FabSwingers.com forum: Repeat messages

By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

Hey I know that this probably seems like a weird question but I thought I’d ask it anyway. Is there an acceptable amount of time to pass before messaging someone again if you didn’t get a response?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If they didn’t reply I wouldnt message again

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

No response is taken as not interested.

If they aren't interested after message 1, I doubt that will change

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By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

"What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

Fair enough, I was more thinking 6 months to a year. But I always here people moan about repeating messages.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

Fair enough, I was more thinking 6 months to a year. But I always here people moan about repeating messages."

No one is keeping a log of who they didn't reply to six months ago. So give it another go.

If still no reply then would suggest delete the sent message and block and concentrate on other prospects

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

Fair enough, I was more thinking 6 months to a year. But I always here people moan about repeating messages."

A year would be reasonable if it's 'Happy Birthday'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

Fair enough, I was more thinking 6 months to a year. But I always here people moan about repeating messages.

A year would be reasonable if it's 'Happy Birthday'"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey I know that this probably seems like a weird question but I thought I’d ask it anyway. Is there an acceptable amount of time to pass before messaging someone again if you didn’t get a response? "

3-4 weeks.

Some people will get irate if you message again no matter what the time frame.

Others will be fine and maybe they just missed your first message and want to meet you.

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By *aughty_builder87 OP Man
over a year ago

Keston

A mixed response. Thanks for everyone’s imput

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No response is taken as not interested.

If they aren't interested after message 1, I doubt that will change"

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Take it as not interested if you recieve no reply, multiple messages will likely get you blocked.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"What one finds acceptable, others may not. So there isn't really an answer to that question.

I would say definitely don't repeat message on the same day. Maybe a couple of days or so. But if you still don't get a response then don't send more.

Fair enough, I was more thinking 6 months to a year. But I always here people moan about repeating messages.

No one is keeping a log of who they didn't reply to six months ago. So give it another go.

If still no reply then would suggest delete the sent message and block and concentrate on other prospects "

I often reply even as a no thanks.

But I often just leave the message and not delete. Then I find they sent the exact same message a few days, weeks, months later. Part of a copy and paste...

Which is why I try to reply when I can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take it as not interested if you recieve no reply, multiple messages will likely get you blocked."

Not strictly true as they may have missed the msg or chance to reply due to all the timewasters flooding the inbox.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd leave it a few months if you feel you have to message again,

Otherwise looks a bit like you're pestering.

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By *22Bee222Man
over a year ago

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If your messaged remains unopened then your probably fine to message again in a couple of weeks or so. Your original message might just have been lost in the many messages single ladies and couples get. Of it's been opened them I'd leave I longer. It could be they are not interested, or they are waiting to speak to their other half before replying, or simply forgot. Ive had positive responses from a Secord message, equally I've had people have a right go then block me. It's a mine field... No matter what you do you'll piss someone off I guess

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By *22Bee222Man
over a year ago

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Forgive the spelling above. I'm a couple of whiskeys in this time of night

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