FabSwingers.com forum: Longest time you been without penetrative sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

40months

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Until I was 20!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

3 years was enjoying my life sex was less important or never thought about.

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By *ackFromTheDead2Man
over a year ago

London/Surrey

5 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" 40months"

As it stands, 6 months

and I split up with my ex 3 months ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2yrs... And the pussy does close to a certain degree without any form of penetration...I don't use dildos... My self play involves clitorial play...the only way I can self orgasm

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

16 years I guess. Since then...4 months maybe. Certainly went 3 during lockdown as we had zero privacy for a time.

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By *aguar888Man
over a year ago

Dublin,

Last September for me it’s been a long 9 months.

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

6yrs!! (2012 to 2018)

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

"6yrs!! (2012 to 2018) "

How you feeling

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Horny all the time!

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

18months and counting!! Covid has been cruel

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

5 years (2009 - 2014) then did a 2 year spell just before I joined here (2016 - 2018).

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By *ob longMan
over a year ago

Swansea

One year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 years during my marriage. Now.... 19 months.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"2yrs... And the pussy does close to a certain degree without any form of penetration...I don't use dildos... My self play involves clitorial play...the only way I can self orgasm"

I’m the same, never put anything inside and it definitely tightens up when not in use.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

:-waoh waoh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since first time, never went longer than 3 months.

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By *ad habit to breakMan
over a year ago

South manchester

3.5 years

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

8 years and counting....

Even though I work in a club.

Having best time of my life!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

18 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a dildo count? My wife and I haven’t had intercourse in well over a year. I’m usually in chastity as she uses her toys for pleasure..she says she does miss a real cock from time to time

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Longest time was about 6 years when my marriage was failing ..but it's been 17months now and the mojo has really up and left this time x storm x

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By *litoris_AllsortssWoman
over a year ago

There , or thereabouts in

currently at 4 yrs 7 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Nearly 3 years... Thanks to ill health. Hoping to make up for it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

I totally get the married thing

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

6 months tops... and that was due to being down and depressed x

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

6 months a couple of times between 2013 and 2016.

But since 2016, it's been 2 months tops.

I wish I could go 3 months without it but i blame the regular girls in my life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 months due to health reasons. During a time where my hormones were through the roof too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years and counting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Three years in my early twenties

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By *ang BazzaMan
over a year ago

Cirencester

"Until I was 20!

Mine was until I was 17.

Have been one of the lucky ones ever since.

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By *ockedandloaded888Man
over a year ago

ayr

"10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

You must have been married to a blind man then!!!!

That’s a body that I couldn’t keep my hands off, or tongue

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By *willfindyouWoman
over a year ago

Not looking to meet new peeps.

2 years

but all sorted now

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By *andboyMan
over a year ago

Calne

A lady friend of mine who i met for fun almost 30 years ago, went 22 years after her hubby had an accident. We met again on Facebook and very quickly fell back into old habits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years and counting

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

2 years while I worked with my mono but asexual husband to ensure he was 100% comfortable with the fact I'm poly.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

The last 13 months

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

February 2020 was last time and still going without, damn virus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks since attending a club as a couple a while back. Didn't have much fun and struggling to get over it. Oh well. M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

6 months due to covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

You must have been married to a blind man then!!!!

That’s a body that I couldn’t keep my hands off, or tongue

He chose the pub, hence the divorce

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Just over 10 years - I was celibate from 25 to 35.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

12yrs....and not by choice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 8 years, maybe longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In male mode, currently since jan 19

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Coming up on six years

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"12yrs....and not by choice!"

Did you join a monastery or something ?

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

10 years he never fucked you !!!!

Has he finally come out ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8.5 years and learned how to use all that energy in other things, had a most productive time!

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

"12yrs....and not by choice!

Did you join a monastery or something ?

No! If only joining a nunnery was an excuse....lol....Apparantly I gave off f*** off vibes....Would have been nice if someone had told me

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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13 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vaginal sex virgin so 51.5 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 4 years

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

10 years. Penetrative sex can be emotionally confusing when gender is not straightforward. When having sexual desire increases your awareness of parts of your body that you are not especially happy with, resulting in loss of desire...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years without whilst married. Go figure!

Divorced for 4yr now, and joined here just over 2 years ago.

Some of the best sex I have ever had, and have loved my self exploration journey too

10 years he never fucked you !!!!

Has he finally come out ? "

That was always questionable!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

3 years soon. The most disappointing part is that the last time was shit.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

"12yrs....and not by choice!

Did you join a monastery or something ?

No! If only joining a nunnery was an excuse....lol....Apparantly I gave off f*** off vibes....Would have been nice if someone had told me

That must have been some strong vibes to persist for 12 years lol , well at least someone told you in the end

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By *amiee89TV/TS
over a year ago

derry

1year 7months and counting still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since bloody February and counting!

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

The last 14 months, Horny as Hell cold showers not working.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

It’s that long I can’t remember when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"10 years. Penetrative sex can be emotionally confusing when gender is not straightforward. When having sexual desire increases your awareness of parts of your body that you are not especially happy with, resulting in loss of desire..."

Very well put Polly.

This is why I stopped involving my bits n bobs in sex 9 years ago.

The down side of that is now I have the bits I should have started life with….. I seem to have lost the association between those nerves and sexual enjoyment.

Hey ho. Any fellas wanna help me associate those sensations

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By *issysbee69Woman
over a year ago

Brandenburg

Here lately I've been 2 Wks and I will go longer with it because hubby and his medical issues and the rest and I am going to go as long as it takes me and I have my toys for my own needs. About to quit All

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years roughly. 4 in a friend only marriage. 7 through choice when I left him.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!

15 months and counting.....

But today I'm meeting my Fwb so that's gonna change!

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Woodbridge

Two months.

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By *UCKER56Man
over a year ago

Walsall

13 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pre covid a few months .. whos counting.. post covid 2 years !!!!!!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Since the pandemic so over a year

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

"The last 13 months"
your pics say different

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

2 years

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By *dysseusukMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

7 years whilst married!!

When not married, 2 months!!!

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

5 years and counting !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

almost 6 years when i was in my twenties.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

4 years and counting

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By *aturewomanloverMan
over a year ago

staffs/cheshire

Some of the length of time that women are putting is very upsetting.....

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