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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any guys on here that have actually met girls off here? Maybe I have the wrong approach but I'm not having any luck. I understand that girls have a lot of messages a day to contend with so it's understandable they can't get back to everyone. Are they looking for verification first? I am not using nude pics and were all here for NSA fun ain't we??

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

You've been here 5 weeks.... It's not insta-shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've been here 5 weeks.... It's not insta-shag "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think of this site abit like trying to pull on a night out, you get out what you put in, infact your more likely to have fun on a night out tbh.

so many people expect it to be easy, but it isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met plenty of single guys

Perseverance...is key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do hate this question, from any group on fab.Go into a profile, look at the verifications.Look at the clubs...they really wouldnt be able to run their business if nobody came to meet.Try looking at the site fully..almost every button/tab is a tool to guide u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait for them to come to you and hope your all free at the same time.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You've had some feedback on your other thread post, about your profile, which is one aspect of it.

Things don't usually happen quickly for you single guys on Fab, influenced by what you do to shift things.

Answer this to yourself -

what's your success record out pulling in the real world?

You're competing with the same people on Fab, so those with more of the wherewithal are likely to be more successful out there and on Fab.

You need patience, the right attributes, effort and some fortune. Single male for single female = ability to use a whole range of sites, real world, networking via friends, pubs, clubs etc. If you want to try swinging, visit swingers clubs and become friendly with others. Good luck!

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By *igTeeMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"You've been here 5 weeks.... It's not insta-shag "

Lmfao

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

[Removed by poster at 14/08/12 14:21:14]

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

In the outside world do you get sex a lot ? how do you approach females out there...

Here is much the same... take time...search for profiles that truly match what you offer.... craft a well written message selling yourself ...... and be patient

very few will reply probably as a percentage of the total you may send... that is not wrong, it is not a reflection on you... they just don't want sex with you.

all the best

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I have found a fool proof method my friend for a very small investment. Granted it is not everyone's cup of tea but it is guaranteed to get you a shag should you so choose it. Get yourself some doughnuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found a fool proof method my friend for a very small investment. Granted it is not everyone's cup of tea but it is guaranteed to get you a shag should you so choose it. Get yourself some doughnuts "
Jam or custard?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I have found a fool proof method my friend for a very small investment. Granted it is not everyone's cup of tea but it is guaranteed to get you a shag should you so choose it. Get yourself some doughnuts Jam or custard? "

chocolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hunny theres not alot of gen ladies on here could be that as you are only looking for them lol your file is cool nice face pic wish all men were like that alot put up cock pics only and thats a big put off

best of luck babes .

rose xxxxxx

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By *ourgeMan
over a year ago

stourport nr kidderminster

its hard work on hear . to get any thing , if your single , so i just go on the chat rooms ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

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By *urvesAllOverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better "

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Love how people complain about not getting anywhere on here!!

What makes people think that they are guaranteed a meet when they join sites like this??

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better "

Oooh, has someone been getting knocked back...

Never mind, I'm sure they'll come flocking after reading that post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications "
ive met from here, i just aint put the verifications up or verified them, you want names to ask em?? but the meets were not that good anyway, and one couldnt suck a cock to save here life lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications "

+1

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Love how people complain about not getting anywhere on here!!

What makes people think that they are guaranteed a meet when they join sites like this??"

Did you not see the site rules

"women should shag every man who mails them" because "it's a sex site ffs"

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By *urvesAllOverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications ive met from here, i just aint put the verifications up or verified them, you want names to ask em?? but the meets were not that good anyway, and one couldnt suck a cock to save here life lol "

Then why not leave the site and stop trying to irritate other users?

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By *urvesAllOverWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Are there any guys on here that have actually met girls off here? Maybe I have the wrong approach but I'm not having any luck. I understand that girls have a lot of messages a day to contend with so it's understandable they can't get back to everyone. Are they looking for verification first? I am not using nude pics and were all here for NSA fun ain't we??"

Why would a girl respond when the first line of your profile is "I am looking for girls who know how to please a guy"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

Oooh, has someone been getting knocked back...

Never mind, I'm sure they'll come flocking after reading that post "
lmfao, i dont message anyone to get knocked back, and i dont care about whether i get a fuck here or not, im just stating facts, loads feel like saying it but wont, but i will say it lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )"

why stay then, a genuine question

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I don't wish to be disrespectful and this isn't aimed at anyone in particular but I have been to gangbangs/meets(not just from this site but mainly from another one actually) where the men were neither well-endowed, handsome or even charming.

You don't have to look like Brad Pitt or have the body of a Greek God but yes, of course it helps.

I think persistence and perseverance are more important than physical attributes so don't give up OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications ive met from here, i just aint put the verifications up or verified them, you want names to ask em?? but the meets were not that good anyway, and one couldnt suck a cock to save here life lol

Then why not leave the site and stop trying to irritate other users? "
erm whos irritating anyone? its a forum for opinions aint it, and it aint aimed at no-one personally, and i pay my membership so i will say what i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only pretend to meet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )

why stay then, a genuine question"

cos i can lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )

why stay then, a genuine question

cos i can lol "

of course you can, I didn't mean anything by it... but if you have such a low opinion of any potential meet, why waste your time.

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By *winging In The RainMan
over a year ago

St Helens / Liverpool


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )

why stay then, a genuine question"

Not just staying on here to look at all of us 'mingers', put paying for a membership as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )

why stay then, a genuine question

cos i can lol

of course you can, I didn't mean anything by it... but if you have such a low opinion of any potential meet, why waste your time."

i dont see it as wasting my time, more passing time, im just giving a factual opinion, and most guys would agree if they were honest, i could go on about women wanting face pictures when they aint got any and demanding things in profiles etc, i still reckon only a small minority of women aint got their head up their own ass in here, and i blame the men, simple

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers about profiles )

why stay then, a genuine question

cos i can lol

of course you can, I didn't mean anything by it... but if you have such a low opinion of any potential meet, why waste your time.

i dont see it as wasting my time, more passing time, im just giving a factual opinion, and most guys would agree if they were honest, i could go on about women wanting face pictures when they aint got any and demanding things in profiles etc, i still reckon only a small minority of women aint got their head up their own ass in here, and i blame the men, simple"

I think some have got carried away with themselves and love the adulation and yes the fawning guys are partially to blame.... but is there any need to disrespect people as mingers. If you think they are not for you, just move on to the ones you are attracted to. There will be many and if they find you attractive, happy days.

If they don't, find someone on here who does. Or meet off site for sex

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and actually the same applies to guys who are successful and being chased by women.

each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also enjoy looking at womens headlines who got head up own ass and doing all the demanding...and they are moaning that guys aint genuine, let them down, they fake and they fed up of it etc etc, it just makes me smile and i think to myself that its penance lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"i also enjoy looking at womens headlines who got head up own ass and doing all the demanding...and they are moaning that guys aint genuine, let them down, they fake and they fed up of it etc etc, it just makes me smile and i think to myself that its penance lol"

I don't disagree with that. The same people moan all the times about being let down etc etc and more often than not, it says more about them than the other.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Some people give up and leave...

Some like to hang about and berate others...

The rest of us make the most of what the site offers........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looking at these comments is quiet funny you can only get what you put in ... eg would you go up to a stranger in the street and ask for a fuck , well if i did that i bet i ask a copper and get arrested lol .... so my _iew be respectful and hope you get it back ,if you dont just move on and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i also enjoy looking at womens headlines who got head up own ass and doing all the demanding...and they are moaning that guys aint genuine, let them down, they fake and they fed up of it etc etc, it just makes me smile and i think to myself that its penance lol"

Don;t take this wrong, but even though I assume you are deliberately trolling you are possibly the most vile unpleasent person I have seen on the forums.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

1) I wish now I had copywrited the term "insta-shag".... it will be my one swinging legacy....

2) those who are successful do get out what they put in, they may go to clubs or to socials, they may get themselves known in the chatrooms or on the forums.... but the one thing they all have in common is they are using the tools that the site gave them to make themselves stand out from the others?

what have you done so far?

its very easy to blame others, no so easy to look at yourself and say "what could i do/ how could i come across better?"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"i also enjoy looking at womens headlines who got head up own ass and doing all the demanding...and they are moaning that guys aint genuine, let them down, they fake and they fed up of it etc etc, it just makes me smile and i think to myself that its penance lol

Don;t take this wrong, but even though I assume you are deliberately trolling you are possibly the most vile unpleasent person I have seen on the forums."

And there's quite a bit of competition on here for that award!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, its easier to pull in the real world, way too many fussy mingers here who expect the world and brad pitt and a body of an adonis, and there is way too many men to compete with who will shag anything with a pulse anyway, you can get better looking in reality who just want a shag, its best not to come here expecting anything, not even a message cos unless you look like brad pitt and a body of an adonis you got 2 hopes, bob hope and no hope, i dont care what people say about profiles and what people say in them attracts, they go on looks 90% of the time and most who do are minging themselves, so just come in when your horny, have a wank at the most rated hot pix, wipe it, then fuck off and go do something better

And now it's clear to see why you have no verifications ive met from here, i just aint put the verifications up or verified them, you want names to ask em?? but the meets were not that good anyway, and one couldnt suck a cock to save here life lol "

.... so...... you suck cock better than her, do you...?????

Well now, ain't that a thing.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I see the original poster has been on Fab this afternoon, but hasn't really focused on the points that the respectful have raised. Perhaps we're wasting our time.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

loads of guys do .. they keep us girlies smiling !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And these type of threads always seem to show up the arse holes....makes it's easier to know which to avoid, but then I'm am so far stuck up my own arse, I would never notice them in the first place

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"And these type of threads always seem to show up the arse holes....makes it's easier to know which to avoid, but then I'm am so far stuck up my own arse, I would never notice them in the first place "

Yeah, we're so lucky to be told how minging we are.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"And these type of threads always seem to show up the arse holes....makes it's easier to know which to avoid, but then I'm am so far stuck up my own arse, I would never notice them in the first place

Yeah, we're so lucky to be told how minging we are."

Just makes him so much more endearing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was only wondering and will take in this advice. I understand why some people don't get no replys. I have re edited my profile. I was honest before but now it's now not so brief. I appreciate all the comments

Just hope to get some meets and some verefications I won't give up

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Are there any guys on here that have actually met girls off here? Maybe I have the wrong approach but I'm not having any luck. I understand that girls have a lot of messages a day to contend with so it's understandable they can't get back to everyone. Are they looking for verification first? I am not using nude pics and were all here for NSA fun ain't we??

Why would a girl respond when the first line of your profile is "I am looking for girls who know how to please a guy"?"

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Are there any guys on here that have actually met girls off here? Maybe I have the wrong approach but I'm not having any luck. I understand that girls have a lot of messages a day to contend with so it's understandable they can't get back to everyone. Are they looking for verification first? I am not using nude pics and were all here for NSA fun ain't we??"

on average about 1,000 girls a day mail me....I have to keep blocking them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was only wondering and will take in this advice. I understand why some people don't get no replys. I have re edited my profile. I was honest before but now it's now not so brief. I appreciate all the comments

Just hope to get some meets and some verefications I won't give up"

glad u took on board some of the positive critiscm: but ur narrow age limit surely will still be a hinderance

basically 18yr olds on the site are rare,if even genuine(for meets...or fakes)-and ur going up to 32females U have to understand are not many...really!

If u want to increase ur chances at getting meets I'd advise a somewhat more open age bracket...at the end of it, its sexual meets i believe u intend to have..normally, going for around ur own age to me, appears like looking for more of a partner.Plenty of lovely women in a raised age bar I have to say...I've met a good few..and hope to meet more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there any guys on here that have actually met girls off here? Maybe I have the wrong approach but I'm not having any luck. I understand that girls have a lot of messages a day to contend with so it's understandable they can't get back to everyone. Are they looking for verification first? I am not using nude pics and were all here for NSA fun ain't we??

Why would a girl respond when the first line of your profile is "I am looking for girls who know how to please a guy"?

"

Point taken

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see the original poster has been on Fab this afternoon, but hasn't really focused on the points that the respectful have raised. Perhaps we're wasting our time."

I have taken in your points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And these type of threads always seem to show up the arse holes....makes it's easier to know which to avoid, but then I'm am so far stuck up my own arse, I would never notice them in the first place "

listening that is quite funny while looking at ur avatar pic lol..cant exactly see ur arsehole...but dunno if theres anything stuck up it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met plenty of single guys

Perseverance...is key!

"

It totally is !!!

To the orginal op,you will get there,and i do tend to find alot of people saying you have only been here a while its not instant, well hunnio it could be just get yourselve out there and get into it , good messages with wit and humor be yourselve and get naughty

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