FabSwingers.com forum: Single guy at the club?

By *uroval OP Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

Hey there!

The short of of it is I'm curious for getting my first swinging club experience but I'm a little concerned about the reaction one might generally get as a single trying to attend. I'm curious on how welcoming the atmosphere would be, and what the etiquette is so that when I do get the courage up to go I don't make a fool out of myself.

Cheers!

By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I only go to clubs as a single gal and purposely look for single men.

Attend an event, and there’s an even mix of all as you need to be on the guest list.

Club SX (club play) is by far the nicest atmosphere I’ve ever been too and I think that is shown by the people that attend.

But all clubs are relatively friendly if your polite. You get the cliques everywhere but just ignore them and do your own thing!

Always ask to join in, be confident in conversation and have fun xx

By *uroval OP Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

That's a wonderfully positive review, thank you! I had these horror stories running through my head and that's done a good lot to quell them

I'll definitely consider going to my nearest one when I get a free evening

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy i go to play with single women and sometimes couples. I personnely dont like clubs as far too many guys turn up and it ruins it in my opinion. If you want to go make sure you go on a night where there are more single females than guys so you have a better choice when looking to play.

By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I usually go as a single man, and I've always found the atmosphere welcoming. Be friendly, be respectful, and socialise.

I've always seen the social side as the important part. Sex is just one of the things you do with your new friends.