FabSwingers.com forum: What would you do

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Omg it had to happen we guess

We have chatted to a lovely lady swapped messages added friends and sent pics

Tom looked and realised he knows her very well friends via work inc Facebook - he has always fancied her, so do I

What should we do block or say have you realised we know you?

Any nice advice please Sue xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Omg it had to happen we guess

We have chatted to a lovely lady swapped messages added friends and sent pics

Tom looked and realised he knows her very well friends via work inc Facebook - he has always fancied her, so do I

What should we do block or say have you realised we know you?

Any nice advice please Sue xx"

I’d rather not sh*t where I eat but each to their own.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Up to you.

It could be great and lead to a long and happy relationship.

It could go horribly wrong and cause endless awkwardness.

It could result in a brief relationship then revert to how it was before.

If you're prepared to deal with any of these scenarios, go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am hard choice I guess if you like the lady and feel chemistry you could just be open and say hi we know each other

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Sounds a risk of getting very messy. However I would say the risk is very dependent on the personalities at play here. Obviously you know each other and yourselves very well. If you work on the basis of it going wrong (hopefully not) would either of you be the cause of any of the fallout? Would you be able to just carry on like before, like it's not a thing? If so that's half the battle. But how well does he know her character, background and form? Do you perceive any risk of fallout from her or would she likewise reset like it was not a thing? If you have confidence that all three of you could pull it off without repercussions then go for it, enjoy. Life is about balancing risk v reward. Just remember that expectations and predictions can fly out the window when push comes to shove.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Omg it had to happen we guess

We have chatted to a lovely lady swapped messages added friends and sent pics

Tom looked and realised he knows her very well friends via work inc Facebook - he has always fancied her, so do I

What should we do block or say have you realised we know you?

Any nice advice please Sue xx"

Your call.

We found people we worked with on here and it went very well but we could have been lucky.

Everyones I fab for the same reason. Be honest with them and let them decide if you want to. Just say we know you etc etc . If you want to continue we are fine with it. If not we will.never mention it again.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Omg it had to happen we guess

We have chatted to a lovely lady swapped messages added friends and sent pics

Tom looked and realised he knows her very well friends via work inc Facebook - he has always fancied her, so do I

What should we do block or say have you realised we know you?

Any nice advice please Sue xx"

A similar thing happened to us

Luckily it worked out OK for us. Can lead to a good meet x

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

Aye go for it. You only live once and sure move on if it doesn’t happen. No regrets!

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By *he SeekerMan
over a year ago

Kinver

Stop fantasising and have a walk instead of a wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd probably meet them xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP what did you decide to do ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't meet. There are just too many other people to risk the possible mess. Don't ghost her though explain.

Sinful

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Omg it had to happen we guess

We have chatted to a lovely lady swapped messages added friends and sent pics

Tom looked and realised he knows her very well friends via work inc Facebook - he has always fancied her, so do I

What should we do block or say have you realised we know you?

Any nice advice please Sue xx"

Does he work WITH her or just know her via the internet? If he doesn’t work with her there is literally zero reason to not do anything.

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