FabSwingers.com forum: Having your size on your profile...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it's irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smacks of immaturity and insecurity.

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By *ediMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think it's irrelevant"

Really, do you not think it's an important criteria for many straight off the bat, or some something to share after?

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Personally I don't need that information.

I like all sizes

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By *issnkWoman
over a year ago

Barnsley

It’s a turn off for me when I come across a profile listing their penis size big dick doesn’t equal good in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A picture paints a thousand words

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

not really that bothered

I find boastful measurements off-putting

much more interested in other qualities.

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

Size does not matter, it is what you can do with it that counts

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

If they list cock size I'd not be interested

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

Sure. It's the only thing that's needed. I strongly recommend lots of photos of it too... Next to a sky remote. Keep your socks on too.. They can't get enough of that.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Depends what kind of woman you want to attract and what kind of connection you’re looking for.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions?

It's an exhibition event at the Olympics this year

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By *irtuousBullMan
over a year ago

lake district

"A picture paints a thousand words"

Fair play

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No it wouldn’t impress me

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

"I think it's irrelevant"

Unless you say you have a 3 inch cock. That might put a few off lol.

As I often say, I only have a 5 inch cock but most women don’t like it that wide ??

(Only joking for those that don’t get it)

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

It's irrelevant in any case, as people measure it using different criteria. Some people measure the top, some measure from the side, others measure from underneath, and some use a sky remote.

People with a 6 inch chopper, who state they have an 8 incher are doing themselves no favours at all because if they do eventually manage to bag a meet, they are going to leave the other party a little disappointed.

Sad thing is, not every woman wants an 8 inch walloper and are looking for guys around the 6 inch mark, so the 6 inch guys who add on a couple of inches are actually putting off women who would be delighted with a guy their size

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well given the height of an individual can be just as important as a preference which people go for it could be just as important how well someone measures up to someone's taste or disappointment

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By *uv2kissMan
over a year ago

fenland

I have been asked a few times what size I am.

They never believe me when I say that I have never measured it.

Nor have I held it against a Sky remote.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

Do whatever you feel happy with

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I'd rather just see a photo tbh, on some people 6 inches is massive and feels huge. I other preferences relating to penis's that I look out for more regularly than length.

Out of the profiles I've seen a lot of the numbers are 8"+ which scares me off immediately, even though my playmate is over 8 and I love his cock. There's just way more factors that matter to me other than length

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Bad form I’d say, let the pics do the talking

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions?

It's an exhibition event at the Olympics this year"

I wonder where they’d hang the medals?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

It proves one thing some men haven’t a clue how to use a tape and I’d never use another mans sky remote

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By *icklixitMan
over a year ago

sunderland

Who on earth measures their cock? I mean do we ask a lady the size of her flue? Is it just me who thinks it's weird lol

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

It's your profile, put on it whatever you deem to be important or interesting . . . .

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Not something that would interest me, plus we all know if it don’t touch ya belly button when lying flat is the true gage of size.. hardly ever see that angle

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"A picture paints a thousand words"

...especially when the pubes are longer than the penis. Yuck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d much rather see a pic of a guys face as I luv lips and eyes

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By *arryandAnnCouple
over a year ago

Hereford

It's important if your a big cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size isn't that important. The shape, curvature, experience, stamina and chemistry is just as important.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

I'd rather see the, actual person. Not interested in their brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

They use this idea on fab guys.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

If it's said matter of factly then yeah, if it's "do you think you could take this tree trunk up your bottom" then not so much.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Me personally, I find it off putting. X

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not looking to meet men, if I was cock size would not be of interest.

In fact any man as focused on their own genitals as many on here seem to be, wouldn't be for me.

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By *ouge and blueCouple
over a year ago

Cork

It's a sign that he has zero idea of what a woman really wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone likes you nothing matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind as long as there are pics as evidence. Nothing worse than men boasting about their size and it turns out to be tiny.

Or profile headline as VWE but profile pic is an in-your-face chipolata.

But I am a bit of a size queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A picture paints a thousand words

Fair play

Now that is a cock!

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

"A picture paints a thousand words

Fair play

Now that is a cock!

Jesus......

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By *ingAlive999Man
over a year ago

London

Yes, it's only you....

What made ME to measure it was.... Just a personal curiosity tbh. How long and wide is it then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could have been the tape measure for that reading

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

Size isn't relevant for us

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I think it's irrelevant"

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

^^^ 3 inches ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men lie or exaggerate their size anyway, it maybe pointless. Pictures, or better still videos, speak a thousand words alternatively

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It doesn't intrest us, especially when they use that as their first selling point when they message.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Smacks of immaturity and insecurity. "

Im.neither agreeing nor disagreeing but to be fair to the OP, it's not like there isnt a reasonable amount of profiles demanding guys be over a certain size.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I like a big willy. If it was written on the profile I wouldn’t be offended. I wouldn’t meet someone without seeing/knowing how big their willy is. Fab meets are purely physical for me, and that I know what I do/don’t like

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By *urious8812Couple
over a year ago

dorchester

Any man who brags about his cock in his profile is an instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gill loves vwe guys. But she said its not the size. It's now you use it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think it matters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Smacks of immaturity and insecurity.

Im.neither agreeing nor disagreeing but to be fair to the OP, it's not like there isnt a reasonable amount of profiles demanding guys be over a certain size.

Bingo! That's exactly what prompted me to ask the question via the forum. The responses are certainly a mixed bag. But when you come across roughly 1/4th of profiles requesting big or having penis size requirements (i.e. 8 inches and over) I wanted to know what most people thought about it.

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no?

Sure. It's the only thing that's needed. I strongly recommend lots of photos of it too... Next to a sky remote. Keep your socks on too.. They can't get enough of that. "

Socks! Don’t get me started on socks! Why do so many men leave their socks on when having sex (none that play with us!)

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By *rdiscreet327Man
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I don’t think it’s relevant. It’s not the size of the boat it’s the motion in the ocean that counts!

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

Would it be rude too ask the ladies to state how much of a sky remote they can take? Pic to prove it?

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

There is such a thing as too small.

There is also such a thing as too big.

There is an optimum size range but that will differ between different women.

You just need to find the right fit for you

The sky remote, toilet roll tube, bottle of wine, can of pop are all a bit naff really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men measure their dicks wrong too, they do it from the side or underneath I find mostly when asking them. The correct way is on top, from pubic bone to tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty as charged, but to be fair, there are some, albeit perhaps a select few, that want to know, which is why I have it on there

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"It's a sign that he has zero idea of what a woman really wants.

Messages we get from guys who's main selling point is their cock size certainly backs this up

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

My underpants say medium, so I guess I'm medium but I haven't put that on my profile yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just take a comparison picture with a can of Lynx Africa of a Sky remote

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

If I am unsure about the man then penis size listed on a profile can be the deciding factor not to engage because it is too much information from a stranger. If a profile is very good and well written then mentioning it in passing won't necessarily put me off.

However height and face photo are so much more important, at least to me.

My view is better not to have in on a profile - if someone wants to know they will ask but everyone makes their own decisions of what they think is important to include.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I’ve better things to do with it than measure it….

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By *dd_soxMan
over a year ago

Suffolk

"A lot of men measure their dicks wrong too, they do it from the side or underneath I find mostly when asking them. The correct way is on top, from pubic bone to tip

So from my arse, over my shoulder to the tip is wrong? Now you tell me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just take a comparison picture with a can of Lynx Africa of a Sky remote "

Top tip, use travel size Lynx then it'll appear ginormous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just take a comparison picture with a can of Lynx Africa of a Sky remote

Top tip, use travel size Lynx then it'll appear ginormous."

That's exactly what do

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

If all you have to offer is a penis then sure go for it.

I don’t list all the kit we have, that comes as part of any conversation we have about what we will get up to.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I think it's irrelevant

Really, do you not think it's an important criteria for many straight off the bat, or some something to share after?"

Do you tell a woman your cock size if you meet her in a pub,

hi I'm x my cock is x inches long would you like a drink ?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions?

Some of them do yes. I saw one picture yesterday of a tape measure next to his c… countless pictures and videos. He was very proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a picture is enough. I can tell the exact size of a penis by a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having a picture is enough. I can tell the exact size of a penis by a picture. "

Pictures are very misleading, it is easy for a penis to look magnified and thus bigger. Should not judge against hands or as far to belly button it reaches etc, as that can skew too. I learnt ways over years to at least see some signs magnification is at play. Videos are more reliable I find as long as not super close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be a lot of profiles stating seeking VWE or a minimum size so there obviously are women who care about size. I do have a pic on our profile because my partner wanted to measure it so she took a pic of it. She does like to know if a guy is at least a reasonable size but it's only one factor to be considered for a potential meet, this site is about sexual experiences after all

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I put my dress size on my profile so it's no different, some people do, some people don't... whatever you're comfortable with

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

"Having a picture is enough. I can tell the exact size of a penis by a picture. "

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

Mm so true..and I'm a bloke...ya just know these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

Chances are anybody who mentions size is also exaggerating.

Fibbing straight out of the blocks isn't a good look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gay men are notorious for exaggerating their size, they call them ‘gay inches’ which are one or two inches longer than a normal inches. This is why I have become a professor in penis size, had to be alert. It does not seem as bad amongst the straight gents though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines like an aubergine

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never had a conversation with anyone on here about the size of mine so it is completely irrelevant to most.

There are profiles with more specific preferences but I don't chat to any of them so once again it's irrelevant as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be up there as an option but not a requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does having your penis size listed on your profile a yes or a big no-no? "

Kinda pointless as no-one wants to get their hands on it either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Size does not matter, it is what you can do with it that counts"

This

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

No point waving your HGV licence in someone's face if you've just reversed your fiesta into the kerb in the staff carpark.

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By *olgateSmile81Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh & London

I guess some people want you to specify the size of penis in their profiles. Let's be honest though, you could be hung like Mandingo but if there isn't some level of attraction at facial / body / mental level then it isn't going to happen.

Personally, if I were sufficiently blessed to make it worth messaging to a 'want VWE' profile, I'd not even mention it until asked. Either way it is going to be a 'gate' as to whether you get to know that person better. And for everyone else on fab, as other replies to this thread have said, it just looks a bit seedy and desperate to have a cock pic against a sky remote or whatever...

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No point waving your HGV licence in someone's face if you've just reversed your fiesta into the kerb in the staff carpark. "

Love this

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Cock size is always exaggerated. Sometimes they measure from their assholes

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By *tellaAndMarkCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Wouldn't bother, and if some asks just say its large

I had a woman ask the size told her... to then have reply basically saying she didn't believe it.

Sent a picture of the special condoms I buy as std or xl durex don't fit.

Even though we have a clone a willy vibrator of it, sent photo next to an 8" dildo too, wouldn't have any of it.

Plus most women aren't bothered by size more how you use it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Up to you OP, it's your profile ypu can put whatever you want.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

In this world of equality, can I offer to measure the ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's off putting. Show it in a picture without using angles. Do Men seriously measure it? Or enter cock competitions?

I was up for first prize, got top marks in the technical but got marked down in the artistic scores.

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