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"A lot of hotels now are much stricter because of covid" It also seems sensible in case of a fire to know how many are in the hotel overnight | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. " Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore! | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore!" True but before the rules were only 2 from same bubble. Also a lot of hotels are only insured for a certain amount of people in a room | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore!" Tell that to the hotel reception/security. I think they were using intimidation tactics on us as they were wearing the vests etc. Our friends complained (we were supposed to join them) but don't know what the outcome was. | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore! Tell that to the hotel reception/security. I think they were using intimidation tactics on us as they were wearing the vests etc. Our friends complained (we were supposed to join them) but don't know what the outcome was. " Tell reception that your interviewing for a job and you can then come down and Collect your friend lots of people are on holidays and meet friends when they’re staying in a hotel | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore! Tell that to the hotel reception/security. I think they were using intimidation tactics on us as they were wearing the vests etc. Our friends complained (we were supposed to join them) but don't know what the outcome was. Tell reception that your interviewing for a job and you can then come down and Collect your friend lots of people are on holidays and meet friends when they’re staying in a hotel" Thank you for that tip, we'll remember that. Would it work even late at night? Lol | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore!" Yes, it's true. I've just retired from 47+ years in Hotel Management, working primarily in Reception, then Night Management, but also worked up to GM level too. Even before Covid, many hotels, especially the larger chains were tight on "extra" people in house overnight. It comes down to Licensing and Fire Safety regulations and local Authorities / Council's have been enforcing it for years. EG- if the fire alarms sound overnight and the hotel evacuates everyone; if you've been smuggled in for a meet, how do you explain your presence as it doesn't tally with hotel records? In my Night Manager roles, I had to stop all people not registered at Reception, as it breaks Licensing rules. Now after COVID, things have changed. Hotels must operate a One-way access and navigation route through the property, especially from the front doors. Some local Councils will insist on EVERY person entering the hotel to register, or give details for Track & Trace. Some Councils are cracking down on hotels that aren't complying so if Hotels don't follow the rules, they risk being shut down until they do. Sadly, how people used to visit hotels for their fun, has started to change. I have seen some comments already on here about ppl who got in easily, but only because the hotels hadn't implemented new rules. Good luck | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. " | |||
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"I work in a hotel and this is all great reading! We can only allow 2 adults per room due to fire regs, any hint of a party or extra-curricular shenanigans will just draw attention so my advice is keep as quiet as you can and stop the headboard from banging against the wall or Karen from marketing in the next room will have the duty manager knocking on your door in no time. Having said that we do occasionally get sex workers using the hotel and smuggling clients in through the leisure club or a fire door, but again, the main thing that alerts anyone is noise! Reception staff are a lot more aware of who's in-house these days too, a year of Covid restrictions and providing strictly followed accommodation laws has hard-wired that into them now. That is only my place though, some places don't give a shit who stays lol Good luck with all your hotel fabbing everyone! " Couldn't agree more, with my same experience in Hotels, especially on Night shifts. But it really is amazing to read on this thread and several others in recent weeks on the same theme, how a lot of people think the way they get people in and up to bedrooms will be unchanged and it will be easy! They're in for a shock! I know from my contacts that a small hotel in the West Midlands has been shut by the local Council for failing to adhere to rules and didn't have adequate systems in place. They cannot open till they do. It's how hotels have to adhere to for a while. | |||
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"I work in a hotel and this is all great reading! We can only allow 2 adults per room due to fire regs, any hint of a party or extra-curricular shenanigans will just draw attention so my advice is keep as quiet as you can and stop the headboard from banging against the wall or Karen from marketing in the next room will have the duty manager knocking on your door in no time. Having said that we do occasionally get sex workers using the hotel and smuggling clients in through the leisure club or a fire door, but again, the main thing that alerts anyone is noise! Reception staff are a lot more aware of who's in-house these days too, a year of Covid restrictions and providing strictly followed accommodation laws has hard-wired that into them now. That is only my place though, some places don't give a shit who stays lol Good luck with all your hotel fabbing everyone! Couldn't agree more, with my same experience in Hotels, especially on Night shifts. But it really is amazing to read on this thread and several others in recent weeks on the same theme, how a lot of people think the way they get people in and up to bedrooms will be unchanged and it will be easy! They're in for a shock! I know from my contacts that a small hotel in the West Midlands has been shut by the local Council for failing to adhere to rules and didn't have adequate systems in place. They cannot open till they do. It's how hotels have to adhere to for a while. " I went to a travelodge a month ago with someone who wasn't my hubby....staff didn't ask a thing. Didn't even say about track and trace. We just showed booking confirmation and they gave us a key, no questions, just directed us to the room....walked out five hours later...still no questions. | |||
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"I work in a hotel and this is all great reading! We can only allow 2 adults per room due to fire regs, any hint of a party or extra-curricular shenanigans will just draw attention so my advice is keep as quiet as you can and stop the headboard from banging against the wall or Karen from marketing in the next room will have the duty manager knocking on your door in no time. Having said that we do occasionally get sex workers using the hotel and smuggling clients in through the leisure club or a fire door, but again, the main thing that alerts anyone is noise! Reception staff are a lot more aware of who's in-house these days too, a year of Covid restrictions and providing strictly followed accommodation laws has hard-wired that into them now. That is only my place though, some places don't give a shit who stays lol Good luck with all your hotel fabbing everyone! Couldn't agree more, with my same experience in Hotels, especially on Night shifts. But it really is amazing to read on this thread and several others in recent weeks on the same theme, how a lot of people think the way they get people in and up to bedrooms will be unchanged and it will be easy! They're in for a shock! I know from my contacts that a small hotel in the West Midlands has been shut by the local Council for failing to adhere to rules and didn't have adequate systems in place. They cannot open till they do. It's how hotels have to adhere to for a while. I went to a travelodge a month ago with someone who wasn't my hubby....staff didn't ask a thing. Didn't even say about track and trace. We just showed booking confirmation and they gave us a key, no questions, just directed us to the room....walked out five hours later...still no questions. " I was phoning everybody who was arriving to ensure they could provide docs showing they were travelling for permitted reasons and if they were sharing that they had evidence they were both from the same res address to present on check-in, so unless you'd gone to the trouble of forgeing docs you wouldn't've got past our front desk team! Like I say, some places were more relaxed than others, some interpreted the rules differently too. At least now anyone can come with anyone and I'm not having to have dozens of awkward conversations every day!! | |||
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"Book check in...the one goes out of hotel meets the 3rd and the two walk back in after 5 mins" This is a good way | |||
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"I work in a hotel and this is all great reading! We can only allow 2 adults per room due to fire regs, any hint of a party or extra-curricular shenanigans will just draw attention so my advice is keep as quiet as you can and stop the headboard from banging against the wall or Karen from marketing in the next room will have the duty manager knocking on your door in no time. Having said that we do occasionally get sex workers using the hotel and smuggling clients in through the leisure club or a fire door, but again, the main thing that alerts anyone is noise! Reception staff are a lot more aware of who's in-house these days too, a year of Covid restrictions and providing strictly followed accommodation laws has hard-wired that into them now. That is only my place though, some places don't give a shit who stays lol Good luck with all your hotel fabbing everyone! Couldn't agree more, with my same experience in Hotels, especially on Night shifts. But it really is amazing to read on this thread and several others in recent weeks on the same theme, how a lot of people think the way they get people in and up to bedrooms will be unchanged and it will be easy! They're in for a shock! I know from my contacts that a small hotel in the West Midlands has been shut by the local Council for failing to adhere to rules and didn't have adequate systems in place. They cannot open till they do. It's how hotels have to adhere to for a while. I went to a travelodge a month ago with someone who wasn't my hubby....staff didn't ask a thing. Didn't even say about track and trace. We just showed booking confirmation and they gave us a key, no questions, just directed us to the room....walked out five hours later...still no questions. I was phoning everybody who was arriving to ensure they could provide docs showing they were travelling for permitted reasons and if they were sharing that they had evidence they were both from the same res address to present on check-in, so unless you'd gone to the trouble of forgeing docs you wouldn't've got past our front desk team! Like I say, some places were more relaxed than others, some interpreted the rules differently too. At least now anyone can come with anyone and I'm not having to have dozens of awkward conversations every day!! " I work for a hotel chain and we had to call them to make sure they weren’t staying for leisure but we were not allowed to ask for proof. It was down to the guests to provide the details in case we had a police visit | |||
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"Surely, after June 21st, most of this "red tape" will be gone, won't it? "All restrictions lifted" (or something like that) is what the government was saying, wasn't it?" I think Boris said after the 21st you go out without socially distancing but if you can stay in stay in | |||
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"Never had an issue, just said someone’s joining me later but isn’t staying... used all the usual chain hotels xx" Never had issues and had lots of meets in differant hotels.. 2 cards a drink in the bar always works too | |||
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"I need to book a hotel for a meet we are due to have soon (so excited!)...best way of getting a third person in without the hotel sites thinking you need extra beds in family rooms? What about finding hotels with big beds? Or do you just book it for 2 and smuggle a third one in? $ Would love your thoughts please!" AIR BNB HOUSES ARE THE BEST WITH HOTTUB | |||
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"Village hotels are good check yourself in" Stayed in the Maidstone Village hotel no problem with bring people in xx | |||
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"We had a meet in hotel near london airport with couple we played they left around midnight about 1 we were fucking when 2 security from hotel just open door and rushed in said they had a report other people were in room we did get a free stay at another hotel was funny but they do keep andveyebout for xtras" They can’t do that. They can’t just break straight in. They must knock and declare themselves. If no answer after three attempts they then can go in but not burst in. | |||
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"Village hotels are good check yourself in" Fully agree. We stayed in one last night and had a friend join us for a few hours in the afternoon. Plenty of people around so he just walked right through. | |||
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"Village hotels are good check yourself in Fully agree. We stayed in one last night and had a friend join us for a few hours in the afternoon. Plenty of people around so he just walked right through. " Fully Agree.. Best hotel chain I have found for meeting at the bar and taking that sexy stroll back to the room or just walking up to knock on that door. Exciting times for the 3 of us... mmmm | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. Seriously, it's not the 1950s anymore! Yes, it's true. I've just retired from 47+ years in Hotel Management, working primarily in Reception, then Night Management, but also worked up to GM level too. Even before Covid, many hotels, especially the larger chains were tight on "extra" people in house overnight. It comes down to Licensing and Fire Safety regulations and local Authorities / Council's have been enforcing it for years. EG- if the fire alarms sound overnight and the hotel evacuates everyone; if you've been smuggled in for a meet, how do you explain your presence as it doesn't tally with hotel records? In my Night Manager roles, I had to stop all people not registered at Reception, as it breaks Licensing rules. Now after COVID, things have changed. Hotels must operate a One-way access and navigation route through the property, especially from the front doors. Some local Councils will insist on EVERY person entering the hotel to register, or give details for Track & Trace. Some Councils are cracking down on hotels that aren't complying so if Hotels don't follow the rules, they risk being shut down until they do. Sadly, how people used to visit hotels for their fun, has started to change. I have seen some comments already on here about ppl who got in easily, but only because the hotels hadn't implemented new rules. Good luck " Isn’t the key point here “overnight”? If people meet in the bar, then go ip to the room for a few hours fun, then those not staying in the room left, is there still an issue? Certainly pre-covid this is how we played. Not done anything for 18mths though! | |||
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"Surely, after June 21st, most of this "red tape" will be gone, won't it? "All restrictions lifted" (or something like that) is what the government was saying, wasn't it?I think Boris said after the 21st you go out without socially distancing but if you can stay in stay in " Forget conga lines it will be more like hokey y! | |||
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"What's wrong with a family room ? Then no one has to sleep in the wet patch. " Hahaha brilliant nobody wants the wet patch! | |||
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"Go in as a 2, then send the other person the room number and they can walk in later and just say there walking to their own room " Yes this ... | |||
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"Some hotels have a policy of no visitors after certain time. We got caught out by this one once, pre-Covid, in an Ibis hotel. " What happened I'm really interested | |||
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"The other week I met a couple at the Premier Inn Newark, which is just off the A1, I actually book my own room, which actually ended up be opposite them, just as I knew I'd be knackered, this hotel like most Premier inn's use entry cards access, however this hotel has a annex across the car park from the main building, where our rooms are, a lot more discreet. Also last Saturday I met a couple at the Northampton Holiday Inn on Bedford Rd, I walked straight past reception at 8pm and into a lift no problems. " The West Midlands sounds like the place to be, for a solo male to meet genuine couples | |||
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"I booked a hotel room once when working away and I ( Michelle ) went down to collect my Fab visitor. The young lad on reception went to stop us so I just just said that I had had a dreadful day and was he going to stop me getting my Fanny smashed and make my day even worse? He just went red and said have fun. " Classy way of speaking to hotel staff | |||
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"I need to book a hotel for a meet we are due to have soon (so excited!)...best way of getting a third person in without the hotel sites thinking you need extra beds in family rooms? What about finding hotels with big beds? Or do you just book it for 2 and smuggle a third one in? Would love your thoughts please!" Tie bed sheets together so they can climb up snd through the window | |||
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"I booked a hotel room once when working away and I ( Michelle ) went down to collect my Fab visitor. The young lad on reception went to stop us so I just just said that I had had a dreadful day and was he going to stop me getting my Fanny smashed and make my day even worse? He just went red and said have fun. Classy way of speaking to hotel staff" Do you have a problem with that? | |||
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" Do you have a problem with that? " Yes I do. If I was a member of staff in a hotel, especially a young one, I wouldn't feel it appropriate that a guest told me she wanted her fanny smashing by someone not checked in. | |||
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" Do you have a problem with that? Yes I do. If I was a member of staff in a hotel, especially a young one, I wouldn't feel it appropriate that a guest told me she wanted her fanny smashing by someone not checked in. " Thanks for your opinion. Which I shall ignore. Xxx. | |||
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