FabSwingers.com forum: Message length

By *amesRobs1987 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Women / couples...

We all know how many messages you get on here, and it must be a nightmare managing them all, so, with that in mind, do you prefer shorter or longer messages?

I know one line messages, or just 'Hey fancy a fuck?' is not the way to do it, but do you want messages longer than 2/3 paragraphs? With some many to read, do you prefer brevity that's accompanied by some good pictures, or something much more detailed so you can better understand who's worth spending time on?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

A paragraph is good longer looks like a copy and paste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A paragraph is good longer looks like a copy and paste"

Agree.

A little introduction and maybe a bit of cheekiness,spot on

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By *amesRobs1987 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"A paragraph is good longer looks like a copy and paste"

Ah okay. Would be interested to hear if any other women feel like that about longer messages

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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Longer messages tend to bore me, they can have to have too much information that I am not interested in.

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By *amesRobs1987 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

Seems like the consensus is 1 or 2 paras!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

About 37 words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4 lines is enough...no way "2-3 paragraphs"

I've received essay type 1st msgs...tbh I don't read them...that's just too full on

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

A short paragraph that's interesting to read to grab the attention.

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By *amesRobs1987 OP Man
over a year ago

Brighton

"About 37 words "

But how many characters?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"About 37 words

But how many characters?"

That depends on the length of your words

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If i have to scroll it's too long. It's much more about the content. Tell me something in my blurb that you like (not mine because mine is just a filler) and you will interest me much more than paragraphs describing in minute detail what you would like to do to me.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We prefer relevant messages which prove the senders haven't just ignored what's in our profile and have made a decent attempt to respond to that. If it's interesting and relevant we'll read it. One sentence is too much if it's crass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question that man, I often wonder if I’ve written to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A short paragraph works for me. Too long and it puts me off

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"A paragraph is good longer looks like a copy and paste"

^ this+ ..we prefer it when it speaks to us. So include any details from their profile that intrigues/excites you. and show an interest in them by asking questions. If they’ve expressed an interest in anything you are experience of or are curious about - tell them.

Nothing’s worse than being caught in the a drive-by spamming incessant

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"About 37 words

But how many characters?

That depends on the length of your words "

The average word contains 4.7 letters, so 178

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"About 37 words

But how many characters?"

178!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

For us it depends on whether you have something interesting to say. If you're just talking about yourself and what you want, a long message isn't going to interest us. The same goes if you just want to talk about sex.

If you have something to say in response to our profile, why you think we are compatible, on shared interests or a response to a forum post, then go right ahead.

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By *he SeekerMan
over a year ago

Kinver

It confuses me, I like to introduce myself as a light hearted easy going we educated male. When folks ask for eight inches plus I find they stop reading after about 4.5 inches of text. Just wish I could bore the pants of a few more women with nine inches.

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