here that dont belong in that spectrum the oh look at me im a prick teaser section and the likes or mirror hugging men who think they are it just here for the chase then as soon as a yes lets meet disappear cause theyve satisfied their ego nah sorry there are plenty on here that dont come even close to being swingers but as i said thats ok because its an open site but to say lets limit guys especially coming from another guy is not a good look at all its just cock blocking plain and simple .. | |||
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