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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips and advice when sending someone a message for the first time

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By *ockdownerMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Any tips and advice when sending someone a message for the first time"

Words, in a particular order designed to elicit a sexual response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips and advice when sending someone a message for the first time

Words, in a particular order designed to elicit a sexual response "

You think ? It’s a hard question your not wrong tho

just honestly depends on the girl your talking to !

Just don’t come off desperate or sleazy it’s not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol

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By *rafficvanMan
over a year ago

Middletown

Don't understand why they want a photo with the message if no photo no reply.... Profile pics got my face still no reply..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol"

I think I read you saying this the other day made me laugh ?

Just as an experiment I’m gonna whip the offer of a cake out ? If it works that would be hilarious if I see you on again I’ll keep you posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips and advice when sending someone a message for the first time"

Just be yourselves ...

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

If you're a couple asking...Just say its the lady here...Guaranteed response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this one lots of people asking face pictures with first message which is fine as long as they have there face on profile as I think it’s just rude to ask for something that they are not showing or you wouldn’t see

People like to keep fab private so I like to chat with people a while before sending face pictures or any personal information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah why rush the cautious approach is definitely the good way to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol"

Cakes all around lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any advise on how to have some fun here? ... Lots of time waster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like this one lots of people asking face pictures with first message which is fine as long as they have there face on profile as I think it’s just rude to ask for something that they are not showing or you wouldn’t see

People like to keep fab private so I like to chat with people a while before sending face pictures or any personal information "

We are the same for all we know someone who we know mite be on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this isn’t going to work but I’m not going straight in with “ what up “ want me to bake you a pino colada cake I’ll try the subtle approach then just throw it out there !

Right let’s see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advise on how to have some fun here? ... Lots of time waster"

Apparently cake is a big thing ? Who knew eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any advise on how to have some fun here? ... Lots of time waster"

We find cause we don’t have any Verifications even tho we are photo Verified people won’t reply to us we only join a few weeks ago and with COVID it’s hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any advise on how to have some fun here? ... Lots of time waster

We find cause we don’t have any Verifications even tho we are photo Verified people won’t reply to us we only join a few weeks ago and with COVID it’s hard."

Just means you’s are picky !!! Not a bad thing !

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Try just being normal without the direct approach get to know them as a human being any information that might have caught your attention from their bio but still change the topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol

I think I read you saying this the other day made me laugh ?

Just as an experiment I’m gonna whip the offer of a cake out ? If it works that would be hilarious if I see you on again I’ll keep you posted "

Works for me .. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol

I think I read you saying this the other day made me laugh ?

Just as an experiment I’m gonna whip the offer of a cake out ? If it works that would be hilarious if I see you on again I’ll keep you posted

Works for me .. Good luck x"
you can see it might not be as easy for me as it is for you right ? For obvious reasons !

Sure anyway we’ll see how it plays out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't start with babe or hun.

Read profile

Be unique and not an ass

No cock photos first message

Offer cakes...that works...lol"

Currently have face pressed against the door waiting to buy ALL the cakes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this isn’t going to work but I’m not going straight in with “ what up “ want me to bake you a pino colada cake I’ll try the subtle approach then just throw it out there !

Right let’s see "

Personally I think it will work . I would love the idea of a pino colada cake . That sounds awesome!! I really really want one of those now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get this isn’t going to work but I’m not going straight in with “ what up “ want me to bake you a pino colada cake I’ll try the subtle approach then just throw it out there !

Right let’s see

Personally I think it will work . I would love the idea of a pino colada cake . That sounds awesome!! I really really want one of those now. "

It did work ! Kinda more in jest but she said yeah !

Ok Consider it done mate ! Sure making 2 is no different then making 1 !

I’ve never baked put let’s go with that !

I’m from Ireland so bare with me getting it over might might be a task !

but watch I’ll make this work !

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