FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie to fab

By *r kinky OP Man
over a year ago

kettering

Hi I’m a single male fairly new to fab Looking to meet single females or couples And not having much luck Keep messaging people without very little reply

I’m no oil painting but not really sure what I’m doing wrong any advice would be great xx

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Upload decent pictures.. At a first glance your profile picture looks like you're wearing an adult diaper...And lose the meaningless disclaimer

.. Can not accommodate is a hindrance to some.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Upload decent pictures.. At a first glance your profile picture looks like you're wearing an adult diaper...And lose the meaningless disclaimer

.. Can not accommodate is a hindrance to some."

Some very good advice there.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Two thirds of your profile are fatuous disclaimers OP. That can't help your credibility. On a positive note look out for swingers social events and go to those to meet swingers.

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By *aisleybuddieMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I have similar issues I am also a newbie. I did have a public photo up but was getting nowhere and like your comment I am no oil painting. So thought maybe taking down the public photo might help but it didnt. I have also tried to get invited to socials but cant get excepted because i am not meet verified. So it seems like a vicious circle so any other advice to get meet verified would be welcome.

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

Unfortunately this site isn't for everyone.

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By *aisleybuddieMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Not sure what that means

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I have similar issues I am also a newbie. I did have a public photo up but was getting nowhere and like your comment I am no oil painting. So thought maybe taking down the public photo might help but it didnt. I have also tried to get invited to socials but cant get excepted because i am not meet verified. So it seems like a vicious circle so any other advice to get meet verified would be welcome.

What socials have you been trying? Being unverified isn’t usually the problem for socials or club entry ?

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By *aisleybuddieMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Well clubs arent open at the moment. I applied for a couple of party weekends. Maybe I am better just waiting until the clubs open up again for social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well clubs arent open at the moment. I applied for a couple of party weekends. Maybe I am better just waiting until the clubs open up again for social events"

Clubs open end of June. Cant wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Full stops, commas...

Write like a grown up and the magic starts to happen.

Ditch the disclaimers - they scream newbie.

Clothes dumped by the bed don't scream seduction.

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By *aisleybuddieMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"Full stops, commas...

Write like a grown up and the magic starts to happen.

Ditch the disclaimers - they scream newbie.

Clothes dumped by the bed don't scream seduction. "

I take it that was aimed at sweetguy69

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"Full stops, commas...

Write like a grown up and the magic starts to happen.

Ditch the disclaimers - they scream newbie.

Clothes dumped by the bed don't scream seduction.

I take it that was aimed at sweetguy69"

Well it is his thread

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By *aisleybuddieMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"Full stops, commas...

Write like a grown up and the magic starts to happen.

Ditch the disclaimers - they scream newbie.

Clothes dumped by the bed don't scream seduction.

I take it that was aimed at

sweetguy69

Well it is his thread

That is very true lol

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By *ustustwo.1965Couple
over a year ago

"Not sure what that means"

What we mean is that some people may well never get a meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having same trouble,been on this site for 2 years,send loads of messages and never received any back .to be honest think there's loads of time wasters on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo lose the disclaimer its pointless and always a put off

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I'm having same trouble,been on this site for 2 years,send loads of messages and never received any back .to be honest think there's loads of time wasters on here "

Not replying to messages is saving time

in my opinion

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"Hi I’m a single male fairly new to fab Looking to meet single females or couples And not having much luck Keep messaging people without very little reply

I’m no oil painting but not really sure what I’m doing wrong any advice would be great xx"

Change your user name

Its awful.

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By *r kinky OP Man
over a year ago

kettering

Hi people it seems it’s quite hard Interesting any females for meets ,,, that black Triangle rules this site I’m not bitter it just seems any female can have loads of fun a lot easier rant over

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By *r kinky OP Man
over a year ago

kettering

Hi people it seems it’s quite hard Interesting any females for meets ,,, that black Triangle rules this site I’m not bitter it just seems any female can have loads of fun a lot easier rant over

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Hi people it seems it’s quite hard Interesting any females for meets ,,, that black Triangle rules this site I’m not bitter it just seems any female can have loads of fun a lot easier rant over

You'd think so, wouldn't you but sadly, the site is stuffed full with men with your level of self entitlement so it's not easy at all.

Ps, the female of the human species is called a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi people it seems it’s quite hard Interesting any females for meets ,,, that black Triangle rules this site I’m not bitter it just seems any female can have loads of fun a lot easier rant over

If you can't accommodate, you are better off at clubs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh sad I have to mention this but, your ickle immature dvd, VHS is a bit old fashioned and not really funny - out of date 'joke'.....

Netflix, Britbox is your main source of entertainment these days!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

There is nothing exciting about your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ohhhh sad I have to mention this but, your ickle immature dvd, VHS is a bit old fashioned and not really funny - out of date 'joke'.....

Netflix, Britbox is your main source of entertainment these days!"

Agree it's an outdated form of subtle homophobia by stealth / humor

Been on over a year and still doesn't understand the site rules with the entitled request for a reply. After this long you think OP would understand that for some single women and couples sending out replies to the hundreds of messages received would be a part time job in itself. How is going to spend an hour every evening processing individual no thanks replys (that have to be done 1 by 1). Which also means every person you have told no thanks can now bypass your message filters forever unless you block them.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Even having pictures, it's still a slim chance for single guys but having none is pretty much zero.

The fact that's there's a filter for profiles without pictures says it all.

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"Hi people it seems it’s quite hard Interesting any females for meets ,,, that black Triangle rules this site I’m not bitter it just seems any female can have loads of fun a lot easier rant over

Alot of people on fab won't entertain people who cannot accommodate because it screams your married or attached and for many that's a no go area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new"

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new. "

Or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not "

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston"

8 weeks ain’t ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston"

Haha, that’s a great spot, I didn’t notice that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston

8 weeks ain’t ya

I'm not seeing the relevance of how long we've been members. 9 actually.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston

8 weeks ain’t ya

I'm not seeing the relevance of how long we've been members. 9 actually.

Winston"

So why correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He’s been on fab over a year. How’s he new

He posted that 30 weeks ago and he says ‘fairly new’. He could only have been on here for six months when he posted it which I would class as fairly new.

Or not

You've been here 8 months and your profile says new to this.

So at the time of posting the OP was more new than you.

Winston

Haha, that’s a great spot, I didn’t notice that. "

Made me chuckle too.

Winston.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I’m new here. Looking forward to meet new persons. I’m straight so please no offence

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