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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

You've only been on here 5 weeks so as a single guy don't expect anything just yet

That said you need more description about your self ,what your looking for and more pictures

Also don't rely on fab just to get your meets, you need to get out there when were fully allowed and meet in clubs and pubs and try to pull for want of better phrase the traditional way

If your brave go to a swingers club and get yourself out there

As a single guy on fab you have to be persistent and work hard but if you try every now and then you will come good.

I hope this helps

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?"

Loads of great advice on the Forum.

You are right though, it isn't good.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?"

You do know not everything revolves around the profile bio but the technique to communicate connect with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be a creep when messaging the ladies. Only send dick pics if prompted and just be down to earth and honest.

And if you don't get a reply move on. Ladies hate getting trolled

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair advice thanks

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?

You do know not everything revolves around the profile bio but the technique to communicate connect with people"

But often a well crafted profile illustrates someone's ability to communicate/connect with people and showcase their basic qualities.

Personally I don't have time to talk to everyone who contacts me on the off chance they might be what I'm looking for, their profile is a blunt but useful filtering tool.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Your bio needs work: it’s too short and the spelling and grammar are poor. Your bio should tell people, at a glance, what you’re interested in and what you’ve got to offer. Given your young age I think this is especially important because lots will instantly be turned off because of it.

In general, effort is well received. Take a few good pictures and spend some time on your profile.

That said, even if you make huge improvements you may still never get anywhere, so your expectations need to be realistic. Fab success relies on excellent communication. Many men have been on here for years and have never had a meet. Women have their pick of thousands of men here and you’ll be overlooked if you dot stand out.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Also it’s very unlikely that anyone will ‘message for more info’. It doesn’t work like that here; you have to show your info upfront.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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You can always tell how serious members are when they listen to the advice that they have asked for.

Any of the advice make sense to you OP?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Some are really responsive and have greater success. Others i think just post for the profile views. Seems pointless.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. Sadly, it is bland and doesn't stand out. It shows that you have taken very little time to use your profile to make a positive impression. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say?

Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression.

Put on some nice photos. Face pics are best, dick pics are not the way to promote yourself, especially not as a profile pic if your trying to show your maturity. Everyone knows what a dick looks like, and believe it or not very few people actually want to look at row upon row of cocks when they look at a profile page. Smiling face pics are invaluable. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice.

However your profile is not everything. Getting involved with the forums and the chatroom are both great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. Rather than relying on a message, show your maturity and join in conversations, you never know someone might take an interest.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?"

Okay no photos

Wouldn't be bothered to message for more information because if I'm window shopping you've given me no reason to pause...

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?"

Also 5 weeks... It's still in a stage when people aren't meeting we are just coming out of lockdown you know pandemic....

Come on.. Give it time

As a single guy though

Expect nothing be grateful for anything

And when social events start up try attending those perhaps and maybe look at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Feel like my profiles not that good any tips to make it better?

You do know not everything revolves around the profile bio but the technique to communicate connect with people"

Yes, but most people, on receiving a message, will 5ake a look at the profile it's been sent from BEFORE opening the message. If, like the OP's, it looks like zero effort has been applied to it, they will likely delete the message right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yes, but most people, on receiving a message, will 5ake a look at the profile it's been sent from BEFORE opening the message. If, like the OP's, it looks like zero effort has been applied to it, they will likely delete the message right off"

Spot on. We never open a message before we’ve clicked on the profile.

Our decision is usually already made based on what we read.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Ever thought about getting tips like using your imagination and creativity and browsing the site for ideas than taking the easy option without sounding rude but it's lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever thought about getting tips like using your imagination and creativity and browsing the site for ideas than taking the easy option without sounding rude but it's lazy "

Except you are being rude.

A second or third set of eyes to proofread something never hurt anyone. Everyone has different thought processes and may think of something you haven't.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ever thought about getting tips like using your imagination and creativity and browsing the site for ideas than taking the easy option without sounding rude but it's lazy

Except you are being rude.

A second or third set of eyes to proofread something never hurt anyone. Everyone has different thought processes and may think of something you haven't. "

I said without sounding rude and a profile which is created by the individual makes it about them without it being about anyone else it's like ask for tips not knowing how to chat up a female or lady where to begin should she rip off her clothes and what should I do I could understand if it came from a juvenile but even they are upping there game

Whilst your on the subject don't suppose you brought along any suggestions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I said without sounding rude and a profile which is created by the individual makes it about them without it being about anyone else it's like ask for tips not knowing how to chat up a female or lady where to begin should she rip off her clothes and what should I do I could understand if it came from a juvenile but even they are upping there game. "

I know what you said, my point was that even if you put 'without sounding rude' before or after something rude, it doesn't make it any less rude lol.

Like when people say 'no offence but' or 'don't take this the wrong way' followed by something insulting.


"Whilst your on the subject don't suppose you brought along any suggestions "

I'm a very simple man. I'm just here for sex and nothing else. I'm not too bothered about details. I'm just in it for the sex. Happy with one offs but if we get chatting and it becomes regular, I'd rather learn about someone by speaking with them.

Since I started using these sites in 2008, I have learned that most men don't read profiles and so I don't give them much weight myself. That said I will read them. I've learned to skim through for various red flags.

It's all down to personal taste like everything else. To me there's nothing wrong with his profile.

If he was in my area and looking for men, his profile would be fine for me. Nice body, within my age range, works out, is open minded to trying new things and claims to have stamina. He's both photo and user verified so even better.

He'd be exactly the type of guy I'd message for a meet.

Now I know women and couples are a lot more discerning than that but for me, just looking for sex, his profile is spot on really. I don't need to know his hobbies etc.

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