FabSwingers.com forum: Improving my profile!

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, you've only been here 3 months.

When I started using fab around 7 or 8 years ago, it was generally held view that single men waited around 6 months to get their first meet.

And we weren't in the tail end of a pandemic then.

You'll find that there are a lot of people who are probably not yet comfortable to start meeting again yet.

I've noticed quite a few long established memebers seem to have dissappeared from the site - probably took a break from fab during the crisis the same as I did.

That said, your profile is, well, for want of a better word, rather lacking in substance.

It says nothing about you whatsoever.

Aside from stating the obvious and including irrelevant information, there's nothing there.

Consider this. People on fab are looking for a good time. They want to have fun, much like yourself.

What about your profile tells them that they would have a good time with you?

What are you into? What do you like?

What can you offer?

Have a browse of my profile if you like to get some idea of what a descriptive profile is. It's not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, but I've been back on fab for less than a month and have already generated a fair amount of interest.

Your age will also be a factor that will play against you. Many usres on here have children around your age and so that's a big no no for them.

Lastly. Think about what your expectaions were when you joined. And then lower them. In fact, maybe lose them altogether. Expect nothing and you won't feel dissapointed.