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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Okay just a quick question I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong, I read all you guys is comments on my last post and I just want to clarify a few things, thing one about the balaclava the only reason why I’m wearing it is because I have a some what important career so I can’t exactly show my face on a website like this.

But I feel like I’m still doing something wrong so everyone please point out everything wrong with my profile

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Okay just a quick question I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong, I read all you guys is comments on my last post and I just want to clarify a few things, thing one about the balaclava the only reason why I’m wearing it is because I have a some what important career so I can’t exactly show my face on a website like this.

But I feel like I’m still doing something wrong so everyone please point out everything wrong with my profile "

Just cut the head out of the pics then? Understand the reasoning but just looks weird!

Personally speaking, not keen on the profile name or the location, doesn’t give a positive vibe for us. But that’s just us

And as was said before, people just don’t fancy everyone and there’s not much you can do about that!

TB

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Okay just a quick question I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong, I read all you guys is comments on my last post and I just want to clarify a few things, thing one about the balaclava the only reason why I’m wearing it is because I have a some what important career so I can’t exactly show my face on a website like this.

But I feel like I’m still doing something wrong so everyone please point out everything wrong with my profile "

Your profile says that you are looking for people to chat on Skype with but we can't contact you.

If you are interested please just drop us a message. We love chatting on Skype!

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

What’s the problem with the name?? Last time people told me my username was uncomfortable for people

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Most people don’t use Skype apparently so no point putting it on my profile

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Everything on my account is public so now all of you can take all my pictures and I can get fired from my job because someone is bound to find out about me being on this site

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"Most people don’t use Skype apparently so no point putting it on my profile "

We agree most people don't use it.

However we still think it fits the bill perfectly.

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By *hatawasteMan
over a year ago

stafford


"Okay just a quick question I’ve been wondering what I’ve been doing wrong, I read all you guys is comments on my last post and I just want to clarify a few things, thing one about the balaclava the only reason why I’m wearing it is because I have a some what important career so I can’t exactly show my face on a website like this.

But I feel like I’m still doing something wrong so everyone please point out everything wrong with my profile "

possibly your first oversight could be not reading all the other threads on this subject first?

So much useful information already here . Just like a knowledge bank you should find what you are looking for .

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By *_yeahPartiesCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Well I’m not sure the over dramatics are going to be especially helpful for your cause?

There is a middle ground between full on face pics and nothing, people do seem to forget this! If you’ve got distinctive tattoos then just wear clothes which cover them, or just post body pics without a face. Not sure it’s that hard?

And the name thing, someone naming themselves ‘bitch’ gives a certain impression which may not be for everyone.

Ultimately though, up to you how you run your profile but then don’t ask for advice and completely ignore or disregard it and still complain there’s no changes

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Looking at your green arrow, you ask the same question about your profile quite a lot. Are you looking for advice or validation ?

Plenty of good advice already and lots of people hide their faces in clever ways, especially if they’re concerned over their profession or job. So have a look at those ideas rather than the balaclava.

There’s nothing wrong with you, your profile or how you choose to use the site. Try to enjoy it and stop being so highly critical about yourself, would be my advice.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

It’s fine I found a way to cover my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything on my account is public so now all of you can take all my pictures and I can get fired from my job because someone is bound to find out about me being on this site "

How exactly?

For anyone from your work to see you on fab, they too would be exposing themselves as members.

Surely what you do in your private life is your business.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Better or worse

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