FabSwingers.com forum: Verification help

By *ukey1985uk OP Man
over a year ago

london

Hey all

So I have been trying to meet up and arrange some mmf fun for a while now. Even paid for my membership on here. Had no success at all with anyone. Some guys are up for it but no women and a couple of profiles I have spoken to only meet on versifications. Now a couple of the guys I have spoken to and spoken on webcam with said they are trying to verify me as genuine and sane with them. But it’s not working.

Does anyone have any advice at all please ?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you aware that you can only be verified by people who are already verified themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will also be unable to receive verifications from anyone that is unable to message you due to filters.

For example, if you have single men blocked or if you have those outside of your chosen age range blocked, people who fall into either category will be unable to verify you

And as has already been said, only verified people can leave verifications for others

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By *ukey1985uk OP Man
over a year ago

london

So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If they are verified they can verify you.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ? "

Go to clubs or organised socials.. build your friends base 1st.. my advice as a single woman on here.. not many will meet 2 random guys off here. Its safety 1st.

Also paying your site support isn’t a guarantee you will get any meets!

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ? "

Er, say that again?

You can't get verifications from people you haven't met. You can get booted off the site for asking for a start, as they would be false veri's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m guessing the people who are saying they would verify you aren’t verified them selves. I would try hitting some of the social places and getting verified through those places.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

And now you have a verification saying you've met at an event, from a member who's been on here 10 months when socials have been only been running for a couple of weeks. After you've been moaning on here you can't get a veri?

Can you see why this might seem a little suspect?

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm not going to meet 2 random guys for a mfm that I don't know from fab.

I would only want 2 guys who I trusted completely for that scenario

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ? "

If they don't want to meet you based on the information in your profile then being brutally honest then it is just tough. Maybe they don’t find you attractive.

And as already said, paying your membership does not mean that you get sex. Is that what you honestly thought? ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all

Does anyone have any advice at all please ?

Thanks "

We just made a forum post about delusional people like you on the site too funny pml

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ? "

Try connecting with someone via messages then meeting for a social it's how everyone has been doing this little task so grab their attention if you're unable to ask Deirdre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full of bullshit

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So how am I able to get verifications from anyone that has not met me yet? If they don’t want to meet me based on information from profile then how can I climb this obstacle ? "

Be you be creative imaginative and their is no ladder to climb it's not a race you need to find those who you connect with its the same for anyone so remember this acting desperate doesn't help

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By *iscretionOnlyMan
over a year ago

Bucks

This really isn't too much of an issue - for a start, if you're genuinely who you say you are you can at the very least speak to people in the chat rooms...

If you can't even do that when you're desperate to get a verification, why would anyone be willing to meet you in person?

I don't wish to sound harsh, but I've only recently joined and did exactly that. It was surprisingly good fun and I've already exchanged messages with a few members.

The problem most people seem to have is the huge volume of fakes, frauds, timewasters, people that are downright rude and those that put zero thought or personality into their messages.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Full of bullshit"

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a cam veri wont get you anywhere most people want to see meet veris from people youve met

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