FabSwingers.com forum: Plenty of views

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You could do with a few more pics, some casual, some smart. Cannot accommodate is off putting for some. Also it's very hard for single guys on here, you're competing with thousands. (We don't get many messages either, only when we put a pic up!)

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Pics are fine blurb very generic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "

Looks fine to me.

But I’m probably not the best judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics are fine blurb very generic. "

What would you suggest to add on there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could do with a few more pics, some casual, some smart. Cannot accommodate is off putting for some. Also it's very hard for single guys on here, you're competing with thousands. (We don't get many messages either, only when we put a pic up!)"

Surprised you don't get many messages, you're very hot

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Your profile tells me everything I need to know.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe add a bit more about meeting couples ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe add a bit more about meeting couples ?"

Changed, do love meeting couples, especially bi couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quest and pandoras are some of the best swingers clubs in the country, definitely advise going. They are open for socials then June open for fun.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"They are open for socials then June open for fun.

Quest isn't open

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "

Nice photos

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing.

Nice photos

Thank you

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I get loads of views and messages from men lady’s and couples

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing.

Nice photos

Thank you

Get rid of the face sitting bit it's not needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing.

Nice photos

Thank you

Get rid of the face sitting bit it's not needed "

Yeah, you're probably right, done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get loads of views and messages from men lady’s and couples "

I'm not surprised looking at your pics

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why do you need to say "I'll update the profile soon" ?

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Thankyou for the compliment coco kid

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Cracking body slinky I don’t drive but I would get the train to see you x

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I have never been to a swingers club would love to go with someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why do you need to say "I'll update the profile soon" ?"

Actually, that was when i first joined, it was to update as I went along. suppose its not relevant now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get hardly any views or messages been in here 3 months and haven't received a single message only the odd reply to what I've sent ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learned that single ladies and couples who have “Not looking for Single Guys” put that in to stop hundreds of messages. They will choose which single guy they will message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife made a profile to try and prove me wrong that she wouldn't get any likes,views or messages and within the first 15mins she had 500 views and about 50 messages so that backfired ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife made a profile to try and prove me wrong that she wouldn't get any likes,views or messages and within the first 15mins she had 500 views and about 50 messages so that backfired ??"

Yeah I heard that from a lady I used to meet on here regularly on a previous profile. She got literally hundreds a day. I suppose its hard to get noticed when someone has that many.

Like i mentioned in my original post, i do get views, but they don't transpire into messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't concern yourself with continually amending your profile. Firstly, its yours. If you change it under the advice of the many, you lose being individual. Secondly, I've tried many changes to my own page on both my current and previous accounts. Detailed writing with no cock shot photos, quick to read and plenty of explicit photos. Both returned the same result, exactly what you're describing.

Due to covid fears and a long time of social limbo, fab is a dead duck at present. I've been looking at users in my local area today and most haven't accessed their accounts for weeks/months. It will pick up, hopefully.

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

"I wouldn't concern yourself with continually amending your profile. Firstly, its yours. If you change it under the advice of the many, you lose being individual.

I (personally) absolutely agree with this.

You shouldn't change or amend just bcos some people don't share your interests and likes.

You will find that others do have similar interests and your profile is unique to you.

Good luck "

Vee

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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago

Hyde

I personally like the profile ....

The 'cannot accommodate' Would maybe out people off . Is it a house share/kids or married ? Ppl may swerve you cos of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife made a profile to try and prove me wrong that she wouldn't get any likes,views or messages and within the first 15mins she had 500 views and about 50 messages so that backfired ??"

From guys mostly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't concern yourself with continually amending your profile. Firstly, its yours. If you change it under the advice of the many, you lose being individual. Secondly, I've tried many changes to my own page on both my current and previous accounts. Detailed writing with no cock shot photos, quick to read and plenty of explicit photos. Both returned the same result, exactly what you're describing.

Hopefully, now things are opening up, wish you well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't concern yourself with continually amending your profile. Firstly, its yours. If you change it under the advice of the many, you lose being individual.

I (personally) absolutely agree with this.

You shouldn't change or amend just bcos some people don't share your interests and likes.

You will find that others do have similar interests and your profile is unique to you.

Good luck

Vee "

Thank you x

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By *icola2202Couple
over a year ago

Chatham

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "
we get maybe 2 messages a month and views 10 max. Not sure why but it is what it is x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. we get maybe 2 messages a month and views 10 max. Not sure why but it is what it is x "

I'm surprised, you look great in your pic, maybe now things are opening up, it may pick up.

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By *tellaAndMarkCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

I discovered that you can hide your view of a profile. You would be surprised how many people actually look at your profile.

You have to remember your profile is your shop window.

I asked for a profile critique from Fab massive and completely rewrote our profile.

One thing I would say is pictures paint a thousand words.

We posted a video up last night, 231 fabs in 12 hours and 232 profile views that show.

Content is important.

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By *tellaAndMarkCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "

Ok, from a couple perspective if Stella was looking to invite a man into it, she would want to see more varied pictures. Better quality ones too.

Also a big thing also would be get verified, as you aren't. It's a two second photo.

For me from a male perspective if I was looking at your profile to agree to it there are a couple of sentences that just put me right off.

Get rid of the on and off fab bit, does nothing other than make you look like a "dipper" just coming on to get your fix not enhance a potential meet.

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By *tellaAndMarkCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Also more about you as a person, nothing really to say your type of personality, if you have a chilled or happy outlook to life, all these things help for someone to think they may have a bond with you.

Hope this helps.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "

Honestly? As a couple we'd pass on your profile simply because of the combination of "cannot accommodate" and "been on and off the site a number of years". We find that these generally means married and she keeps finding out so you have to have a new profile.

May not be true in all cases, but often enough.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's better to have people self-select that they aren't for you quickly than to expend time to get the same results.

What matters is getting contact with enough of the right people only.

With clear hones text that sells you and what you have that others may want, coupled with a range of high quality very clear photos that let others know if they could fancy sex with you.

What hot don't want are others looking but then being unsure if you are any good for them. If you don't hit that goal, somebody else will definitely do it.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Amsterdam

"I get quite a views on my profile, but not many messages. Would love some feedback on what i could do to make it more appealing. "

Buy one get one free

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who's sent me feedback. Firstly, i'm now photo verified, I think that's important, thanks for suggesting it. Secondly, i've said a few things about myself, about the type of person i am, i don't think there was enough before. I don't want to change too much, because, as a couple of you mentioned, then it wouldn't be me, i'd be tailoring it to suit others opinions. Anyway have a look and let me know how it is xx.

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

You are not alone same here. Don't overthink or get stressed about it. Too many single men on this site. When we go shopping just because we check a product, it means we are going to buy it.

I know it is not a perfect analogy but I guess you gather what I am trying to say.

Before the lockdown, I mainly used the site to communicate with people I met in socials/clubs. It worked wonders. Hopefully, we can come back to it sometime in the summer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You are not alone same here. Don't overthink or get stressed about it. Too many single men on this site. When we go shopping just because we check a product, it means we are going to buy it.

I know it is not a perfect analogy but I guess you gather what I am trying to say.

Before the lockdown, I mainly used the site to communicate with people I met in socials/clubs. It worked wonders. Hopefully, we can come back to it sometime in the summer."

Yeah i take your point, think i'm going to start going to social meet and clubs moving forward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that I have cannot accommodate and people get their knickers in a twist over this when they won’t accommodate either. Kettle, black, all I’m saying.

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