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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Does anyone have any tips for me to put on my profile/bio and what to say in a message to get a reply from a woman or couple? Please and Thank You.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Looks like a really good profile to me. Would just read the profiles of anyone you are going to message, and see if there’s anything in there that you can put in your message that you think fits the bill. X

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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Looks like a really good profile to me. Would just read the profiles of anyone you are going to message, and see if there’s anything in there that you can put in your message that you think fits the bill. X"

Thanks a lot x

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Four pics of your erection....one would do just fine

Other than that....if you were near us we'd reply to a message if you read our profile and made a reference so we knew you'd read it.

That's really the only secret of success here....be attractive to the person you're contacting (you can't control that) and look like you've made an effort in contacting them (you have control over that).

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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Four pics of your erection....one would do just fine

Other than that....if you were near us we'd reply to a message if you read our profile and made a reference so we knew you'd read it.

That's really the only secret of success here....be attractive to the person you're contacting (you can't control that) and look like you've made an effort in contacting them (you have control over that)."

Yes, I was thinking less D*** pics, thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your bigest problem maybe your age tbh, most like to meet people of a similar age, and most swingers are alot older, that being said, there is always someone for everyone on here

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

OP your profile is ok perhaps if you are feeling brave / confident put up a face picture.You may also want to state why you can’t accommodate as some may feel you have partner who knows nothing about it.Something that may put people off is on your profile you say straight but on your verifications you have had a sexual meet with a tv / ts are you really straight or perhaps bi or bi curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP your profile is ok perhaps if you are feeling brave / confident put up a face picture.You may also want to state why you can’t accommodate as some may feel you have partner who knows nothing about it.Something that may put people off is on your profile you say straight but on your verifications you have had a sexual meet with a tv / ts are you really straight or perhaps bi or bi curious."

Well spotted , you have fucked a blokes ass , hardly straight? Be truthful

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Decent profile, like the photos, good writeup.

Ensure that you read the profile of whomever you're messaging, be pleasant and I reckon you'll have some decent results - Mr.

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi "

I disagree.

A trans woman is a woman in my book.

People can choose how to describe themselves.

Men attracted to femininity may consider themselves straight, even if that attraction includes convincing TVs.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi

I disagree.

A trans woman is a woman in my book.

People can choose how to describe themselves.

Men attracted to femininity may consider themselves straight, even if that attraction includes convincing TVs."

Well the concept would agree with my opinion and so forth any specialist being attracted to the same sex changes everything regardless how the other had changed their sexuality even if they describe themselves as a female. I'm sure even Google would've agreed.

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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi

I disagree.

A trans woman is a woman in my book.

People can choose how to describe themselves.

Men attracted to femininity may consider themselves straight, even if that attraction includes convincing TVs."

Thanks for clearing that up, a person born with a penis doesn't make them a man if they identify as Trans(woman), transitioning, or looks like a woman, just because I had sex with someone that has a penis doesn't make me bi.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

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"I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi

I disagree.

A trans woman is a woman in my book.

People can choose how to describe themselves.

Men attracted to femininity may consider themselves straight, even if that attraction includes convincing TVs.

Thanks for clearing that up, a person born with a penis doesn't make them a man if they identify as Trans(woman), transitioning, or looks like a woman, just because I had sex with someone that has a penis doesn't make me bi."

So women have a penis??

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By *ets get it on 101 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't want this Thread to get into me being straight and being attracted to trans people or anyone sending me a message about it. please and thanks

Or having a discussion about trans people

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I'm basically Straight but I am attracted to some TS/Transgender people. I'M NOT INTO MEN.

Any doctor or specialist would see this as

that you need help to understand your own sexuality if a person feels attracted to the same sex this is either bi curious or bi this doesn't make the person heterosexual which is straight think you need to understand so your not mistaken which you are already.

If a person changes their sexuality to TS and you engage in sexually you are bi

I disagree.

A trans woman is a woman in my book.

People can choose how to describe themselves.

Men attracted to femininity may consider themselves straight, even if that attraction includes convincing TVs.

Thanks for clearing that up, a person born with a penis doesn't make them a man if they identify as Trans(woman), transitioning, or looks like a woman, just because I had sex with someone that has a penis doesn't make me bi.

So women have a penis??"

Some do when they have a husband who is a prick

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd aim to get your profile to sell you, between the lines, if you can. It's good, though a tiny bit organised (which is better than random chaos! ) and you could remove simplifications, such as explaining what rimming is.

Pics are a bit samey. If you could emphasise stature, it could be helpful.

Have fun!

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