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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK. So as a single male it's somewhat a tough place to be on fab. Every interesting profile is definitely going to be overwhelmed with instrest. I try to come across as a genuine respect towards all people on here.

I was hoping I could get some advice.

- is my profile okay?

- what makes a message stand out, I try to pick up details on there profiles but it feels like its lost?

Thanks for any advice its greatfully received.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Nobody needs to know if you've been here before (we often wonder why people keep leaving and coming back), or that you're professional. You could do with some clothed pics, maybe some casual, some smart. Put in your profile a little about what you're into. You're one of thousands on here so good luck. When clubs open they may be a good option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above comment. The top half of your profile about being here before and being professional is irrelevant.

There’s really very little about you, what you can offer and what you like. Very minimal effort. You’re not my type physically, but even if you were your profile wouldn’t interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also all your penis pictures are pretty much the same. I’d just keep one,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the responses. I did think it might be a bit vague in terms of descriptions.

I came off fab because I was in a relationship so therefore deleted the old profile. But if this info is irrelevant than I'll remove it.

I'll also address the amount of penis pics. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the responses. I did think it might be a bit vague in terms of descriptions.

I came off fab because I was in a relationship so therefore deleted the old profile. But if this info is irrelevant than I'll remove it.

I'll also address the amount of penis pics. ??"

It’s more that the penis pics were exactly the same, just from a slightly different angle. By all means have a few, but if they’re the same you may as well not bother.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

That's better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reply to your post op... I've found it's tough for single male if...(from female perspective)

1. Their are an ass

2. Not read profile

3. the other person doesn't click, then the male been abusive

4. Just not the persons cup of tea

5. starts chat with.....hi babe

6. Puts zero effort to expect 100% reply

7. Sometimes literally is too many fish in fab pond.

But there is someone for everyone.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Also all your penis pictures are pretty much the same. I’d just keep one, "

Still too many for me

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP no amount of words or pics will work, unless you actually behave like a gentleman in both messages and real life.

The first step to sending a good message is to read a woman's profile and totally respect her written wishes. It is never 'worth a shot' if you do not match 100%.

A woman's profile will have likely been edited and honed to try and stop getting messages from all the jerks that think a message = free sex. Ignore at your peril.

If you send good messages, then your profile should feel good to read and view if you have intrigued someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's better "

Thanks for the assistance ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP no amount of words or pics will work, unless you actually behave like a gentleman in both messages and real life.

The first step to sending a good message is to read a woman's profile and totally respect her written wishes. It is never 'worth a shot' if you do not match 100%.

A woman's profile will have likely been edited and honed to try and stop getting messages from all the jerks that think a message = free sex. Ignore at your peril.

If you send good messages, then your profile should feel good to read and view if you have intrigued someone."

I will always try and make my message a good one by fully understanding there profile.

Thanks for your help. Much appreciated

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