FabSwingers.com forum: Standing out from the crowd.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all,

As a disclaimer, this isn't intended as a whingey, winey post about how hard it is for single guys on this site. I've read too many of them and it's so monotonous and dull...

Basically, I have been on the site for a while. Firstly under a different name, but for various reasons I'm hear now as JLeap, and that will stay like that. I've had a couple of amazing meets, and have a couple more planned for the next fortnight. The thing is, I'm wondering if there is any way to help stand out from the crowd a bit?

I understand that loads of guys send out "wanna fuck" messages, and each to their own, but that is not for me. I prefer to send a more personal message, usually including face pics. It just seems that some of these get deleted instantly, or don't get read even though the people have been online. I'm under no illusions, and understand I won't be everyone's cup of tea, but sometimes it feel as a single male that your are branded a certain way, and expected to be pushy/creepy/dull.

Anyway, any advice would be greatly appreciated. Oh and feel free to check out (and critique!) my profile.

Cheers,

Jack