FabSwingers.com forum: BDSM club intro (Kent / London)

By *imandkirsty OP Couple
over a year ago

maidstone

Hi all,

We are interested in going to a BDSM club, but a bit scared! lol.

We are in Maidstone, Kent but happy to head into London/Brighton etc

Looking for a couple to meet up with for a social and then go with us to a club to show us around and help us feel less nervous!

We have been to a number of swinging clubs but never BDSM

Hope someone can help

Thanks

Tim + Kirsty

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By *ady H and steveCouple
over a year ago

raylirgh

we also are interested but dont know what to do...lol

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

What ^^^ they both said!? Lol.

Are there any good ones in the South?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

We are interested in going to a BDSM club, but a bit scared! lol.

We are in Maidstone, Kent but happy to head into London/Brighton etc

Looking for a couple to meet up with for a social and then go with us to a club to show us around and help us feel less nervous!

We have been to a number of swinging clubs but never BDSM

Hope someone can help

Thanks

Tim + Kirsty

Have a look at torturegarden.com

Used to chat with a couple on another site who went to loads of their parties and they though they were the dogs danglies - the parties, not the couple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people we know think TG has become a victim of it's own success. There are still play areas but it's very much about posing.

Most of the clubs in London are monthly or bi monthly club nights and a lot depends on what you are looking for. You have just missed Decadence (last weekend), there as Anti-Christ in 2 weeks but unless you like alt/goth/metal might not be your thing. If you do it;'s a good starting place as there are several music rooms (and plenty just there for that) plus a dungeon and a couples room.

If you are nervous munches are probably a good starting point as you can meet people in a more vanilla environment.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

google

londonfetishweekend, it might be a dot com url

a weekend of fetish and bdsm markets and parties in london

5th - 7th October

Or if your looking for something local try one of the nights at DV8 such as club XS

CLUBXS - Monthly fetish club held on the last Friday of every month. DV8 is a Kent venue situated in 52 acres of land, secluded from the general public only 30 minutes from South London situated between junctions 4 and 5 on the M2 motorway accessible from the Medway services (Moto). "

Like most swing venues if your new the organisers will be happy to do a tour and introduce you to suitable folks. The dungeons at clubs like these will have DM's, Dungeon Master/Mistresses/Monitors who are there to explain how things work and that they are used safely. Talk to them they are there to help.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Torture Garden, whilst the parties are awesome events, are not really about the BDSM scene anymore. They are more about very pretty people, dressing in amazing outfits, showing as much flesh as is possible. And trust me it is quite a lot of flesh sometimes. However, the Brighton ones I have attended are less poser ish. I'd suggest finding a BDSM munch or social rather then going to a specialist club, especially if you are not sure what aspect of kink you are into yet.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Thanks for the pointers guys and girls....

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time we went to Abfabs it was a fetish night with some of the kinda things you may be looking for going on in the dungeon area, I think they do have a specific BDSM night also, details probably on website x

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

try hellfire good kit etc. depends if u want 2 pose or play! look us up we play at a few IF u wanta try 4 real.

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By *atasha_DavidCouple
over a year ago

Slough

"Last time we went to Abfabs it was a fetish night with some of the kinda things you may be looking for going on in the dungeon area, I think they do have a specific BDSM night also, details probably on website x "

I think their one and the same, last friday of the month.

Or most Monday nights when we are there

We are happy to demo/explain just say hello

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